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Are there some bars of nice gay places that one can visit alone? I don't want to end up in a loud bar with groups of people. Any places you can recommend to go alone?

Let's say I have a clip with 2 or 3 parts of it that I want to use, how does one go about setting multiple in- and out points, to mark multiple interesting parts in a clip?

I wonder if anyone else has these "Audhd naps". They are very special in that when that feeling comes up, it feels like a fog creeping over my brain, I've learned to recognise it, it means I can sleep within 5 to 10 minutes. They're also hard to ignore, it feels like I must do these.

When I go to a dark room and lay down I can be gone in a few minutes, I will wake up, mostly between 15 and 45 minutes after falling asleep, I need a few minutes but I will feel the fog creep away, and I'll have energy to continue my day.

These mostly happen after lunch (1pm), and they only happen when I'm close to burnout, dealing with too much information, a new situation, when travelling (much sensory input), or when dealing with a lot of people for multiple days.

I've seen a few threads on Reddit, about people saying "This went away with ADHD meds", but I feel like they're missing the point, this is the body saying: I need a good reset, and you get it by just sleeping for 30 minutes, no medication needed.

Does anyone else do these naps?

I've been struggling a lot (all my life) with overstimulation, mood swings because of overstimulation, and a host of sensory issues (I can't deal with sudden noises, or loudness, or 3 people talking at the same time, you know the drill).

And lately I've been thinking about what the root cause is, for example I had an episode of sudden brain fog after receiving an email from a client with 8 pages of feedback, for a project that I didn't even build, and when I think about it, it's because of information and the processing of information or the lack of information to understand the big picture. For example these things trigger me, which are not only sensory, but have to do with info flow.

• Getting feedback on something a freelancer built for me (this sudden rush of information, with which I do not know what to do triggers me), less so if the feedback is about work that I did.
• Randomly structured feedback without context
• Someone calling me and listing things to do, without having a means of writing it down
• 2 or 3 people talking at the same time
• Trying to listen to someone talk with a baby crying in the background
• Trying to listen to someone talk in a loud bar

Does anyone else feel like the flow of information is something that causes problems for them?

I'm reading only that RockSteady needs high shutter speeds to do it's job, but I also see that in order to get nice motion blur, we should use a setting like 30fps 1/60 shutter. (with an ND filter). But is the use of that ND filter (and that setting) going to make it harder for RockSteady to stabilise the footage?

When I think I understand my HSP(HSS) mind, it surprises me again. Me and my wife went on a 2 day hike in nature, we hardly saw anyone during the day and were in nature all day, we found a nice campsite, which was crowded but nothing alarming.

There were people pretty close to us though, a tent 3 meters away, a van 9 meters from us, when I was lying down I could hear all the noises, someone coughing nearby, etc. When I woke up the next morning I felt okay, I had fun cleaning up, putting the tent back in our bags but after walking for 2 hours I just felt really tired, longing for my sofa, my own home.

The scary thing is I (36 yo) didn't have these feelings a few years ago, I'm not sure what triggered my wanting to go home.

I also kept having intrusive thoughts during the hikings, it's as if when things get quiet, my mind looks for stuff, I thought about sex, drugs, I was really enjoying the scenery, but my mind was escaping the whole time. Why does this happen?