u/mumzel

25 [TF4M] #Malmo #Sweden

25 [TF4M] #Malmo #Sweden

Hiya! I’m Mumzel ✨ I haven’t really had much luck with dating apps, so I figured I’d try this instead. Mainly looking for genuine connection, someone to game with, vc with, and naturally become part of each other’s lives over time.

I’m a 25 year old trans woman from Sweden with British and Pakistani roots. I can be a little shy at first, but once I’m comfortable I become very talkative, playful, and affectionate. I care deeply about the people I let close to me and tend to connect best with people who are emotionally aware, communicative, and actually put effort into getting to know me.

Gaming has been a huge part of my life since childhood. I grew up on Minecraft and Sonic, and nowadays I mostly play League, Overwatch, Fortnite, Dead by Daylight, Outlast Trials, Tales games, Sonic games, and Baldur’s Gate 3. I love both competitive games and cozy/story driven ones depending on the mood.

Outside of gaming I stream a lot, go to the gym, occasionally do drag performances, and spend way too much time sitting in vc or hanging around in VRChat 😭 I’ve also been vegan since 2019 and it’s something I’m very passionate about.

I love deeper conversations, playful banter, people who can make me laugh, and people who actually know how to hold a conversation beyond “hey wyd” LMAO.

Physically I’m 181 cm if that matters to you ♡

u/mumzel — 4 days ago
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25 [TF4M] #sweden #online Looking for a gamer man with a passion!

Heya ✨

I’m Mumzel, 25, from Sweden with British and Pakistani background. Most of my free time goes into gaming, streaming, vc, gym, and occasional drag performances for fun.

I’ve been vegan since 2019 and gaming has been a huge part of my life since childhood. Right now I mostly play League, Overwatch, Fortnite, DBD, Outlast Trials, Sonic games, Prince of Persia, Tales games, and Baldur’s Gate 3. I enjoy both competitive and chill games depending on the mood, but I especially love story driven games.

I’m usually online during afternoons and late nights. Mainly looking for people I genuinely click with, whether that becomes gaming friends or naturally turns into something deeper over time.

I tend to like people who are communicative, emotionally aware, playful, and actually put effort into getting to know me. Biggest green flag to me is someone who takes initiative and genuinely wants to spend time together instead of keeping things surface level aka I don't want just a "chat friend" if you know what I mean😭.

If you message me, please actually introduce yourself properly ♡ Tell me for example what games you play or something that makes you stand out to everyone else.

“Hey” or “wyd” won’t get a reply 💯

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u/mumzel — 7 days ago

25 [TF4A] Looking for all comp players :)

EU player looking for chill Overwatch people to queue with ✨

I mainly play tank and I’m currently Plat 5 in 6v6. Dva is my comfort pick but I also play Rein quite a bit. I play both 6v6 and 5v5 depending on mood.

I’m based in Sweden so I’m on CET time and usually play during afternoons/nights.

VC is nice but not mandatory. Mostly just looking for friendly people who can communicate, have fun, and not make the game miserable 😭 Open to duos, full groups, comp, casual, whatever honestly.

Feel free to DM me a little intro about yourself if you think we’d vibe 🤍

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u/mumzel — 7 days ago
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Vegan transgirl/drag queen traveling to Amsterdam/Netherlands for World Pride for the first time. What should I do / what should I see?

Hellu!

As you can tell by the title, I have some questions regarding traveling to Amsterdam.

- What hotels are best to choose from and that are queer/vegan friendly? I prefer hotels which are close to the central. Preferably not WAYYY to expensive but it can be debated depending on what they offer. My main priority is safety and feeling taken good care of when traveling so that is why I usually only pick well known hotels unless other better suggestions.

- Any good vegan places to go to?

- Best places to hangout as a queer person?

- Places you have to see? I am gamer by heart, but if there isn't anything related to that just a place where I feel like at peace or an "aha" moment, e.g. I have previously seen the berlin wall - that was okay.

- What is reasonable amount of money to have with you for a 2 night stay?

- Anything I should think of when it comes to safety concerns?

- I only know english/swedish. Is there issues with them speaking english there?

- Overall anything I should know of when first time visiting which most people do not think of or do?

Thank you for all the answers =)

P.S. if there are any good subs to post these questions on, lmk!

