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Help a girl out please

I 16f really really like this one guy. I’m usually one to mess around. But I’ve never felt a connection like this. He’s an amazing friend. I messed up by platonically kissing (peck) a girl he found cute but now they’re talking and stuff (I guess). It’s too much to explain but we haven’t spoken since 2-3 days (never happens). I really need a love spell. Please please lmk if you have one. Also I’d really appreciate one that doesn’t include fire, it scares me

Thanks 🥹💗

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u/ordinaryperson2009 — 1 hour ago
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Love spell urgency. Please help a girl out :(

I really really like this one guy. I’m usually one to mess around. But I’ve never felt a connection like this. He’s an amazing friend. I messed up by platonically kissing (peck) a girl he found cute but now they’re talking and stuff (I guess). It’s too much to explain but we haven’t spoken since 2-3 days (never happens). I really need a love spell. Please please lmk if you have one. Also I’d really appreciate one that doesn’t include fire, it scares me. Please dm if you’re somebody who can help. Commenting also works.

Thanks 💗🥹

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u/ordinaryperson2009 — 1 hour ago

Am I the jerk for behaving this way? I apologised several times. Help me :(

I’m a straight girl 16f, Went to my close guy friend’s birthday party. Him and his friend had it together so they Celebrated it together. They had me try some alcohol and I willingly did. I ended up kissing some girls (on the cheeks or forehead, like just pecks). But I’m afraid he’s embarrassed of me now. He told me people asked if I was a lesbian and that I’m not getting invited next year. I apologised and stuff but I still feel kinda sad. Plus, I went with my bestfriend (she was my +1) and he said he’d invite her next year but not me. He was a super close friend of mine and we haven’t spoken much since the party which was 3-4 days ago.

Plus, I also pecked one girl on the lips but it was with consent and totally platonic (me and my girls from another friend circle do it like super normally). And that was the same chick he found cute apparently. Alsoo, he told me his friends roasted him because I did all this, but they all follow me on Instagram and are being so nice to me so idk what that’s about. I just feel guilty man 😭

Also, the girl he liked also later texted me thanking me for looking after her while I was drunk (I tied her hair up and offered her water while she was puking and reassured her that we’re okay, later helped her get into bed to sleep).

Side note- guys my friend is an amazing person. He’s not homophobic or anything. Pls don’t perceive him incorrectly 😭

TL;DR: I (16F, straight) drank a bit at my close guy friend's bday party and gave some platonic pecks to girls (cheeks/forehead, and one on the lips to a girl he happens to like, though she later texted thanking me for taking care of her while she was sick). Now, my friend says his buddies roasted him, asked if I was a lesbian, and told me I'm uninvited next year—but he's inviting my best friend (+1) instead. He's barely spoken to me in 4 days, even though his friends follow me on Insta and are being perfectly nice. I feel incredibly guilty and sad about ruining our friendship. Help?

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u/ordinaryperson2009 — 1 day ago

Help me out please

I’m a straight girl 16f, Went to my close guy friend’s birthday party. Him and his friend had it together so they Celebrated it together. They had me try some alcohol and I willingly did. I ended up kissing some girls (on the cheeks or forehead, like just pecks). But I’m afraid he’s embarrassed of me now. He told me people asked if I was a lesbian and that I’m not getting invited next year. I apologised and stuff but I still feel kinda sad. Plus, I went with my bestfriend (she was my +1) and he said he’d invite her next year but not me. He was a super close friend of mine and we haven’t spoken much since the party which was 3-4 days ago.

Plus, I also pecked one girl on the lips but it was with consent and totally platonic (me and my girls from another friend circle do it like super normally). And that was the same chick he found cute apparently. Alsoo, he told me his friends roasted him because I did all this, but they all follow me on Instagram and are being so nice to me so idk what that’s about. I just feel guilty man 😭

Also, the girl he liked also later texted me thanking me for looking after her while I was drunk (I tied her hair up and offered her water while she was puking and reassured her that we’re okay, later helped her get into bed to sleep).

Side note- guys my friend is an amazing person. Please don’t perceive him incorrectly.

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u/ordinaryperson2009 — 1 day ago

Please offer some advice here

I’m a straight girl 16f, Went to my close guy friend’s birthday party. Him and his friend had it together so they Celebrated it together. They had me try some alcohol and I willingly did. I ended up kissing some girls (on the cheeks or forehead, like just pecks). But I’m afraid he’s embarrassed of me now. He told me people asked if I was a lesbian and that I’m not getting invited next year. I apologised and stuff but I still feel kinda sad. Plus, I went with my bestfriend (she was my +1) and he said he’d invite her next year but not me. He was a super close friend of mine and we haven’t spoken much since the party which was 3-4 days ago.

