I'm 33 years old, have aspergers, high functioning autism, am on disability, but some of my family wants me to get married

I'm a 33 year old man. I never worked a real job. I live with my mom. My mom has me on disability. I have a lot of mental stress from a lot of stuff, mostly made up in my own head. Its really just drained me. I never really talk to my family about this.

Peridontal issues increased my stress more. I pleaded with my parents to send me to the dentist to the point it annoys them. Even now I still have some gum problems and maybe nerve problems in my head.

Because I'm 33 everyone wants me to get married and I don't think I'm ready. Most people on my dad's side anyway.

There are a lot of things I want to do that I can't move on from and i don't think I can focus on a relationship, even if i do feel needing at times.

I hate people deciding what to do for me in my life. I used to accept change easier and now I can't stand anything changing even though I know its inevitable.

I can barely take care of myself. How do you expect me to take care of a wife?

Don't arrange marriages for me.

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u/pokemonyugiohfan21 — 6 days ago

If the forge of Solus Prime didn't break could Optimus have restored its power?

It says it was powered by a neutron star so theoretically they'd just have to find another one and put it into the forge. Much easier said than done of course but it may have worked.

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u/pokemonyugiohfan21 — 8 days ago

If you put Zeedmillenniummon in cyber sleuth or time stranger how would you do it?

There is a mod that adds Kimera, Millennium and Zeed that's already like 3 years old and in usual mod fashion its pretty overpowered.

For Zeedmillenniummon its fitting sure but I think that it should still be balanced to fit in game parameters when its playable.

The mod has it with Time destroyer which is 2 to 3 def penetrating extra strong AOE attacks which is equivalent to Alphamon ouryuken attacking 3 times on all foes.

I know he's a super villain boss but that's very op.

Time endless is shinegreymon BM but with 300 bp. Speaks for itself. It also sets up accel boost and I'm like....no, too busted. Not even a cooldown.

Support skill is critical + evasion up by 75% and immune to all status.

Way too strong.

I took the liberty of nerfing all these traits. This is something even the hard mode of this game would consider an overpowered boss.

They are mostly fine if its just when you fight the boss but its too strong playable. Heck I nerfed the boss too. So how would you nerf the playable one?

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u/pokemonyugiohfan21 — 10 days ago

I wish they actually committed to the beast part of beast hunters

I would have liked it if we got more predacons than just Predaking, Darksteel and Skylynx.

Also if they decided to actually go "beast wars" style.

Ratchet somehow manages to create his own predacons but only like two of them because autobots believe in comrades, not slaves.

Alternatively Shockwaves completes creating the predacon clones but 2 of them defect to the autobots.

That would have been interesting to see.

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u/pokemonyugiohfan21 — 11 days ago

If Kazemon and Zephyrmon were in cyber sleuth, what one attack would they have? (Modding question)

I'm asking this because i use mods to enhance my playthroughs of cyber sleuth and hacker's memory with more digimon and some QOL stuff.

Ultimatedigimonpack has Kazemon who used to use the new century model. It used Tempest Twist for its attack. Thing is the animation is choppy and it clips through the floor. Plus it has no faint animation so I waited for the DMO model to be used.

Lo and behold the time came and UDP updated to use the DMO model.

Here's the problem. It came with two attacks and i don't know which one to use. They were hurricane wave and rose temporale (the kicking move).

I wanted to only use one move but i couldn't figure out which one. I could use hurricane wave but then she wouldn't kick and its not Kazemon if she doesn't kick.

I could use Roseo temporale but the kicking animation sucks.

The move I'd use for her is Tempest twist but the short animation dmo has of it is too short and i don't want to use it. Overtime i realized that i don't like the dmo model very much as its not pretty, especially the face. The part of it thats better than the NC model is that it has a fainting animation.

Then i thought about going back to the old New century model. The face overall i think is the best part of it. The problem is everything else. It uses tempest twist which I like but its such a long animation and clips into the ground like i said.

Its driving me nuts and i need to know what bandai would give her as a single attack. I want to use something physical as Zephyrmon is using a special attack with hurricane gale. If its ok to use the special attack I'm fine with that too.

Hope someone can let me know.

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u/pokemonyugiohfan21 — 18 days ago

How would HFIL react to Kid buu, Dabura and Babadi?