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u/mumzel — 9 days ago

25 | Malmo, Sweden | Looking for my husband ♡

Heya ♡

25 from Sweden, usually found either gaming, streaming, rotting in vc with friends, or pretending I’ll sleep early for once 😭

I’m into a mix of competitive and chill games. I love story focused stuff like Sonic, Tales games, and Prince of Persia, but I also spend way too much time on League, Overwatch, Fortnite, and DBD.

Big fan of people who are genuine, funny, emotionally aware, and can actually keep a conversation alive instead of sending “wyd” every 8 hours LMAO.

Also vegan, gym enjoyer, occasional drag creature, and probably online way later than I should be ♡

u/mumzel — 10 days ago

25 [TF4A] Looking for respectful gold/plat players!

EU player looking for chill Overwatch people to queue with ✨

I mainly play tank and I’m currently Plat 5 in 6v6. Dva is my comfort pick but I also play Rein quite a bit. I play both 6v6 and 5v5 depending on mood.

I’m based in Sweden so I’m on CET time and usually play during afternoons/nights.

VC is nice but not mandatory. Mostly just looking for friendly people who can communicate, have fun, and not make the game miserable 😭 Open to duos, full groups, comp, casual, whatever honestly.

Feel free to DM me a little intro about yourself if you think we’d vibe 🤍

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u/mumzel — 10 days ago

25 [F4M] #sweden #online Looking for a stable man with a job & likes video games!

Hellu! 🎮

I’m mostly here hoping to meet people I genuinely click with long term, whether that becomes close friendships, gaming duos, or maybe something deeper naturally over time if the energy is mutual 💯

🏳️‍⚧️🦋 About me

I’m Mumzel, 25, a trans woman from Sweden with British and Pakistani roots. Most of my free time goes into gaming and streaming since that’s where I feel the most comfortable and social. I also go to the gym a few times a week and occasionally do drag performances for fun ^^

I’m usually online during late afternoons and nights. If I’m not gaming, I’m probably sitting in vc with friends, hanging around in VRChat, or sending memes to people instead of sleeping 😭

🎮 Games I play

DBD, Overwatch, League, Outlast Trials, Fortnite, Sonic games, etc.

I also love story and adventure games like Tales games, SAO Fractured Daydream and Prince of Persia. I can get competitive sometimes, but honestly I care way more about chemistry and having fun together than sweating every match.

💚✨ People I usually get along with

I love people who are communicative, playful, emotionally aware, and actually know how to keep a connection going. The biggest green flag to me is someone who naturally wants to spend time together and makes effort without being asked.

I really appreciate people who invite me to games, vc, or friend groups and make me feel included in their world. I’ll always return the same energy back 🤍

I’m someone who enjoys both silly banter and deeper conversations. Starting as friends is important to me because I like connections that build naturally over time instead of forcing things too fast. If feelings happen later on for both of us, then cute, we’ll see where life goes ^^

📩 If you message me

Please introduce yourself properly! Tell me what games you play, your timezone, your playstyle, or just what kind of person you are. Effort is genuinely attractive to me, so messages with personality stand out way more than a simple “hey”.

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u/mumzel — 10 days ago

25 [TF4A] Looking for respectful gamers!

25 [TF4A] Looking for gamers to play with!

Your Age/Age Range: 18+

Acceptable ages of new friends: Not important

Gender: Trans woman 🏳️‍⚧️

Your Timezone: GMT+1 (Sweden)

Typical play time (in your timezone): Evenings / Graveyard (late-night gamer)

Accent: Neutral/american

Genre: Competitive multiplayer games, adventure/story-driven games, and some casual co-op games

Favourite games: League of Legends, Fortnite, Dead by Daylight, Overwatch, The Outlast Trials, Sonic games, Tales games, SAO fractured daydream, etc

Steam ID: https://steamcommunity.com/id/Mumzel/ (just send me a steam message when u add me!)

Discord ID: mumzel (just send me a steam message when u add me!)

Language(s): English, Swedish

u/mumzel — 10 days ago
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25 [TF4M] #sweden #online Looking for my wholesome person :3

Heya ✨

I’m Mumzel, 25, from Sweden with British and Pakistani background. I spend most of my free time gaming, streaming, hanging out in vc, going to the gym, and occasionally doing drag performances for fun.