Plus, I also pecked one girl on the lips but it was with consent and totally platonic (me and my girls from another friend circle do it like super normally). And that was the same chick he found cute apparently. Alsoo, he told me his friends roasted him because I did all this, but they all follow me on Instagram and are being so nice to me so idk what that’s about. I just feel guilty man 😭

Also, the girl he liked also later texted me thanking me for looking after her while I was drunk (I tied her hair up and offered her water while she was puking and reassured her that we’re okay, later helped her get into bed to sleep).

Side note- guys my friend is an amazing person. He’s not homophobic or anything. Pls don’t perceive him incorrectly 😭

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u/ordinaryperson2009 — 1 day ago

Help a girl out man

Please offer some advice here

I’m a straight girl 16f, Went to my close guy friend’s birthday party. Him and his friend had it together so they Celebrated it together. They had me try some alcohol and I willingly did. I ended up kissing some girls (on the cheeks or forehead, like just pecks). But I’m afraid he’s embarrassed of me now. He told me people asked if I was a lesbian and that I’m not getting invited next year. I apologised and stuff but I still feel kinda sad. Plus, I went with my bestfriend (she was my +1) and he said he’d invite her next year but not me. He was a super close friend of mine and we haven’t spoken much since the party which was 3-4 days ago.

Plus, I also pecked one girl on the lips but it was with consent and totally platonic (me and my girls from another friend circle do it like super normally). And that was the same chick he found cute apparently. Alsoo, he told me his friends roasted him because I did all this, but they all follow me on Instagram and are being so nice to me so idk what that’s about. I just feel guilty man 😭

Also, the girl he liked also later texted me thanking me for looking after her while I was drunk (I tied her hair up and offered her water while she was puking and reassured her that we’re okay, later helped her get into bed to sleep).

Side note- guys my friend is an amazing person. He’s not homophobic or anything. Pls don’t perceive him incorrectly 😭

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u/ordinaryperson2009 — 1 day ago

Help a girl out man

Please offer some advice here

I’m a straight girl 16f, Went to my close guy friend’s birthday party. Him and his friend had it together so they Celebrated it together. They had me try some alcohol and I willingly did. I ended up kissing some girls (on the cheeks or forehead, like just pecks). But I’m afraid he’s embarrassed of me now. He told me people asked if I was a lesbian and that I’m not getting invited next year. I apologised and stuff but I still feel kinda sad. Plus, I went with my bestfriend (she was my +1) and he said he’d invite her next year but not me. He was a super close friend of mine and we haven’t spoken much since the party which was 3-4 days ago.

Plus, I also pecked one girl on the lips but it was with consent and totally platonic (me and my girls from another friend circle do it like super normally). And that was the same chick he found cute apparently. Alsoo, he told me his friends roasted him because I did all this, but they all follow me on Instagram and are being so nice to me so idk what that’s about. I just feel guilty man 😭

Also, the girl he liked also later texted me thanking me for looking after her while I was drunk (I tied her hair up and offered her water while she was puking and reassured her that we’re okay, later helped her get into bed to sleep).

Side note- guys my friend is an amazing person. He’s not homophobic or anything. Pls don’t perceive him incorrectly 😭

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u/ordinaryperson2009 — 1 day ago

Please offer some advice here

I’m a straight girl 16f, Went to my close guy friend’s birthday party. Him and his friend had it together so they Celebrated it together. They had me try some alcohol and I willingly did. I ended up kissing some girls (on the cheeks or forehead, like just pecks). But I’m afraid he’s embarrassed of me now. He told me people asked if I was a lesbian and that I’m not getting invited next year. I apologised and stuff but I still feel kinda sad. Plus, I went with my bestfriend (she was my +1) and he said he’d invite her next year but not me. He was a super close friend of mine and we haven’t spoken much since the party which was 3-4 days ago.

Plus, I also pecked one girl on the lips but it was with consent and totally platonic (me and my girls from another friend circle do it like super normally). And that was the same chick he found cute apparently. Alsoo, he told me his friends roasted him because I did all this, but they all follow me on Instagram and are being so nice to me so idk what that’s about. I just feel guilty man 😭

Also, the girl he liked also later texted me thanking me for looking after her while I was drunk (I tied her hair up and offered her water while she was puking and reassured her that we’re okay, later helped her get into bed to sleep).