I'd imagine since he can't kill anyone Kid Buu just starts bullying people and pranking them childishly, then both the Ogres and the other villains file a complaint to King Yemma and that's how he gets reincarnated as Uub.

Dabura would just go to heaven for good behavior and Babadi stays and deals with the everyday painful afterlife.

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u/pokemonyugiohfan21 — 19 days ago
▲ 97 r/digimon

Yugioh Gx, Jaden and Chazz Digimon partners and lines.

Was on my mind for a bit and wanted to see the digimon that characters from other series would have. Here are Jaden Yuki and Chazz Princeton's digimon partners.

Jaden has a lot of variety with Veemon ultimately culminating with Justimon to reference his elemental HERO deck and the multiple armors referencing the various elements his hero and neo spacians use (Note that Magnamon only appears once in a while like in 02).

Chazz gets Chuumon for the laughs and it evolves into Geremon for the same reason but also to reference Ojama yellow. I'd like to imagine Geremon calls him boss.

I'll think of some other lines for other characters as well.

u/pokemonyugiohfan21 — 20 days ago

Why the heck would the cybertronian ancients send Tox-en to earth?

I know that the relics aren't always going to be mystic forces with the power of the primes or weapons of mass destruction (the joke is intentional), but sending a poisonous substance to earth is just stupid. Especially since it can probably destroy the wildlife on earth.

On a side note why did Bulkhead not blow up all of the Tox-en in the container? I guess they could have used the residue as a weapon but I think there were other ways to dispose of it without Bulkhead making himself get what is essentially radiation poisoning.

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u/pokemonyugiohfan21 — 22 days ago

Lets ask the big question (SPOILERS). Do you think Megatron's sudden change of heart in Predacon rising made sense or was it rushed?

He says he now knows the true meaning of oppression, referring to his loss of free will being possessed by Unicron and actually experiencing death.

I mean I guess an experience like that can indeed change someone but there are some villains who come back to life and stay evil. Does this suggest Megatron is not really *that* evil?

Why would he not want to conquer Cybertron anymore?

It's explained in some comics (I think) that he was born and enslaved and then after became worse than the ones who enforce the caste system with the decepticon uprising. I guess when he says he now knows what oppression is he means there is a fate worse than being a low class slave. Fair i guess.

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u/pokemonyugiohfan21 — 23 days ago

How did the decepticons not find the autobot base sooner when it should be very obvious where it could be.

If they paid attention to the kids they'd realize that they all live in Jasper Nevada. Seeing that pattern and the autobots riding with the human kids there often (using Soundwave's surveillance) they could deduce that the autobot base was somewhere near the city.

After that Megatron could send hundreds of troopers to raze the city one building at a time and then continue attacking outside the city limits until they detect the hidden missile silo. After that Megatron actually gets off his metal hide and takes action along with Knockout and Breakdown, Arachnid (This would be in late season 1 or early season 2 so Starscream may or may not still be there) and Dreadwing.

Like i get it takes tactics to win a war but using common sense Megatron could have found their base a lot sooner.

After that i don't know what would happen. Maybe Optimus and everyone else have to just kill hundreds of Vehicons and fight Megatron.

It would draw Optimus out of hiding at least.

As a counterpoint, the autobots could try actually destroying Megatron's ship as they've been on it many times.

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u/pokemonyugiohfan21 — 28 days ago

Its amazing how the decepticons didn't win the war already despite all their advantages

Seriously, they have a warship, an army (although it quickly begins sucking because Megatron makes troopers out of cheap materials i guess), the incredible reliability of Soundwave and his space bridging ability and communication intercepting, Shockwave's genius (in season 3), and weapons in vehicle mode.

The autobots have none of that. I wish they at least had the weapons in vehicle mode like in the Prime ds/3ds game.

Oh also, *no flyers*. Being a car is probably one of the most useless modes I'm sorry to say. I guess they don't have the biological components to become mini planes.

But yeah all the Autobots had was the power of a prime and some humans to help. It worked and I'm glad for it of course but they could have used more of an edge.