I’ve been vegan since 2019 and I’m very passionate about it. My go to comfort food is probably vegan kebab pizza 😭

Gaming has been a huge part of my life since childhood. I grew up playing games like Minecraft and Sonic, and nowadays I mostly play League, Overwatch, Fortnite, Dead by Daylight, The Outlast Trials, Tales games, Sonic games, and Baldur’s Gate 3. I enjoy both competitive and casual games depending on the mood, but I especially love adventure and story focused games.

I’m usually online during afternoons and late nights. I enjoy relaxed gaming sessions, voice chats, and meeting people naturally through shared interests. Sometimes I also hang around in VRChat just to socialize.

Personality wise I’m pretty talkative once comfortable. I enjoy both dumb/funny conversations and more meaningful ones. I appreciate people who can genuinely engage and hold conversations instead of just sending one word messages every day 😭

Always happy to meet more friendly people who enjoy gaming, vc, and good conversations 🤍

Wont respond to low effort messages like "hey" or "wyd".

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u/mumzel — 11 days ago

25 [TF4A] Looking for serious gold/plat players!

EU player looking for chill Overwatch people to queue with ✨

I mainly play tank and I’m currently Plat 5 in 6v6. Dva is my comfort pick but I also play Rein quite a bit. I play both 6v6 and 5v5 depending on mood.

I’m based in Sweden so I’m on CET time and usually play during afternoons/nights.

VC is nice but not mandatory. Mostly just looking for friendly people who can communicate, have fun, and not make the game miserable 😭 Open to duos, full groups, comp, casual, whatever honestly.

Feel free to DM me a little intro about yourself if you think we’d vibe 🤍

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u/mumzel — 12 days ago

25 [TF4A] Looking for gold/plat players!

EU | Plat 4 Tank | Comp

Hey! I’m looking for people to play Overwatch. I’m Plat 4 on tank (6v6), mainly playing Dva and sometimes Rein. I play as well 5v5 as tank (gold 1).

My timezone is CET (Swedish timezone).

I use voice chat but it’s totally fine if you don’t, just looking for chill, friendly people who enjoy playing and can communicate.

It does not matter if it is just us two or multiple people who play together!

If you’re down, send me a DM introducing yourself 🤍

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u/mumzel — 14 days ago

25 | Malmo, Sweden | Looking for a serious relationship ♡

Hii :3

25 year old femboy from Sweden who spends most nights gaming, streaming, and talking way too much in vc once comfortable. I’m into both competitive and cozy games, especially story driven ones like Sonic and Tales games, but I also play stuff like League, Overwatch, DBD, and Fortnite.

I love genuine people, playful energy, deeper late night conversations, and people who actually know how to hold a conversation beyond “hey wyd” 😭

Also vegan, gym enjoyer, occasional drag gremlin, and probably typing faster than you right now ♡

u/mumzel — 14 days ago

25 [TF4M] #sweden #online - Looking for MY man!

Hi there :)

I’m Mumzel, 25, a trans woman from Sweden with British and Pakistani roots. Most of my time goes into gaming and streaming, with some gym sessions and occasional drag performances on the side.

I usually connect with people through shared interests like gaming, voice chats, and just spending time together naturally. I tend to click best with people who are genuine, emotionally aware, and can hold an actual conversation.

I’ve been vegan since 2019 and my comfort food is definitely vegan kebab pizza ♡

I’ve been gaming since I was little, starting with Minecraft and Sonic. I enjoy both competitive and casual games depending on the mood. Some games I play are League, Fortnite, Dead by Daylight, Overwatch, The Outlast Trials, Sonic, Tales games, and Baldur’s Gate 3. I especially love adventure and story driven games.

I’m usually online during afternoons and late nights. I enjoy both chill gaming sessions and vc, and sometimes I hang out in VRChat just to socialize.

I’m playful once I’m comfortable, but I also enjoy deeper conversations. I appreciate people who actually engage and show interest instead of just sending “hey” every day 😭

Always happy to meet new people who enjoy gaming and good conversations 🤍

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u/mumzel — 14 days ago

Hi there :)

I’m Mumzel, 25, a trans woman from Sweden with British and Pakistani roots. Most of my time goes into gaming and streaming, with some gym sessions and occasional drag performances on the side.

