u/myeyezwontlie

Why are younger guys so hesitant about serious relationships with an older women and how can I make one stay?

I’ve dated so many guys in their 20s and early 30s, and almost all of them have been pretty amazing but most of them barely seem interested in a long term relationship and usually only hit me up when they want something casual or a quick hookup.

I often feel like I give them the best sex they’ve ever had, but things rarely last beyond two months. I can’t help but wonder what I’m doing wrong.

Sometimes I think having grown kids might be a turnoff for them and makes them less interested in pursuing something serious with me.

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u/myeyezwontlie — 10 days ago

I’m 52 trying to find a partner who’s closer to my age or even a bit older.

The problem is, the only men I seem to attract are much younger, usually in the 20 to 28 range, around my sons age.

I do find younger men appealing, but I’m really looking for a serious relationship and hoping to get married again at this stage in my life.

Unfortunately, men over 45 don’t seem to approach me in real life or show much interest, and I’m not sure why.

It could be the way I dress or something else. I’ve always thought I might come across as a bit intimidating, but younger men don’t seem to have any issue approaching me.

So I’m feeling pretty confused about what’s going on.

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u/myeyezwontlie — 23 days ago

I’m 52 trying to find a partner who’s closer to my age or even a bit older.

The problem is, the only men I seem to attract are much younger, usually in the 20 to 28 range, around my sons age.

I do find younger men appealing, but I’m really looking for a serious relationship and hoping to get married again at this stage in my life.

Unfortunately, men over 45 don’t seem to approach me in real life or show much interest, and I’m not sure why.

It could be the way I dress or something else. I’ve always thought I might come across as a bit intimidating, but younger men don’t seem to have any issue approaching me.

So I’m feeling pretty confused about what’s going on.

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u/myeyezwontlie — 24 days ago