r/CircumcisionGrief

Does the foreskin make the glans more sensitive in any way, or is it just that you are supposed to have a lot of sensitive stuff in the foreskin?

I was circumcised so bad it caused problems using the bathroom since I was three, I cannot wear mesh shorts because I ripped off what was left because of being botched. I will never be whole, I will never know what it's like to be human. How can a man mourn something he never had the chance to before? Being amputated and mocked for having thoughts against it because of my parents ignorance and doctor's lies for a market ignites a burning passion like no other. How could I learn to trust anything, ever again? I told my mother what it was and she said as in the title, I told her to cut off your fingertips while awake and I'll let that slide. (Really thinking something else.) I haven't been responding very well to her or my father and I can't bear their presence without the lingering betrayal. I do not support harm of anyone, I was trying to make a point at the time. Can anyone give me some guidance?

Circumcision is sexual mutilation, and I have no doubt that it is horrible. However, I don't think all circumcisions are exactly the same. For example, in my country, people are usually circumcised as children rather than as infants. That often means the frenulum is preserved instead of being removed along with the foreskin, as can happen with infant circumcision.

I think those people are relatively lucky because they still get to keep and enjoy their frenulum. On my penis, the only truly sensitive areas are my frenulum and the remaining inner foreskin. The sensation from the frenulum is so intense that I sometimes wonder what it would have felt like if I had never been circumcised in the first place.

On the other hand, a penis without a frenulum is like a dead meat. It feels like an even greater loss of sensation. My point is that, while both child and infant circumcision are wrong and should be banned, infant circumcision appears more harmful because it is more likely to remove the frenulum as well. What do you think?

there’s plenty of ways to express culture like food, music, clothing not MUTALATING YOURE FUCKING CHILD the cunt is not even in my life anymore so thanks, thanks for making me diffrent from everyone else then leaving, i’m from a country where circumcision is barley a thing and it’s crazy that it’s not illegal in this country to do on new born boys without a medical reason. fuck my life.

Because now, it's my entire life. All I think about is circumcision. Experiencing joy for a few minutes? You're circumcised and will never have sex.

That's my life. Every thought is based on that decision. Every thought is equally as depressing as the last because OF A USELESS, MULTIATING, REDUNDANT, EVIL PRACTICE. My entire life is gone because of this! I don't blame anyone for going crazy or giving up anymore. I don't blame you for anything if you are circumcised. Do whatever you want. It's the rest of your life that's left and they stole a majority of it away from you. Don't let them steal the rest away. Or at least, try not to...

Because that's the thing. Every circumcised man here has to come to a fact.

We are not getting our foreskin back.

We aren't having a naturally intended sexual experience.

We never will.

"Foregen" and "Restoration". Let's be honest. Both of those are not up to par of a foreskin. Foregen is a literal scam, come on now guys. Cut that shit out. Restoration can only give you a placebo boost and some mild shaft skin. That's the difference. Shaft skin is NOT foreskin. And FORESKIN has exclusive benefits like 100% more sensation! Wow, isn't that suprising? It's almost like IT WAS THE NATURAL WAY OF LIFE FOR THOUSANDS OF FUCKING YEARS AND IT WAS STOLEN. STOLEN STOLEN STOLEN STOLEN STOLEN STOLEN STOELN STOLEN. I WILL DIE WITHOUT BEING A PROPER MAN. A PROPER SEXUAL MAN. THAT'S MY LIFE HUH? THAT'S ALL THERE IS TO IT?

Don't research it. Only know what happened to you, and why it is objectively bad. Otherwise, you'll ruin your life, just like me.

Every time i see a baby boy or child i just can’t help but think of the pain they will likely feel due to likely being cut, it’s something nobody should ever feel but most do and i hate it.

to control the rising population

ALSO DONE FOR COUNTLESS OTHER REASONS

but population control is a main one!

In the near future as we move away from circumcision, they will start to force sterilization operations on children about to hit puberty unless they come from elite and wealthy families. I'd say or be able to prove you have a high IQ, but our rulers don't want people with high IQ's. Those types of people have the capacity to change the system.

I'm asexual simple because of circumcision. I can't have sex because of circumcision. I'm missing vital organs and body parts and experiences and the actual sexual FUNCTION itself to be considered a sexual man. So I have to leave it behind. I have to. There's no other way to handle the situation without...well...

But, it's coming at a cost. An unexpected cost. I thought that going full nofap and asexual would be easy, but it isn't. The meds I now take aren't helping very much...and neither does the mediation I do. There's literally no way to escape this hell THEY MADE. A REMINDER, THEY MADE THIS ON PURPOSE. THEY KNEW THIS SHIT WOULD HAPPEN. I try my hardest to ignore it but everyday, EVERYDAY WITH NO EXCEPTION, I get reminded of this.

I get reminded of the foreskin, the penis and sexual intercourse and how it's supposed to be amazing and wonderful and just the best fucking thing you think of. That's what sex is like for them. For the intact normal society. But that's not me. What am I, then? I'm just some...mule. Just the livestock they want dead and gone. Women hate cut men, and so do Intact men. There is no relief from the overbearing sadness and sheer hate from the other side. That's why I am asexual. I have to stay asexual to SAVE MY OWN LIFE!!!

