u/nottonightyou

I had a job interview last Thursday for a job on my
college campus and the interviewer told me I should expect to hear back early the following week. It’s Wednesday night and I haven’t heard anything and I’m very anxious because I really want the job. It was my first real job interview (I’ve done mock interviews) and I was really nervous so I don’t think I did the best.

Should I send a follow up email tomorrow to see what my status is? What do I say?

I’ve been in a cut, aggressive and moderate off and on for a long time. I recently kinda spiraled and binged a little, but I figured since I was so hungry I would take a break in maintenance for a while. I’ve been eating at maintenance for about a week now but I still feel as hungry as ever.

Is this my body just adjusting to maintenance and that’s why I’m hungry? Or is there some other reason. I just wanna know how long this will last since I still have about 40 pounds that I wanna lose.

Any advice or answers appreciated!!

I’m going to try to make a very long story short. I’m a female in my early 20s and I’m 5’5 and 165 pounds. I’ve always struggled with my body image and when I was in high school, I hit my highest weight of 197. I had lost weight through a calorie deficit before, but I gained a lot back on birth control and other factors.

In January 2024, I decided to lock in and lost weight pretty steadily and wasn’t struggling too badly with hunger. Then, I gained a lot of it back at the end of 2024 because I had felt deprived, going from 147 to 172. January 2025, I REALLY decided to lock in. I did an aggressive cut for WAY too long. I started at 172 and got to 143 by mid May, eating at 1,450 calories and being really strict when my maintenance was around 2,300 considering I was lifting 4 days a week and getting 10k steps 6 days a week.

Basically, after being in such an aggressive deficit for so long, I crashed in June of 2025. I was so hungry, and I was ravenous. I kept fighting myself trying to get the 10 pounds off that I had gained, but my body was fighting back. September I decided I would just eat at maintenance to try to get my brain feeling like it wasn’t deprived again. Well, that didn’t work, I was ravenous just not caring what I was eating, and got all the way back up to 178. This year in January, I tried locking in again but I’ve just felt so hungry and unmotivated this time, and surely it’s because of what I did to myself last year.

I’ve lost some weight since then, but I’m still sitting at 165 when I want to be 130 or 120. Really, I just wanna get back to 143 and I hate the way that I look and feel in clothes. But clearly there’s a pattern here and it seems like I can’t find balance of losing weight and not depriving myself at the same time. Right now, I’ve kind of been ravenous again the past few weeks, and I’ve gained about 5 pounds. I’m trying to eat at maintenance right now because the deficit isn’t working for me because I’m literally so hungry all the time. I guess I just need advice. I’m trying to eat at maintenance but I keep eating into a surplus because my body feels so hungry. I wanna lose the weight and keep it off but this pattern keeps coming back.

Should I keep trying to eat at maintenance to see if my body will finally adjust and realize it’s not starving? Should I try the deficit again and eat at 1,700 calories which is more moderate? I feel very insecure and I feel like my brain is constantly doing gymnastics trying to figure out what to do. Obviously it’s my fault for eating in an aggressive cut for so long but I feel like my body thinks I’m still not feeding it enough. Any advice or help would be appreciated.

I just recently started delivering again (took a year and a half break) and had previously never had to deal with someone else taking the order I was picking up. However, just in the span of one week, I’ve shown up to restaurants/fast food to pick up an order and a worker has had to tell me that someone else has picked up the order or stolen it.

I’m really confused as to how this even works because I’m the one with the name on the app, and no one else should really have access to it. Unless uber is just sending out the same order to multiple people, then maybe I can understand. But regardless, can someone just explain this to me? I’m genuinely just so curious.

realistically, when do you guys think their next tour will be? since they signed with a new label, it’s pretty likely that there will be another one. but when?

i think 2028 is likely since they’re touring basically ALL of 2026, i think 2027 would be too soon.

Does anybody have the setlist for Prague night 1 and 2? And were there any changes between them?

the tickets for GA pit in kansas city sold out and i am GUTTED. i was gonna buy them last week waiting for my friend to tell me if he could go or not and they sold out 💔💔💔💔 i literally wanna cry and row 1-4 seats in the first few sections are ridiculously expensive. just ranting bc I AM GOING TO CRY