I usually connect with people through shared interests like gaming, voice chats, and just spending time together naturally. I tend to click best with people who are genuine, emotionally aware, and can hold an actual conversation.

I’ve been vegan since 2019 and my comfort food is definitely vegan kebab pizza ♡

I’ve been gaming since I was little, starting with Minecraft and Sonic. I enjoy both competitive and casual games depending on the mood. Some games I play are League, Fortnite, Dead by Daylight, Overwatch, The Outlast Trials, Sonic, Tales games, and Baldur’s Gate 3. I especially love adventure and story driven games.

I’m usually online during afternoons and late nights. I enjoy both chill gaming sessions and vc, and sometimes I hang out in VRChat just to socialize.

I’m playful once I’m comfortable, but I also enjoy deeper conversations. I appreciate people who actually engage and show interest instead of just sending “hey” every day 😭

Always happy to meet new people who enjoy gaming and good conversations 🤍

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u/mumzel — 14 days ago

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Hii :3
25 year old femboy from Sweden who spends most nights gaming, streaming, and talking way too much in vc once comfortable. I’m into both competitive and cozy games, especially story driven ones like Sonic and Tales games, but I also play stuff like League, Overwatch, DBD, and Fortnite.

I love genuine people, playful energy, deeper late night conversations, and people who actually know how to hold a conversation beyond “hey wyd” 😭

Also vegan, gym enjoyer, occasional drag gremlin, and probably typing faster than you right now ♡

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u/mumzel — 14 days ago
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Hi there :)

I’m Mumzel, 25, a trans woman from Sweden with British and Pakistani roots. I spend most of my time gaming and streaming, and I balance that with going to the gym a few times a week. I also do drag and perform every now and then :)

I like meeting people in a natural way through shared interests, mainly gaming, talking, and just spending time together over time. I tend to click best with people who are genuine, emotionally aware, and actually know how to communicate.

I’ve been vegan since 2019 and it’s an important part of my life. My favorite comfort food is vegan kebab pizza, but I’m into all kinds of vegan food.

I’ve been gaming since I was really young, starting with Minecraft and Sonic. I enjoy both competitive and casual games depending on the mood. I play League of Legends, Fortnite, Dead by Daylight, Overwatch, The Outlast Trials, Sonic, Tales games, and Baldur’s Gate 3 which I still need to properly get into. My favorite genre is definitely adventure and story driven games.

I’m more of an afternoon to late night gamer and I enjoy both chill sessions and voice chat. I also hang out in VRChat sometimes just to socialize.

Personality wise I enjoy deeper conversations but I’m also playful once I’m comfortable. I like people who can match both sides and aren’t afraid to be themselves. I also appreciate people who actually show interest by engaging, whether that’s playing games together or just being present.

I don’t really respond to low effort messages like “hey”, excite me! Always happy to meet new people who enjoy gaming and good conversations 🤍

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u/mumzel — 16 days ago

EU | Plat 4 Tank | Comp

Hey! I’m looking for people to play Overwatch. I’m Plat 4 on tank (6v6), mainly playing Dva and sometimes Rein. I play as well 5v5 as tank (gold 1).

My timezone is CET (Swedish timezone).

I use voice chat but it’s totally fine if you don’t, just looking for chill, friendly people who enjoy playing and can communicate.

It does not matter if it is just us two or multiple people who play together!

If you’re down, send me a DM introducing yourself 🤍

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u/mumzel — 18 days ago

Only connect with me if you’re genuine 🤍

I’m here for real connection, not small talk. If you message me, actually introduce yourself. Messages like “hey” or “wyd” won’t get a reply.

🏳️‍⚧️ About Me

I’m a 25 year old trans woman living in Sweden, originally from the UK with a British Pakistani background.

I work in customer service and plan to go back to university after summer to study social work or counseling. In 2025 I moved into my own place and built an independent life I’m proud of.

I spend a lot of time gaming and streaming, and I’m also really into makeup, drag, and performing. Right now I play Dead by Daylight, Overwatch, Outlast Trials, League, Deadlock and Sonic. I also love the Tales series, Prince of Persia and Crash Bandicoot.

I’ve been vegan since I was 19. I value people who think for themselves and are consistent. I’m more introverted at first, but once I’m comfortable I’m playful and open.