And now, It's tearing into my skin. It's just making a burning scar with what should've been a normal brain. A non-raped brain, to put it lightly. I want that back. I want to be reborn again, and finally feel what I am. I want to be a man again. For even a few seconds.

Remember me talking about Katawa Shoujo? Well, that wasn't my only experience with this genre. I remember a couple of other games like that when I was much younger and not even grasping what my circumcision did to me.

I've played a lot them back then. I was just as lonely as I am now as back then. So, of course, I resulted in playing these games. I wanted to feel love, something new and exciting. I was still in puberty, if I recall. Playing all these games and of course seeing the sex scenes at the time made me happy. But looking back? I know those games had a foreskin intact male as the protag, every single time. And every single time it was the most depressing shit I had ever seen. At the time it wasn't, but now? It almost certainly is now. Seeing them have intact sex, even in the video game was so depressing. The ease of use and the gasping and moaning and the body clenching orgasms and the screams of happiness and joy with the woman and AHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!

That's what they do. I don't care if it's exaggerated. I don't fucking care. I KNOW, and YOU KNOW TOO, that that is based off real experiences. All of the intact males feel so fucking good during it, I know they do. They brag to me HERE and in my DM'S and I always just block the fuck out of them. THEY KNOW WHAT THEY HAVE, THEY KNOW THAT THE GAME'S ARE ACCURATE. THAT'S WHY THEY DESTROYED ME. THAT'S WHY! DON'T PLAY THESE GAME'S IF YOU'RE CUT IT WILL LITERALLY RUIN YOU.

That's why I stopped, too. I stopped playing them a while ago now. I had too. Even though I enjoy the idea of visual novel's, I can't handle it anymore. I can't even handle basic fucking romance. WHY IS THIS MY LIFE? WHY ME? WHY WHY WHY WHY WHY WHY.

WHY THE FUCK DOES NOBODY CARE ABOUT THEIR OWN BODY? WHY! WHY NOT THEIR OWN BABIES! WHAT IS WRONG WITH HUMANITY!

I just want to understand if your foreskin is removed, what does the frenulum have to do with it and why do some have it removed like mine and others keep it, or just have it trimmed?

What makes that a deciding factor?

There is a subreddit where they debunk intactivism, well, opposition is welcomed, nature and the science is in our favour, we will not be defeated.

The Subreddit is: https://www.reddit.com/r/DebunkingIntactivism/

But when I went for actually replying it shows "This is a restricted community. Only approved members can contribute.", If you wanna play opposition, play it fairly, Play it honestly, play it based on proofs, not based on superstition and false beliefs. These people are idiots and they lack common sense smh.

The Pinned Post says:

"Friendly reminder that the only word for "not circumcised" is "uncircumcised", and the only people who try to substitute incorrectly with the word "intact" are either insecure about being uncircumcised, or are uneducated"

As far as I have seen the intactivists, many of them are very highly affiliated to credible sources, you can barely find false claims, most are true, but these Anti-Intactivists, Modified Dih Promoters, they themselves throw fake claims or outdated studies.

One Guy even replied "According to normal English, a man who has had his tonsils removed is NOT intact as he has lost something. According to the intactivists, a man who has lost his tonsils, but still has a foreskin is intact. They just don't understand English!" , But the guy who removed tonsil did it because it was hurting it, not helping it. Foreskin helps a man fr. It is not the enemy.

And Intactivism focuses on this point because 1.4 billion are cut around the world. Tonsil removal, etc are also not being intact, but here, specifically, raising voice against cutting, we name ourselves Intactivists.

If name is such an issue, then lets call ourselves 'Foreskin Police'.

But these ignorant idiots will keep mutilating children because a natural organ, a part of a person's sexuality was labelled as 'dirty'.

What do you say?

I despise this filthy godamn body. I could have been happy in my life. I feel as if I've been marked as a slave forever to have this raped and inferior body for the rest of this shit life. I'd rather have died when I was born or have it all removed than be this abomination. Fuck Ohio and fuck the animals who think this is ok. Despite trying to restore, I know I can never have the look of a real intect person. I know its hypocritical but i could never daye a mutilated guy because I will forever see a 'cut' dick as broken. My life fucked over before I could even walk. If he'll is real, I want the monsters who did this to me to suffer there. Sometimes, I just cyrl up, then sob and scream and then laugh maniacally from all the mental and physical pain this thing forces me.

I'm convinced that there were a whole lot of parents who knew exactly what they were signing their sons up for when they had them ritualized mutilated.

They were trading your opportunity to have a happy and fulfilling life over their own personal feelings of what the repercussions may have been for them by the "system"(overlords) for not doing what was expected of them.

THEIR FEARS APPEASED OVER YOUR PERSONAL HAPPINESS

I can't have sex because of this. That seems to be a cornerstone of romance and love...I guess that is just gone too. And nobody a damn eye.

