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So I bought the Heakateaon Oracle Deck and work with her exclusively however after doing a ceremony to anoint them and get to know them I asked her why she hasn't been showing up in my dreams and I pulled the card that told me that she is acting as a guardian of a threshold that there is a liminal or psychological threshold that she is blocking for me and my protection and when I asked her to elaborate on that I pulled the card that symbolized that I needed to purify myself and that I've been doing stuff to sully myself. I'm not sure exactly what that could mean? How can I purify myself for her?

So I bought the Heakateaon Oracle Deck and work with her exclusively however after doing a ceremony to anoint them and get to know them I asked her why she hasn't been showing up in my dreams and I pulled the card that told me that she is acting as a guardian of a threshold that there is a liminal or psychological threshold that she is blocking for me and my protection and when I asked her to elaborate on that I pulled the card that symbolized that I needed to purify myself and that I've been doing stuff to sully myself. I'm not sure exactly what that could mean? How can I purify myself for her?

I'm a caregiver and I have a patient who is very elderly and paralyzed on his right side from strokes. His wife died a few years back and since then he hasn't cared much what happens to him but I do. I found a crack pipe in his bedside table and this explains his sleeping habits. If he doesn't stop he's likely going to die. Is there something I can do to motivate or force him to detox or not want to touch it?

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As a novice for the past two years I've been inundated with information and struggling to find an organized way to learn my craft. So I sat myself down and thought about what I want to currently accomplish in my life. I realized that I want to learn how to love myself and not be so codependent on my partner, for both of us, and I want stability in my financial life as its usual chaos. So I figure I need to focus on shadow work, self-love, and abundance. Does anyone know of any books, resources, or advice as I focus in on these and attempt to make it the focus of my craft?

As a novice for the past two years I've been inundated with information and struggling to find an organized way to learn my craft. So I sat myself down and thought about what I want to currently accomplish in my life. I realized that I want to learn how to love myself and not be so codependent on my partner, for both of us, and I want stability in my financial life as its usual chaos. So I figure I need to focus on shadow work, self-love, and abundance. Does anyone know of any books, resources, or advice as I focus in on these and attempt to make it the focus of my craft?

I saw on a post that a woman used "special soaps" to incorporate certain herbs into her shower to produce the intended effect. Does this mean I have to make soap myself or could I like for example just buy hand made lavender soap?

So a little insight here: my brother called me after 5 years of no talk to tell me that he "forgives me" for being molested by our father and "tearing apart our family". I've been through enough therapy to know that the blame lies with my attacker, not with me. I was a very little girl when this happened to me and the trial that ensued was really rough and this brother was there for me through the entire court case. Now suddenly he's a born again Christian and admitting to me that he's had a lot of hatred towards me for coming out about my attack. I have a sneaking suspicion that this is coming from his wife because she cornered my mother and sister about whether or not I had told the truth before my family went off on her and explained that there is a confession tape.

I'm pissed. Beyond pissed I'm full of rage and nowhere to put it. I'd like them to feel the violation, the shame, in the pain that I feel everyday knowing it was my own biological father who did this to me and now the pain of knowing that the little boy I raised puts the blame on me and not my attacker. Is there any kind of spell that can make them feel like I feel?