u/nagisa_darling

Feel free to ask away any burning questions! I will give my honest answer for all sincere and respectful questions!

I thought I'd post in here and do an AMA because no one really talks about sex workers.

Feel free to reply here or DM me (My DMs will be temporarily open)

Nothing is out of bounds! But do maintain respect for sincere questions. Let's be civil together!

I know this is taboo but my goal is just to answer as many questions for anyone who never got to have those questions answered from a hooker/prostitute/escort/callgirl.

I'm 25, and have been doing this since the start of June 2026, I take home between $300 - $1,000 a week.

Here are some common questions:

Can I engage with you? Unless you are in my region, no. To add on, I only do outcalls.

Can we be friends? I don't do casual friendship as I'm running a business.

How do you get paid? I have a deposit system. Clients will pay me to book me. The rest of the payment is made before we start our session.

How do I become an escort? It's not for everyone. You need to seriously know your bedroom kinks and have experience in pleasuring someone. It's not for the sex-averse.

Why are you an escort? For personal financial reasons.

This happened a few months ago but my brain just likes to torture me with painful memories. I remember I had an ex-boyfriend who was cis. He wasn't always agreeable to get into sex with me but I never pushed his boundaries. One night, he started feeling horny and I was so excited to spend sexy time with him. I wanted to take his dick in my ass. After he lubed himself up, he fumbled a lot. I finally received my first anal play but it wasn't as exciting as I thought. Then I thought to myself, "If only I had a pussy." I don't know why but then I started crying intensely. He thought I was in pain but I couldn't get words to describe why I was crying. I leaned on his shoulder and cried for like 1 hour until I calmed down. Then I slowly had the realization. I hated my body. I hated that I didn't have a pussy. I wanted his dick to be inside of me but feeling it in my ass just doesn't feel right to me. I got tremendously dysphoric to continue sex. I can't believe my brain wants to think about that again.

Ever since I socially transitioned, men have come up to me to compliment my outfits and how bold I look. It isn't a surprise that some of them are new to meeting a trans woman. But sometimes, those men who are just exposed to seeing me, a trans woman thriving, would have outrageously horny tendencies. I was invited several times to have sex with them because they wanted to "try taking a dick from another guy". I am also invited to threesomes because couples would want a "unicorn" to explore their sex lives. But that's very dehumanizing to refer to me that I am referred to as a man. Even though I am clearly presenting femininely. This doesn't help when "femboy" or "ladyboy" is used on me because the pornography media has ruined their heads to overly sexualize those terms onto trans women. I am fetishized, dehumanized and objectified. I wish the rest of the world were much more respectful but this is the system I grew up in.

I was partying at a sapphic rave when a stranger approached me and complimented my androgynous fashion. When I introduced myself as a trans butch, their face turned sour. They started talking about how the label of butch has a history of its own and that I don't deserve to call mysef that even if I am a transgender woman dressing masc or androgynously. I found it kinda condescending that she denies my identity and assumes I do not know about the history of butch. She even lectured me that the label of butch shouldn't be fantasized but I am not even fantasizing about the label. It's what Identify with. I can see the struggles of butches and studs in the lesbian community and still stand in solidarity with them, resonating with the common struggles of being misjudged due to being outwardly masculine or androgynous. Transfem butches exist, don't they? I don't think butches are inherently tied to cisgender women, do they?

I've been on estrogen for about 1.5 years now and my doctor has not recommended me to go on progesterone yet. When can I start asking to take progesterone?