u/pauanabella

wlw books??

guyssss!!! i’m a 20 year old wlw girl. i need good wlw book recs.

i’m very easily cringed out and my favorite form of romance book is silent admiration that isn’t cheesy but is still intense.

would love something with some depth and humor.

also LOVE a tragicomedy…

i’m an adult so spicy recommendations would be wonderful <3

i also am open to time pieces but would prefer to start with a book that isn’t a historical fiction book because sometimes it feels like that’s the only lesbian media out there, yk?

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u/pauanabella — 1 day ago

wlw books??

guyssss!!! i’m a 20 year old wlw girl. i need good wlw book recs.

i’m very easily cringed out and my favorite form of romance book is silent admiration that isn’t cheesy but is still intense.

would love something with some depth and humor.

also LOVE a tragicomedy…

i’m an adult so spicy recommendations would be wonderful <3

i also am open to time pieces but would prefer to start with a book that isn’t a historical fiction book because sometimes it feels like that’s the only lesbian media out there, yk?

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u/pauanabella — 1 day ago

[20/f] looking for pen pals interested in tragicomedies…

hi! my name is pau. i’m looking for pen pals (in any side of the world) (though i live in the us), to send letters back and forth with.

i’d like to put a good amount of thought and work into the letters and send and receive them once a month.

i’d want to include things like stickers, sticker sheets, local/travel post cards, letters, zines, prints, and art.

not to sound like i’m submitting a job application, but a few of my interests include song writing, photography, philosophy, creative writing, indie/sleazy video games, lesbianism, and emotional masochism (this one is a me problem, pls don’t contribute.)

i love to read about various experiences with an open mind so i’m open to both people that can relate to me, and people who probably cannot.

i am also both chronically and mentally ill if someone is looking to feel a little less alone.

if there is anyone out there interested in my song lyrics, stupid poems, little trinkets, and dumb jokes, contact me!

i’m looking forward to hearing from some whimsical ahh ppl :)

*strictly platonic*

-pau

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u/pauanabella — 1 day ago

wlw books??

guyssss!!! i’m a 20 year old wlw girl. i need good wlw book recs.

i’m very easily cringed out and my favorite form of romance book is silent admiration that isn’t cheesy but is still intense.

would love something with some depth and humor.

also LOVE a tragicomedy…

i’m an adult so spicy recommendations would be wonderful <3

i also am open to time pieces but would prefer to start with a book that isn’t a historical fiction book because sometimes it feels like that’s the only lesbian media out there, yk?

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u/pauanabella — 2 days ago

How do I feel about my dad (65M) treating me (20F) poorly?

My dad and I got into a fight about 8 days ago about my health. I recently got a major, life changing surgery and he got upset with me because I didn’t want to make a deal with him about my health.

He’s quite the holistic guy and tends to lean towards the extreme side of any position he holds. The deal was to not eat anything with seed oils, anything processed, any fast food, or any fried food ever again.

I didn’t agree first of all, because I found his conditions too strict, and second of all because his expectations of me are already so intense, I didn’t want to promise him more things to expect from me.

Since I said no, he has been giving me the silent treatment for the past 8 days. He will go into the kitchen and stomp his feet loudly, and slam the door to his office and keep to himself.

Usually he is, for lack of better terms, up my butt all the time. But I haven’t heard anything from him and he’s calling my sister occasionally to tell her how unappreciative and selfish I am.

The only things I have heard come out of his mouth to address me are mean and critical. He’ll criticize me for not telling him I went to my moms the previous night, or make sarcastic remarks about what I’m doing or eating.

He’s been like this for as long as I can remember. Love bombing me and then if I do something that doesn’t satisfy him, he’ll treat me like I don’t even exist other than to be an underachiever. How do I even feel about this situation?

I’ve been trying to just ignore it until he decides to get over his grudge like he always does, but it doesn’t seem to be letting up and I don’t want to tell him it’s effecting me because I think that’s exactly what he wants.

I’ve been really tense and sad about the whole situation and really frustrated over how much his grudge has been effecting my quality of life. How do I navigate a situation like this?

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u/pauanabella — 8 days ago

Twin Peaks Application

hey guys, i applied to twin peaks today. i went in person in a twin peaks esc outfit and everything. the manager told me all the positions were full but he’d see what he could do for me. then he micro interviewed me. he asked me my availability and my work experience quickly while we were standing and talking. then he said he’d mention my application to corporate. i felt like i was getting mixed signals about this. is this a good sign they want to give me a job here or bad?

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u/pauanabella — 10 days ago

twin peaks application

hey guys, i applied to twin peaks today. i went in person in a twin peaks esc outfit and everything. the manager told me all the positions were full but he’d see what he could do for me. then he micro interviewed me. he asked me my availability and my work experience quickly while we were standing and talking. then he said he’d mention my application to corporate. i felt like i was getting mixed signals about this. is this a good sign they want to give me a job here or bad?

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u/pauanabella — 10 days ago

hey all, i’m 20 years old and i recently received an organ transplant. ever since the transplant exactly 2 months ago i‘ve developed quite the shopping addiction. i’m living at home now and my energy is coming back post transplant. this causes a lot of free time and a lot of excess energy i don’t know what to do with. so i just spend. i’ve been buying 3-4 things a day from video games to manga to facebook market items to books. a LOT of books.

i have more than i know what to do with now. but i can’t seem to stop.

i’ve used my surgery as an excuse to alleviate the guilt but i still feel some sort of way about it.

i also have the money to be spending which makes me feel bad because i know there’s people who don’t even have the opportunity to spend as carelessly as i do even if they wanted to.

i don’t know what to think about this all, does anyone know if my illness should be an excuse for this?

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u/pauanabella — 18 days ago