I'm 33 years old, have aspergers, high functioning autism, am on disability, but some of my family wants me to get married
I'm a 33 year old man. I never worked a real job. I live with my mom. My mom has me on disability. I have a lot of mental stress from a lot of stuff, mostly made up in my own head. Its really just drained me. I never really talk to my family about this.
Peridontal issues increased my stress more. I pleaded with my parents to send me to the dentist to the point it annoys them. Even now I still have some gum problems and maybe nerve problems in my head.
Because I'm 33 everyone wants me to get married and I don't think I'm ready. Most people on my dad's side anyway.
There are a lot of things I want to do that I can't move on from and i don't think I can focus on a relationship, even if i do feel needing at times.
I hate people deciding what to do for me in my life. I used to accept change easier and now I can't stand anything changing even though I know its inevitable.
I can barely take care of myself. How do you expect me to take care of a wife?
Don't arrange marriages for me.