Kanang perfect ang tanan except for that one thing

Perfect na kaayo akoang relationship with my partner, except for the fact nga naa mi mismatch in libido. Kabalo ko love ko niya kay iyaa gina show in all , pero murad dili jud nako mabati kung walay s3x.

Shallow ra guro kaayo ko kung dako kaayo ni nga problema para sa akoa ba? Ambot oy. Mura kog mabuang.

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u/oompaloompa199 — 2 days ago
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Alternative for To-Do List: DAILY BINGO CARD

I saw this on another ADHD subreddit, so not really an original idea. I thought I'd try it since I have demand avoidance, so if it's merely a suggestion and a game, I get more dopamine from it LMAO

This card contains things that I need to do/take/consume in a day. It doesn't mean I need to cross out all of them in a single day.

When I get a bingo for the day, I get one point. I then plan on making a chart for rewards and their corresponding point equivalent. We'll see how this goes.

u/oompaloompa199 — 17 days ago

26 F4A Online or IRL friends

Been unemployed for a while now because I'm trying to finish my undergrad. It's lonely because I don't have a lot of friends that I can just casually talk to or hang out with. I do have a partner, but I also want friends, yk?

About me:

-female

-likes art, music, movies, coffee, matcha, tea, and trying new things

-I listen and I don't judge (I'm being fr on this one)

-I don't drink :/

SFW only please, I really only need friends and not looking for anything more.

Edit: additional info

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u/oompaloompa199 — 18 days ago

Gaka guilty ko sa tanan

Feel nako kay burden ko sa tanan tao sa akoang kinabuhi. Dili man unta sila gapang guilt trip, pero gaka guilty gyapon ko kay feel nako dili nako deserve ilaang kindness sa akoa. Akoang uyab tarong kaayo, naa koy friends nga supportive, and akoang parents kay supportive sad. Never sila nag give up sa akoa, pero maguilty kaayo ko kay gaexist ko sa ilaang kinabuhi. Ambot sad ngano, dili sad nako masabot ang dagan sa akong kaugalingong utok. Hayys.

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u/oompaloompa199 — 28 days ago

26 F4F HELP ME BE CONSISTENT IN THE GYM

I need a gym buddy. Sayang 1yr membership dili gaka gamit. And I also need it for health jud, since I am very unhealthy both physically and mentally.

GIRLS/WOMEN ONLY PLEASE 🥹

Edit: Kauswagan ko ga gym.

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u/oompaloompa199 — 1 month ago

I relapsed and hurt myself again

⚠️TRIGGER WARNING⚠️

SELF-HARM, SUICIDAL IDEATIONS

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I have been clean for a little more than a year now, but lately, I've been very mentally unstable for the past couple of months now. Minor and major events cause me to have very strong suicidal ideations, so much so that I get scared that I might actually do it one day.

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Tonight, I had a minor argument with someone, which really set me off for some reason. Idk who I become when I get mad or angry, but it eventually ends with me shutting down, going non-verbal, and refusing to resolve the issue. I WANT to resolve the issue. I WANT to fix things. But somehow, my actions show the complete opposite.

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I hate myself for being like this. I tried being mature and resolving things like a proper grown-up, but it never sticks. I hate that my emotions are explosive and idk how to control them. I hate that I cause arguments from what seems to be something insignificant. I hate myself so much. As punishment, I cut mtself because I deserve to be in pain. Hell, I deserve to not exist at all, and I think it would be a service to the people around me if that happened.

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u/oompaloompa199 — 2 months ago

Besides Mapawa Nature Park, asa pa lain pwede maka trail run or easy hike in CDO?

Title says it all.

Kapoy sige ra road ang daganan. Ganahan ko nature2 nasad pero kanang duol ra for sponty hikes. Asa man mga trail other than sa Mapawa nga trails?

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u/oompaloompa199 — 2 months ago

Impulsively signed up for 1-year gym membership, got the flu, and haven't gone to the gym for 2 weeks now.

Title says everything. I signed up for a 1-year gym membership (which is hella expensive), and I got sick after a couple of days. I was getting better, but got reinfected after my partner came home sick from an out-of-town hike with their work friends. I think I'm well enough to go to the gym now, but I'm just making excuses. I cannot, for the life of me, bring myself to go to the gym. I am unemployed (on the last leg of finishing my undergrad, funded by my parents) and I literally have all the time in the world. Idk what's wrong with me atp. Why am I like this? I want to be healthy. I want to fix my life. Why can't I do it???

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u/oompaloompa199 — 3 months ago

Hair thinning tips?

I was diagnosed with PCOS January of 2022 but I have been having irregular periods since I first started menstruating, and my hair started thinning when I was 16.

Before, I tried Strands Minoxidil, rosemary oil, exercise, and keto. My periods became semi-regular, but my hair never came back.

Lately, I have not been doing well in managing it because of a lot of life events and other factors, thus none of my symptoms have improved, and my hair is still thin (I think it stopped thinning, but it's at a constant thin state, like male pattern baldness).

I'm trying to reclaim my diet and exercise, but is there any other stuff I can try for my hair? I don't plan on getting pregnant, so the only reason I want to manage my PMOS is for my hair and to prevent cancer.

If anyone also has/had thinning hair due to PMOS, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE drop some tips 🥹

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u/oompaloompa199 — 3 months ago

Honda Navi is NOT for short girlies

I am 4'11" (149 cm), and 26 years old, so no chance of getting taller 😔💔

My partner had an out-of-town trip and I got to drive her unmodified, all stock Honda Navi. I know people say that the Navi is a "small" motorcycle and is good for short riders, but here's my experience as an ACTUAL short rider:

I can't reach the ground with both my feet. It has to be just one foot on my tippy toes, WITH PLATFORM SHOES. I can't ride it without tall shoes because then I really can't reach the ground anymore. I wear high-cut platform converse everytime I ride the Navi, which kind of hurts the back of my ankle, especially if I have to activate my tippy toes when frequently stopping during heavy traffic.

Once the motorcycle is running though, it's pretty easy and chill to drive. It doesn't go too fast, wich is great for safe city rides.

If you're a short girlie around my height and you're looking for a motorcycle to buy, I don't recommend the Navi for us. Better opt for short scoots, especially Honda Beat, which I can reach with my feet flat on the ground. If you do want a Navi though (because I admit, it does look nice), you should also invest in good, tall platform shoes, preferrably 2 inches or more.

I'll have a lot more chances to drive this motorcycle more often, until I get my own (which will be a couple of months from now), so if you're a short girlie who rides a tall-ish motorcycle, drop some tips for a better, and safer ride experience.

That's it, that's the post :>

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u/oompaloompa199 — 3 months ago

Hello! Gusto unta ko mag learn og play og volleyball. Naa na koy bola, skills nalang kulang. Pa teach unta mi, 2 mi kabuok. Downtown area lang :>

Also, if you want, we can go running, biking, or hiking together pud :>

My depression is getting bad again, and I need to get active para mawala ni hahaha

HMU

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u/oompaloompa199 — 4 months ago