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Teja is very ill spoken, loud and boisterous. She likes to dabble in everyone’s business and spread whatever she’s heard then cries when Iryna doesn’t trust her. It’s absolutely none of her business to go around telling Lailli and Alizey.

I think she’s trying to have this “clap back energy” like Safa and stir the pot LOL but miserably failing at displaying any sort of “aura” or whatever. She tries to be bubbly but it just seems extremely pretentious. Probably trying to end up as a gif people use with all those expressions she does.

Also I don’t think she’s rich enough to be in the circle. I sound super mean right now I know but she just looks like the odd one out in their circle and it shows.

The other ladies also are very much gossip queens and surrounded by drama, but Teja lacks the class and sophistication that they naturally display.

Not a fan of Karan either. He has no spine and can’t think for himself. Worships the more successful men and now seems less interested in Teja because he’s around cool, hot, rich people in Dubai. I think he’s dreaming big then eventually will dump Teja for someone in Dubai.

Hi everyone!

I am looking to do an online MBA. I am in Canada, and work in defence supply chain, and I think it would definitely benefit me and help me climb up the ladder. I worked in the public sector and private sector both. I have worked in the aerospace industry as well.

I have had a really fulfilling career for 8 years. I also am only interested in an online degree because I don’t want to take off from work. However, in university I kind of had a lot going on and don’t have the best grades. I have gotten into one university in Canada and that is at the University of New Brunswick. I was told to check out universities in the US and WGU looks like a good choice too, and it’s self paced. It’s also quite cheap, and I can finish it quickly. If I were to study at an American university, I’d probably only go to WGU (instead of Georgia Tech or something)

I’d really love any tips or advice on what to pick. Long term, I may be interested in working in the US, but nothing is for sure now.

Hi everyone!!

Has/is anyone studied/studying the online MBA at UNB? I am thinking about applying for it. I’m located in Ottawa and have a busy career in supply chain and it looks like a good program. Would love any input or advice or tips.

Thank you!

You read the title. I’m throwing my Drake obsessed husband a surprise birthday party and I’m looking for a Drake impersonator. Would love if anyone has any leads!!? It’s alright if he’s kind of corny. Might actually make it even more fun.

Party might be in Ottawa or Toronto. Sometime end of July. 10-20 people attending.

Hi everyone,

First of all, don’t message me please. I am a loyal shaadi shuda khatoon. I just feel like ranting (kind of). I want someone to analyze what exactly I’m feeling and I want to know how bad I messed up

So 8 years ago when I was 20, I had my only boyfriend ever. We met online and both live in USA and he was 4 hours away by flight. It was mostly online and we met three times total. We didn’t even call. But it was extremely emotional, and deep relationship. Me and this guy were extremely connected. But it was very childlike, pretty clean. I feel like now that I’m older I realize I was just very immature in the beginning of it.

So basically I liked him a lot after chatting online, and when he confessed that he liked me I just couldn’t say no. But we both knew we belonged to different sects but we’re like whatever Allah will handle it LOL. And we both had other intersect couples in both of our families.

After about a year and a half, my mom start approaching me about marriage and I used to be scared of her. I love my mother a lot and I can never disobey her. I slowly started losing interested because I realized she wouldn’t let me marry into this sect but like… I accepted it. It’s not even about the sect, it’s about marrying the same everythinggg. Ethnicity, sect, city etc. we were the same ethnicity and ngl I did prefer marrying someone who had the same background but… when I realized it’s not happening… Like I wasn’t really hurt. This sounds terrible but I’m just being honest. I also wanted to end things because I was trying to become more religious and just didn’t want to chat and be lovey dovey with a guy and have a boyfriend. So I ended it.

He was super upset I didn’t fight for him. Like I hurt him a LOT. This was both of our first times and he was way more hurt than me. He started smoking cigarettes because of me. I wish someone could slap him and tell him that I am not worth crying over. I didn’t fight for him. He deserves better.

Anyway then in university, I got approached a few times but always declined. Even again by the same sect 3 times. I have a very Shia name and even had a crush on a Shia guy again who his friend told me he liked me but I declined. I was so tempted because all the desi girls liked him but he liked ME LOL but I didn’t start anything. I didn’t want to hurt anyone again and wanted to be a halal girl lol.