Side note- guys my friend is an amazing person. He’s not homophobic or anything. Pls don’t perceive him incorrectly 😭

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u/ordinaryperson2009 — 1 day ago

Help

I’m almost 17, I’ll be appearing for boards this year. My parents asked me to prepare for MhtCET (PCM-Btech) after 10th as I scored 90% in my boards. They told me I could pursue engineering if it seems right to me after studying for CET, I wasn’t exactly given a choice. I wanted to pursue law. They just said “you’ll end up unemployed or distributing pamphlets at the station”. I studied for CET throughout last year (11th grade) and my 12th grade is about to begin in a couple of days as my summer break is coming to an end. During the summer break, we were kept in our coaching institute from 7 am to 3 pm every single day, we were too saturated to even comprehend most of it after a certain point of time. I’m beginning to feel like I made the wrong decision by listening to my parents and maybe law was infact my calling. I had a word with my mother about how I don’t mind studying for cet and giving it this December but if incase I do not achieve a satisfactory result, could I take a drop year and prepare for CLAT instead. She bombarded me with plenty of taunts about how I should just drop it if it’s not for me and how I shouldn’t have tried for CET in the first place, but it was too much pressure from my parents’ side to say no, yk? I made a valid argument regarding how I wasn’t given a choice and she said “well there’s nothing better to do out there, we told you the right thing”. She gave me her final word, saying “Just drop CET and start preparing for CLAT from now onwards.“ I’m knee-deep in this exam and now is when she tells me this? I have this weight on me to leave something and start something else afresh, what if I mess up? I don’t even know what to do at this point. Please help.

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u/ordinaryperson2009 — 1 month ago

Help

I’m almost 17, I’ll be appearing for boards this year. My parents asked me to prepare for MhtCET (PCM-Btech) after 10th as I scored 90% in my boards. They told me I could pursue engineering if it seems right to me after studying for CET, I wasn’t exactly given a choice. I wanted to pursue law. They just said “you’ll end up unemployed or distributing pamphlets at the station”. I studied for CET throughout last year (11th grade) and my 12th grade is about to begin in a couple of days as my summer break is coming to an end. During the summer break, we were kept in our coaching institute from 7 am to 3 pm every single day, we were too saturated to even comprehend most of it after a certain point of time. I’m beginning to feel like I made the wrong decision by listening to my parents and maybe law was infact my calling. I had a word with my mother about how I don’t mind studying for cet and giving it this December but if incase I do not achieve a satisfactory result, could I take a drop year and prepare for CLAT instead. She bombarded me with plenty of taunts about how I should just drop it if it’s not for me and how I shouldn’t have tried for CET in the first place, but it was too much pressure from my parents’ side to say no, yk? I made a valid argument regarding how I wasn’t given a choice and she said “well there’s nothing better to do out there, we told you the right thing”. She gave me her final word, saying “Just drop CET and start preparing for CLAT from now onwards.“ I’m knee-deep in this exam and now is when she tells me this? I have this weight on me to leave something and start something else afresh, what if I mess up? I don’t even know what to do at this point. Please help.

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u/ordinaryperson2009 — 1 month ago
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I’m almost 17, I’ll be appearing for boards this year. My parents asked me to prepare for MhtCET (PCM-Btech) after 10th as I scored 90% in my boards. They told me I could pursue engineering if it seems right to me after studying for CET, I wasn’t exactly given a choice. I wanted to pursue law. They just said “you’ll end up unemployed or distributing pamphlets at the station”. I studied for CET throughout last year (11th grade) and my 12th grade is about to begin in a couple of days as my summer break is coming to an end. During the summer break, we were kept in our coaching institute from 7 am to 3 pm every single day, we were too saturated to even comprehend most of it after a certain point of time. I’m beginning to feel like I made the wrong decision by listening to my parents and maybe law was infact my calling. I had a word with my mother about how I don’t mind studying for cet and giving it this December but if incase I do not achieve a satisfactory result, could I take a drop year and prepare for CLAT instead. She bombarded me with plenty of taunts about how I should just drop it if it’s not for me and how I shouldn’t have tried for CET in the first place, but it was too much pressure from my parents’ side to say no, yk? I made a valid argument regarding how I wasn’t given a choice and she said “well there’s nothing better to do out there, we told you the right thing”. She gave me her final word, saying “Just drop CET and start preparing for CLAT from now onwards.“ I’m knee-deep in this exam and now is when she tells me this? I have this weight on me to leave something and start something else afresh, what if I mess up? I don’t even know what to do at this point. Please help.

