How do I start?

Hello! I've been soo interested in playing this sport. Pero di ko alam how should I start? I don't have friends din po kasi na I can aya to play with. Is there any community that could help me meet new people? Parang nakikita ko kasi, madalas na naglalaro e mga friends, kaya nahihiya ako na basta na lang makijoin. I want to learn how to play this game. Please help meeee. I'm around San Jose del Monte, Bulacan.

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u/overthemoonlove — 1 day ago

Studying in Germany as Filipino

Hello! I'm from the Philippines with a degree of Bachelor of Education major in English. I am very much interested in studying internationally, especially in Germany. However, I think I need to find a course or masters degree that is eligible with my current degree.

Also, I would like to look for scholarships that are eligible as a Filipino.

What programs or scholarships could I apply to?

Any tips on how I could start my application?

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u/overthemoonlove — 11 days ago

We Broke Up

It's so heavy. But at the same time, I (F23🇵🇭) thank God because I know that my true future husband won't do that. My future husband is kind and faithful, and I am sure of that.

My ex (M27🇪🇸) went to see me this year for around 20 days. Turns out, before that trip, he was thinking about his growing doubts. Honestly, based on our conversation about it, all of those doubts grew because there was a girl in his parish that he's starting to like. He compared me to her to the point that he wonders how easy it would be like to just have someone near to him, than be with me who he has to spend so much money just to travel and be with me for a few weeks.

But after he confessed that, we tried again. We tried to "resolve" what was broken even when I knew and feel that I became alone in the relationship already a long time ago. When he went back to Spain, of course he still sees that girl in his parish and even when he says he is not comparing me to her again, still his doubts are growing even more about the future of this relationship, and it was not sustainable. I resigned from my previous job because I needed to prepare and study for an important license. Because of that, of course I don't have more to pay at least half of the plane ticket as he wants me to. He didn't want to process a visa for me and fully pay for it if we'll just to be together for 2 weeks. He thinks it's an uncertain risk that he will invest since it's just a short time visit of me, and it means that the only reason for us to be together and sustain a lasting relationship is to get married, but of course we, especially him don't want to risk a big decision like that just for easy visa process. He wants to be with someone that he could really see how she is with his family and friends, and visiting for 2 weeks does not prove that for him.

Even so, he was also still unfaithful, maybe not physically cheating, but through his thoughts and still continues to wonder about an easy and certain future with someone near. It made me truly feel alone in the relationship. I was fighting for this relationship alone while he continued to lose his hope and just wanted to break up

I wanna tell the story more. But right now, it is painful, at the same time freeing. Because I know that someone out there is willing and committed to building a relationship with me. A strong one, through any challenges.

If I became happy with the wrong person, it would surely be more with the right one.

Lord, I surrender my heart to you.

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u/overthemoonlove — 12 days ago
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What is one moment or two in your relationship that felt so heavy?

Hi, everyone.

My boyfriend (27M) and I (23F) are currently going through one of the hardest periods in our relationship.

Lately, there are times when I feel him becoming more distant, and that can make me spiral emotionally. The difficult part is that the distance is affecting him, too. He's struggling with it, and it has been making him feel sad as well.

On top of that, he needs to focus on studying for an important certification related to his job, and I also need to prepare for a major professional exam. Because of this, we agreed to limit our communication for a while. We have one long call every Friday, and we still exchange messages on Mondays and Wednesdays to discuss God and strengthen our faith together. That was his compromise when he asked for more space.

Outside of those days, we don't text or call. I respect his request, even though the silence in between can make me anxious at times. At the same time, I'm trying to see the positive side of it. I've read that periods of quiet can help people process their emotions, focus on their individual responsibilities, and grow independently.

For some background, we met in person for the first time last March, and he spent about three weeks here with me. When it was time for him to leave, saying goodbye at the airport honestly felt like a breakup. Being together in person made us realize just how difficult it is to return to counting weeks, months, and days until we can see each other again. In some ways, that realization has made this current season even harder.

There have been moments when breaking up seemed like the easier option simply because it would end the pain. But despite that, we're still here. We're still choosing each other, and we're both trying our best to make this work. We just celebrated our 11th month last Tuesday, and I am looking forward to celebrating more with him.

I was wondering if anyone here has gone through something similar. How did you cope with the distance, the loneliness, and the uncertainty? I'd really appreciate hearing your experiences because right now, I could use some encouragement that our relationship isn't an impossible dream and that we truly have a chance to make it. ❤️ Thank you for your kind response 🙏

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u/overthemoonlove — 25 days ago

What is one moment or two in your relationship that felt so heavy?

Hi, everyone.

My boyfriend (27M) and I (23F) are currently going through one of the hardest periods in our relationship.

Lately, there are times when I feel him becoming more distant, and that can make me spiral emotionally. The difficult part is that the distance is affecting him, too. He's struggling with it, and it has been making him feel sad as well.

On top of that, he needs to focus on studying for an important certification related to his job, and I also need to prepare for a major professional exam. Because of this, we agreed to limit our communication for a while. We have one long call every Friday, and we still exchange messages on Mondays and Wednesdays to discuss God and strengthen our faith together. That was his compromise when he asked for more space.

Outside of those days, we don't text or call. I respect his request, even though the silence in between can make me anxious at times. At the same time, I'm trying to see the positive side of it. I've read that periods of quiet can help people process their emotions, focus on their individual responsibilities, and grow independently.

For some background, we met in person for the first time last March, and he spent about three weeks here with me. When it was time for him to leave, saying goodbye at the airport honestly felt like a breakup. Being together in person made us realize just how difficult it is to return to counting weeks, months, and days until we can see each other again. In some ways, that realization has made this current season even harder.

There have been moments when breaking up seemed like the easier option simply because it would end the pain. But despite that, we're still here. We're still choosing each other, and we're both trying our best to make this work. We just celebrated our 11th month last Tuesday, and I am looking forward to celebrating more with him.

I was wondering if anyone here has gone through something similar. How did you cope with the distance, the loneliness, and the uncertainty? I'd really appreciate hearing your experiences because right now, I could use some encouragement that our relationship isn't an impossible dream and that we truly have a chance to make it. ❤️ Thank you for your kind response 🙏

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u/overthemoonlove — 25 days ago

Hello! I just recently learned about being in Aupair, and I am very much interested. My goal country is actually Spain because I have been wanting to learn Spanish and I have a boyfriend living in Madrid. So basically, being an Aupair in Spain hits two birds in one stone.

I already tried to look for websites, and I have been messaging families there, but there's no luck in getting responses.

Do you guys know where else can I get contacts with host families? Or if there are other ways to become an Aupair. TYIA

Edit. Btw, I am a Filipino and I work as a teacher for ages 7-8. I have Education as my degree and I teach English.

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u/overthemoonlove — 2 months ago