A few years later, I had a love marriage with someone who I dated for 2 months. I tried to keep things very proper and yes my mom loves him. Alhamdulilah mashallah it’s going well and okay please koi badua na dey.

So all these years I used to regret dating him. Even though it was mostly online, I just wish it never happened. I wish i never impacted someone’s life like that. But I brushed these thoughts away because at the end of the day, your PARENTS have a right over you. After marriage, your spouse. But while you are single, please please listen to your parents and make them happy. Allah will always keep you happy if you keep them happy.

So I thought of it that way. Yes I shouldn’t have dated him in the first place. But I didn’t go against my family. Some people fight their parents and go crazy for their boyfriends and girlfriends and disrespect those who gave them life and… now that I’m older, I think that’s all bakwas. If your parents disagree for small reasons, that is not okay. But to yell and scream over a MAN? Or a WOMAN? Please. Not important. And as Pakistanis, just make sure there would be intersect/interethnic/interkuchhhhh bhi problems after. We live in America but it’s the same thinking here.

Anyway so Bhot time baad I wondered what he’s up to. I never ever stalked him, i just always mind my own business. But I thought randomly. And mashallah he’s doing very good. But he became kinda gothic idk he opened a clothing store and that’s the aesthetic. But when I saw his reel on their stores page I just… I felt so weird. He is trying to look tough and goth for this aesthetic but.. it’s like I know the real him and how soft he is. I know this is an act. He’s so miskeen like I felt soo bad looking at it?? Like idk what I am thinking. Is it guilt after all these years? I have no idea. It’s not love or remembering him, Wallahi. But mashallah he’s doing very well and I know he will keep his future wife happy. I wish the best from the bottom of my heart.

I just want everyone to know if you’re going through a breakup then woh shakhs gaya bhaar main. Move on with your life. Be successful, make a name and don’t EVER cry over them. Life goes on. Life is a blessing. Your purpose is to serve your creator. Please don’t get into relationships because I have seen it mess up some people. Give importance to your parents, siblings, friends, teachers. Make money. Get educated. You need to win. No one is worthy of your tears.

I’m married now. Yes my husband knows I had a boyfriend many years ago. He knows everything. I never ever think of men or talk to men. Even this stalking was after so many years and it was just a random curiosity. God knows I have no feelings for anyone else. 0% of it was love or missing him. But idk. I just feel sooo Ajeeb??? Just mixed emotions.

Hi everyone,

My husband did his Bachelors of CS and Masters of AI and Machine Learning from Southhampton, United Kingdom. He is struggling to find a job in Canada. He is a permanent resident and has no Canadian experience. He has experience only from the UK, working at IT HelpDesk for a grocery store. It’s even hard for him to find a Help Desk job or a basic tech job here in Ottawa.

Now he is thinking about doing a second masters in Computer Science. He works full time as a driver and wants to do the degree online. We are confused as to where he should do it. Not really interested in any diplomas or certificates.

A lot of our friends recommend Georgia Tech but it’s also outside of Canada. We did some research and see it’s very prestigious and a lot of companies love Georgia Tech grads in the US. But here? What if it ends up being worthless again? The other choice is Master of Computing and Information Systems from Athabasca. We want something that would help him break into tech, even if it has to be at a smaller scale and he can eventually grow and work his way up.

I have never met a smarter person, and his work ethic is absolutely crazy. I am not being biased but seriously, anyone that hires him will be happy.

Hi everyone, I’m hoping someone here might be able to offer some guidance or leads.

My husband has a Master’s degree in Computer Science from the UK and has been struggling to find a job in his field. He’s been driving Uber for over two years now, and it’s been really tough for us financially. He’s open to starting anywhere… help desk, entry-level IT roles, or absolutely any opportunity where he can grow.

We’re based in Ottawa but are willing to relocate anywhere within Ontario for the right opportunity.

He’s extremely hardworking, reliable, and genuinely passionate about building a career in tech. I truly believe he has the potential to grow into leadership roles over time because of his dedication and work ethic.

If anyone has advice, connections, or knows of any openings, we would be incredibly grateful. Thank you so much for taking the time to read this