💚 What I’m Looking For

I want something natural that builds over time with mutual effort.

I’m drawn to masculine leaning, confident people who can take initiative. I match the energy I get.

Emotional awareness matters to me. I usually connect best with people who are more agnostic or non religious and have center left values.

Veganism is important to me, so either sharing that or being genuinely open to it matters.

I’m 181 cm and usually prefer taller partners. I also tend to connect better with people 30 and up who are more stable in life.

If you value depth and real effort, tell me who you are. I’d love to hear it. Just don’t open with something low effort!

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u/mumzel — 18 days ago
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Only connect with me if you’re genuine 🤍

I’m here for real connection, not small talk. If you message me, actually introduce yourself. Messages like “hey” or “wyd” won’t get a reply.

🏳️‍⚧️ About Me

I’m a 25 year old trans woman living in Sweden, originally from the UK with a British Pakistani background.

I work in customer service and plan to go back to university after summer to study social work or counseling. In 2025 I moved into my own place and built an independent life I’m proud of.

I spend a lot of time gaming and streaming, and I’m also really into makeup, drag, and performing. Right now I play Dead by Daylight, Overwatch, Outlast Trials, League, Deadlock and Sonic. I also love the Tales series, Prince of Persia and Crash Bandicoot.

I’ve been vegan since I was 19. I value people who think for themselves and are consistent. I’m more introverted at first, but once I’m comfortable I’m playful and open.

💚 What I’m Looking For

I want something natural that builds over time with mutual effort.

I’m drawn to masculine leaning, confident people who can take initiative. I match the energy I get.

Emotional awareness matters to me. I usually connect best with people who are more agnostic or non religious and have center left values.

Veganism is important to me, so either sharing that or being genuinely open to it matters.

I’m 181 cm and usually prefer taller partners. I also tend to connect better with people 30 and up who are more stable in life.

If you value depth and real effort, tell me who you are. I’d love to hear it. Just don’t open with something low effort.

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u/mumzel — 18 days ago
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I don’t reply to low-effort messages like “hey” or “wyd,” so if you reach out, introduce yourself properly so I can get a sense of who you are 🤍

Hii! UwU
I’m hoping to connect with someone who genuinely aligns with me. If you’re reading this, please take the time to read it fully, I appreciate it 💯

**🏳️‍⚧️ About Me**
The basics: I’m a 25-year-old trans woman living in Sweden. I was born in the UK (Sheffield/London) and have a British-Pakistani background.

Work & future: I currently work in customer service, but after summer I’m planning to go back to studying, aiming for social work or counselling. I’ve worked hard to build my own life and got my own place in 2025.

Interests: Gaming and streaming are my safe spaces. I’m also into makeup, drag, and performing.

Games: Recently I’ve been playing Dead by Daylight, Overwatch, Outlast Trials, League, Deadlock, and Sonic. I also really enjoy Prince of Persia, the Tales series, and Crash Bandicoot.

Values: I’ve been an ethical vegan since I was 19, and I really value consistency and people who think for themselves. I enjoy deeper conversations, but I’m also playful once I feel comfortable.

**💚 What I’m Looking For**
I want something that feels natural and builds over time. Here’s what matters to me:

Dynamic: I’m more introverted, so I tend to click best with someone more masculine-leaning who is socially confident and comfortable taking the lead. I appreciate initiative and I’ll reflect that energy back.

Emotional depth: Small talk doesn’t do much for me. I’m drawn to people who are curious, emotionally aware, and can make me think or feel something.

Consistency: I notice effort, so stability matters a lot. I’m looking for someone who is genuinely invested and wants to be part of my life.

Lifestyle: Since I’m an ethical vegan, it’s a big plus if you are too, or at least very open-minded about it.

Beliefs & politics: I’m agnostic and ex-Muslim, so I usually connect better with people who aren’t very religious. Politically, I lean center-left.

Physical/age: I’m 181 cm and usually prefer someone taller, though it’s not a strict dealbreaker if the connection is right. It’s also a big plus if you’re 30+ since I tend to find that stage of life comes with more maturity.

One last thing: intention matters.

I don’t reply to low-effort messages like “hey” or “wyd,” so if you reach out, introduce yourself properly so I can get a sense of who you are 🤍

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u/mumzel — 20 days ago