Does anyone else's female lead always end up in charge, even if the male lead is way stronger?
Hey everyone,
I've been thinking about the character dynamics in male/female duos lately.
In the story I'm currently working on, the duo consists of a washed-up, out-of-touch old samurai and a young female livestreamer hero. In terms of pure combat power, the old samurai is overwhelmingly stronger, and she genuinely respects him as a master.
However, she's definitely not just a damsel to be protected. Since he is completely clueless about modern streaming culture and public relations, she manages him, supports his content, and frequently scolds him whenever he does something completely out of line.
So even though she's younger and much weaker in a fight, in their everyday power balance, she clearly wears the pants haha.
Whenever I try to write a male/female duo, it almost instinctively ends up in this kind of dynamic. Do you think this is a reflection of how modern audiences view female characters, or is it purely my own writing preference/trope obsession showing through?
For those who write male/female duos, how do you handle the balance between raw power, social competence, and overall dynamic? Do you have specific rules you follow?