🏳️🌈 Crush Advice
Pls I need help identifying if this woman likes me or not. I have a coworker who I have learned to absolutely adore over a short period of time of knowing her. She’s so pretty and so freaking sweet. She’s always so sweet to me. We work right next to each other. Now I am gay but I haven’t dated or had a woman crush in a LONG time. But still nonetheless my gayness hasn’t gone anywhere over the years. I can not tell if this woman is just being nice or if she’s been hinting at me lowkey. 😭 I do know that she has a ex husband. I haven’t heard her talk anything about being gay so (I’m assuming) she straight. But after these past few days I’m starting to feel like she’s curious MAYBE (hopefully) at the least lol.
(Sorry this is so long I haven’t had a crush in forever and I’m rather excited, regardless of what happens LOL)
- So some hints have been when we talk (we sit right next to eachother) she looks directly in my eyes (of course) but I always notice her eyes shifting down??? & like two days ago I wore a collared shirt and I was trying to fix it while we were talking, her eyes shifted at my hands adjusting my collar buttons WAY past long enough for me to notice 😭
- ^ Later that same day her coffee spilled unfortunately. I immediately helped her since I was the only one actively listening I guess lol and she told me I was her best friend…(I feel like I sound so delusional lmao)
- Now today when I get to work she goes (cause I was late) “(says my name) I’m always happy to see you…I was worried”……
- Other small things I’ve noticed is that when I’m walking back to our desk she always looks at me and smiles, cause her desk is right before mine so she always comes first for me to see her. (Ive began observing this after realizing she does this to me to see if she does this to anyone else that stirs further past us, she doesn’t lol) And when we see each other in the hallways she giggles and waves.
😭 please let me know what you guys think. I’m sorry this was so long omg but I need help! I wanna ask her out or hint at some flirting in a way but I don’t want to be inappropriate :/