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u/pokemonyugiohfan21 — 28 days ago

Fanfic I made over a decade ago about Jack, Miko and Raf turning into Cybertronians

https://www.deviantart.com/thetoonmeister360/art/Transformers-prime-Life-as-a-cybertronian-pt-1-330657163

https://www.deviantart.com/thetoonmeister360/art/Tfp-Life-as-a-cybertronian-pt-2-336607370

https://www.deviantart.com/thetoonmeister360/art/Tfp-Life-as-a-Cybertronian-part-3-922158996

So when the show was still airing I thought it would be a great idea if Jack Miko and Raf became autobots. Would help them not be so vulnerable and helpless as humans usually are.

I recently tried continuing it but I think if i did I should start over. The references to real world stuff like the nintendo ds i could probably take out.

Anyway i just wanted to show it off. And yes I posted it on deviantart and just never posted it anywhere else just because i never really got around to do it or felt like it.

u/pokemonyugiohfan21 — 1 month ago

Who's plan was better? Starscream's or Airachnid's?

Starscream sent his 5 clones to kill Megatron while Airachnid sent an insecticon hive.

I think Airachnid had the better idea by the sheer numbers as the Starscreams were being manipulated easily. Who knows though the Starscreams could have succeeded if it wasn't for Airachnid.

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u/pokemonyugiohfan21 — 1 month ago

How would you buff Ophanimon?

Lets face it, Ophanimon's main attack sucks in comparison to Angewomon who can remove stat buffs even if its a single target move. Ophanimon's attack does nothing, just increases INT by like 20% which is like, ok good luck getting through a lot of optional bosses.

I think a major issue with CSHM is the optional bosses leave you with little choice on what you can do and they are just designed to piss you off. I like being able to use whatever I want.

But enough on that tangent, I just think Ophanimon is not very useful. Her main attack anyway.

She's good for a cleric but even then Marineangemon is better even if less offensive. Eden's Javelin just suuucks. Only way it could be good is if it pierced but you might as well give everyone pierce or severely weaken the bulk of the bosses with a cheat or mod.

I hate when they do this for JRPGs. That includes pokemon with the battle facilities if any. Stop making it harder to just play.

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u/pokemonyugiohfan21 — 1 month ago

Gum recession hurts so much pain spreads to neck and shoulders

What can I do? Do I have to go to a specialist? Nothing short of removing the tooth will help I think

I keep getting these gum problems for 2 years and nothing makes them go away forever. Its constant gum recession and abrasion.

I don't know what to do. Do i need a gum graft? I never had one before.

u/pokemonyugiohfan21 — 1 month ago

Something that always bothered me about the Autobots in Prime

Its bad enough they can't fly but they have no weapons with vehicle mode. Even the stormtrooper goon vehichons have built in blasters in their front hoods, even the cars as seen in episodes 1 and 2.

In the 2012 3ds game transformers prime they all had weapons in vehicle mode but not in the show. It really sucks imo.

At least Optimus got some in season 3.

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u/pokemonyugiohfan21 — 1 month ago
▲ 885 r/digimon

what most people were thinking when Shakkoumon appeared

Yes i know its a Dogu, i just thought the teapot would be funnier to use since its kind of that too.

u/pokemonyugiohfan21 — 2 months ago

Hot take; Imperialdramon Paladin mode should pierce

I'm saying this because number 1 its an ultra. Number 2 in the original cyber sleuth for ps4 you had to beat all the royal knights and paladin mode the founder himself to be able to even get the form.

For all that effort he should be a top tier mon in PVE and he just isn't. I don't know about pvp and i don't care because pvp kind of sucks in CSHM.

Ultras should by default do intense damage, yet Omnimon's transcendent sword barely leaves a dent against mons in the abyss server. Imo base Omnimon's sword should pierce and Zwart's cannon should pierce.

Paladin mode deserves the pierce. I don't know if he needs it but he deserves it.

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u/pokemonyugiohfan21 — 2 months ago

If X digimon were in CS what would Chaosdramon X get to make it stronger than its base form?

It already has pierce with poison and a decent Aoe move.

There's not much you can give it to make Chaosdramon X better and if you take away the pierce it makes it worse.

I think it should get extra extra strong pierce with poison and paralyzing if it got its X form and the Aoe move gets stat drops.

Support skill could be just blast digivolution like Alphamon Ouryuken.

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u/pokemonyugiohfan21 — 2 months ago