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The title is pretty much self explanatory about what this post is about. I think a lot of us are forgetting when we discuss this topic that we are talking to men who had no choice in the matter. And can’t undo it. Especially a lot of woman in the movement and uncircumcised men. If you all need to see a reminder that phycological harms of the practice can do go scroll through circumcision grief. Also there have been a lot of us who have commuted suicide so I’m just asking a lot of you remember these are human beings you are talking to. But like always men are treated horribly by everyone dosent matter

It’s so disappointing seeing someone you looked up to is actually a perpetrator.

No seriously. It feels like actually seeing the wizard behind the curtain.

As the title reads. A lot of mothers on here are what we call regret parents. Meaning they’re regretful they choose to circumcise their son.

The cruel truth is you took your sons ability to choose and gave him and irreversible damaging procedure he now gets to live with for the entirety of his life.

You should contemplate getting a cliterectomy or labia plasty to show your actually sorry having the same thing done to yourself. That way you’re not a hypocrite and actually showing your truely remorseful and willing to live with the same thing you caused him.

Also this applies to intact fathers who choose to do this. They should contemplate circumcision

Like honestly? Oh we’re so sorry. Go fuck your own genitalia and join the son YOU caused that to happen to

Maybe they won’t delete the second reposting of it

Edit : also applies to intact fathers who did this to there sons

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Honestly fuck regret parents. There I said it. “ we didn’t know any better” yeah but now your son is forced to live with that for the rest of there life. So fuck you. Also fuck the regret parents who had multiple sons and did half of them and the learned better for the others. Your older son’s genitals are still fucked up because of you. And now get to live with the shame and harms of your mistake while there younger brother gets put above them all because “ mommy didn’t know better at that time”. So fuck you. Thanks for coming to my ted talk

***Possible trigger warning- techniques “

As the title suggests, I was curious if there is a way to know what way I was mutilated. I know there’s a few different ways that they can perform it but I’m not sure how’d you would know without getting a direct medical record.

The reason I’m asking is because I wasn’t born at a hospital and my mother had a small town doctor do it. I have the solace in knowing he passed away because he was old as dirt already when I was born in the early 2000’s. So there is no records of this since it was his own medical practice or whatever ( idk the specifics but the point is there isn’t a record).

I know some people can tell by the way it looks but I’m not comfortable showing my nudes to people online. Does anyone know a generalized way of knowing what way he did this stupid shit?

I’m asking this because it seems like mine is slightly different than most guys. It’s still tightly cut but the scar seems different?

Anyone got a time frame or?

Am I just misunderstanding what this sub is about? I see uncircumcised men on this sub more than I think I do the actually circumcised men. I’m not the inventor of this sub or anything so I’m not trying to gate keep. I’m just confused…? I was on another post and people assumed I was uncut? Like bro this is circumcision grief. Or I will voice how the only thing that makes this slightly bearable is that most American woman prefer it ( where I’m from I’m fucking American ) and then they get mad about it… like I’m not here for your fucking ego stroke. I’m voicing my experiences as a cut American and I’m sure many others of us have similar experiences. The truth is many of us were fucking cut for no other reason than because that’s what’s stupidly considered “ desirable “ by most American woman. So having uncircumcised men on a FUCKING SUB FOR CIRCUMCISED MEN TO VENT about how that’s body shaming is just stupid. Sorry I’m not stroking your egos. In my experience and probably most Americans on here is that we have literally been altered to meet female preference. If that hurts uncircumcised men’s feelings to hear then idk what to tell you don’t lurk on circumcision grief and go to uncut talk or whatever it’s called…? Like you think we all wanted to be shoved into stupid body standards? We fucking didn’t. But unfortunately that’s the reality of being American. Being uncircumcised here is seen as undesirable, so it feels like I’m being gaslit from every direction for feeling like shit for having it done. Irl people act surprised that you are against it. And on here uncircumcised men are the ones responding??? I don’t fucking get it. Also this goes for woman on here too that do the same thing idc. I understand that irl a lot of people look down on being uncircumcised, but you all don’t need a fucking ego boost from people who are suffering. ( this excludes the uncircumcised and woman on here that are genuinely trying to help.)