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u/ordinaryperson2009 — 1 month ago

Help

I’m almost 17, I’ll be appearing for boards this year. My parents asked me to prepare for MhtCET (PCM-Btech) after 10th as I scored 90% in my boards. They told me I could pursue engineering if it seems right to me after studying for CET, I wasn’t exactly given a choice. I wanted to pursue law. They just said “you’ll end up unemployed or distributing pamphlets at the station”. I studied for CET throughout last year (11th grade) and my 12th grade is about to begin in a couple of days as my summer break is coming to an end. During the summer break, we were kept in our coaching institute from 7 am to 3 pm every single day, we were too saturated to even comprehend most of it after a certain point of time. I’m beginning to feel like I made the wrong decision by listening to my parents and maybe law was infact my calling. I had a word with my mother about how I don’t mind studying for cet and giving it this December but if incase I do not achieve a satisfactory result, could I take a drop year and prepare for CLAT instead. She bombarded me with plenty of taunts about how I should just drop it if it’s not for me and how I shouldn’t have tried for CET in the first place, but it was too much pressure from my parents’ side to say no, yk? I made a valid argument regarding how I wasn’t given a choice and she said “well there’s nothing better to do out there, we told you the right thing”. She gave me her final word, saying “Just drop CET and start preparing for CLAT from now onwards.“ I’m knee-deep in this exam and now is when she tells me this? I have this weight on me to leave something and start something else afresh, what if I mess up? I don’t even know what to do at this point. Please help.

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u/ordinaryperson2009 — 1 month ago

Help

I’m almost 17, I’ll be appearing for boards this year. My parents asked me to prepare for MhtCET (PCM-Btech) after 10th as I scored 90% in my boards. They told me I could pursue engineering if it seems right to me after studying for CET, I wasn’t exactly given a choice. I wanted to pursue law. They just said “you’ll end up unemployed or distributing pamphlets at the station”. I studied for CET throughout last year (11th grade) and my 12th grade is about to begin in a couple of days as my summer break is coming to an end. During the summer break, we were kept in our coaching institute from 7 am to 3 pm every single day, we were too saturated to even comprehend most of it after a certain point of time. I’m beginning to feel like I made the wrong decision by listening to my parents and maybe law was infact my calling. I had a word with my mother about how I don’t mind studying for cet and giving it this December but if incase I do not achieve a satisfactory result, could I take a drop year and prepare for CLAT instead. She bombarded me with plenty of taunts about how I should just drop it if it’s not for me and how I shouldn’t have tried for CET in the first place, but it was too much pressure from my parents’ side to say no, yk? I made a valid argument regarding how I wasn’t given a choice and she said “well there’s nothing better to do out there, we told you the right thing”. She gave me her final word, saying “Just drop CET and start preparing for CLAT from now onwards.“ I’m knee-deep in this exam and now is when she tells me this? I have this weight on me to leave something and start something else afresh, what if I mess up? I don’t even know what to do at this point. Please help.

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u/ordinaryperson2009 — 1 month ago
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I’m almost 17, I’ll be appearing for boards this year. My parents asked me to prepare for MhtCET (PCM-Btech) after 10th as I scored 90% in my boards. They told me I could pursue engineering if it seems right to me after studying for CET, I wasn’t exactly given a choice. I wanted to pursue law. They just said “you’ll end up unemployed or distributing pamphlets at the station”. I studied for CET throughout last year (11th grade) and my 12th grade is about to begin in a couple of days as my summer break is coming to an end. During the summer break, we were kept in our coaching institute from 7 am to 3 pm every single day, we were too saturated to even comprehend most of it after a certain point of time. I’m beginning to feel like I made the wrong decision by listening to my parents and maybe law was infact my calling. I had a word with my mother about how I don’t mind studying for cet and giving it this December but if incase I do not achieve a satisfactory result, could I take a drop year and prepare for CLAT instead. She bombarded me with plenty of taunts about how I should just drop it if it’s not for me and how I shouldn’t have tried for CET in the first place, but it was too much pressure from my parents’ side to say no, yk? I made a valid argument regarding how I wasn’t given a choice and she said “well there’s nothing better to do out there, we told you the right thing”. She gave me her final word, saying “Just drop CET and start preparing for CLAT from now onwards.“ I’m knee-deep in this exam and now is when she tells me this? I have this weight on me to leave something and start something else afresh, what if I mess up? I don’t even know what to do at this point. Please help.

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u/ordinaryperson2009 — 1 month ago