I can't actually do anything about this situation. That's the actual worst part. There's nothing really left with a severe cut like mine. I don't really have any energy left to fight and think anymore, so I guess this is my fate. Circumcision caused me to be this way. Not "depression" or "sadness" or whatever the fuck the norm's think about it. NO, CIRCUMCISION, THE CHILD RITUAL, DID THIS TO ME. NO MORE EXCUSES.

And I wish I was in Europe. At least then I would be able to live and stay alive. But now? It's all over for me. I'll never get that experience. I'll never have sex or lose my virginity. What's that like intact men, huh? Why don't you tell me for the one thousandth time how good it feels to have sex? Huh? Fucking assholes. How dare they. How dare the WORLD do this to me and us at large. They hate us, that's why. They just want us gone already. It's like a sun burning in your retina.

And I can't believe it either. That this life, my only chance at living, was stolen. I only had one life to live and I say that everyday. THE BARE MININUM FOR LIVING SHOULD BE BEING INTACT. PERIOD. I WANT TO HAVE SEX PROPERLY! NOT SOME PATHETIC HUMPING SESSION! NOT SOME KINKED UP FETISH! I WANT TO HAVE ACTUAL INTERCOURSE!

And that's gone now. Forever.

If the pain and end agony is what was done to me gets too much to bear I start to harm myself whether if it’s cutting burning than anything honestly, and the reason why it’s because of what was done to me as a baby these people fucking doctors. My body is trying to get me to kill myself and it’s so much. I fucking hate it. My brain makes me look at porn and nine times out of 10 the person’s penis it’s not cut whether if it’s a real person or a drawing it doesn’t matter there’s an overwhelming amount of people who either depict or are not cut in porn, so why does everyone is not against this Say it’s not attractive

surely if it wasn’t attractive all these artists would not be drawing intact natural penises, right? just a mirror side of one it fills me with so much despair and pain. I would have mental breakdown if I met one and we were gonna fuck and they weren’t cut I would probably get the most risk of taking my life if that happens I wish I wasn’t hypersexual as a result of not only this sexual assault with others as well. I hate being queer sometimes and attracted to men or anyone with a dick really at least if I was straight and only attracted to cisgender women I wouldn’t be seeing dicks all the time when I wanna see someone when I find attractive it just hurts. It hurts to the point where I wish I could just end everything and just not have to deal with this shit anymore.

I’m so mad. I’m fucking irate. All my life I’ve wondered what was in the way of finding love, and I’ve found it; I can’t enjoy sex. Women that I’m obsessed with, I’ve convinced myself I simply am not attracted to until I finally realized. The fact that I cannot enjoy sex has ruined my perception of love with the way modern society has become. This probably doesn’t make any sense to anyone. I just got home from a date where I had the most unenjoyable sex I forced myself to have, to then decimating my tv, leaving my knuckles bloodied, bruised and broken. I’m so frustrated and angry and I don’t know what to do or where to direct my anger. This is a vent post, so please bear with me. I’ve began restoring but I should not have to deal with the toll that comes with this. Circumcision is rape, and I cannot obtain what I’ve been robbed.

Bad people don't get punished in any cosmic way. They win. Unless you do something about it.

The most ruthless, deceptive, tribal parasites climb to the top, rig the system, fund both sides of every war, and die rich in their beds after a lifetime of fucking over everyone else. Good men get ground down paying taxes for their own mutilation as baby boys, factory farming, war, abortion, etc, or dying in meat grinders(support the troops!!). History is one long proof: the evil consolidate power while the decent get culled. "What goes around comes around" is just a fairy tale to keep you passive and hoping for magic justice in this lifetime or your afterlife + their afterlife instead of fighting back. Tens of thousands of Americans commit suicide with a firearm every year and almost none of them commit a murder before committing suicide.

Bad things happen constantly to good people. The truly bad? They usually skate until the next cycle resets and they start over richer. Karma is for losers who can't face reality. That’s why their final coping mechanism is an afterlife in which the evil hypocrites are punished and the virtuous are rewarded.

I never wanted this, Mom and Dad. I never wanted to be a sexually useless, castrated fucking livestock mule to kick out. This is the fate I wanted.

I didn't want to be aseuxal. I want to enjoy my sexuality but I can't. Which is why I am shutting it down as best I can. I will hopefully stop having sexual thoughts when I hit my 30's.

I didn't want to be some fucking useless sock by societies standard's, but here I am. Woman don't like cut men. Gay men don't like cut men. Literally nobody actually likes a MULITATED PENIS. WOW, WHO WOULD'VE GUESSED? And we get nothing in return. I never wanted this fate. I'm not asking for circumcision to continue, I'm asking for people to STOP BODYSHAMING CUT MEN, ASSHOLES.

We didn't get a choice, and yet here we are. Everyone else seems to be having intact sex and orgasms. And yet we suffer on some niche forum that nobody actually cares about. Nobody cares about circumcision. Clown world. It is objectively a clown world.