u/puppybabii

I was around 14-15 when i was groomed for the first times when i fully remember it. this was over the course of months, maybe 7 months. There were three main ones i remember, because i had formed a bond with each of them.

I was also in a very unsafe and unstable relationship with someone who was older than me, and used me as an emotional landfill. I would form there romantic and at first almost paternal relationships with these men, and then they said they loved me and wanted to see my body because i was so pretty. And i did it because i genuinely thought we had something good, only to be blocked when i stated to get exhausted of the constant sexual favors.

I keep feeling like i’m a nasty cheater because i technically cheated, though they also cheated on me within the first six months of our relationship (we were together for 3 years almost 4.) I just feel so bad that i did what i did, and i don’t even think i was in my right mind. Please tell me what you think, on the cheating part also. Thank you for the amazing mods for creating a safe space like this <3

This has caused me to meltdown multiple times, i hate it so fucking much i want to actually cry. From this sentece on i wonMt delete any typos just so you see how many i make while writong. If ant one knows id its possivle toc make rhe iphon e 13 keyboard a vut bigger i would apperciare it becaude i’m starting tso get real tired of these typos.

Anyway i ahte this so much i want to cry. It’s not a big deal but i have really bad eyesight and really big fingertips, so i literally make typos all the time. Pleade hive your advice id you have any.

Also i’ve tried speech to text thing but for some reason thsoe are always fucking dogshit. Like its insane how they keepxmakig new hones and yet they change nothign but the look of it.

Funny how i never get dm’s ever when i post somewhere else, but whenever i post anything here, i get atleast 5 requests. This sub prohibits DM’s so why the fuck are people still dm:ing me? I’m actually getting so tired of safe spaces being full of these pedophiles just lurking. Idc if you claim to just want to check on me, you can do that in the comments. Im a minor and a victim of grooming, you texting me is not helping, you are making things worse. It also sucks because these creeps have no bio or profile picture and reddit is so useless all you can report is their username. It’s getting on my nerves.

I don’t inow if i have a yeast infection or if im just ovulating. When i ovulate, and sometimes when i don’t. i feel really strong itching in my vagina, mostly on the inner labia lips and feels like kind of on the entrance too, and my dicharge is white, thick, and has a small amount of little clumps, but no smell. I wash my vagina every other day with water, and i think i might have some extra moisture trapped somewhere. I feel so ashamed to ask this but i don’t want to talk to my family about it.

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DNI IF you are over 18-19 or under 17-18

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. .┊ ◟**﹫ Name : Puppy
. .┊﹒𐐪 Age : 17, turning 18.
. .┊ꜝꜝ﹒Pronouns : he/they
. .┊ ⨳゛Sexuality : i love boys
. .┊ ◟****ヾ Likes : being silly and enjoying life.
I collect HelloKitty, squishmallows, and i love little trinkets :3
. .┊﹒𐐪 Dislikes : creeps, rudeness.
. .┊ ◟﹫ Extra : I'm friendly :3 I talk when i have the energy, which might not be often…
Don’t be a freak please. I’m a minor.
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I’m turning 18 in like four months and i guess i kinda fear that once i won’t be a ”taboo” anymore, i’ll ”expire” and i’ll be too old to recieve attention

So if you we’re attracted to women, would you date a transwoman? Or of you’re attracted to men, would you date a transman. Assuming the person is nice, and you are interested in them and they come out to you. If not, why? Btw. Transmen are real men, transwomen are real women. <3

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How do you cope with the urges to talk to people who are groomers? I’m struggling really hard rn, and i need help.

I find myself having these psychosis like episodes where all i want to do is to put myself in a situation where im likely to get groomed. Idk if i’m fully stable during those, but i always look back at it with just disgust as to why i let people do that to me. Does anyone else feel this? Im 17 and i was groomed at 14-15 and also recently i cut contact with someone who claimed to want to help me, but they reminded me of my groomers.

I want to have a healthy romantic life, i want someone safe, but for some reason i’m drawn to the attention and breaking free is harder that i thought.

Idk lol

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I’m 17 yo trans ftm and im suuuper bored :3 hmu puppyboys, i’ll reply if im not asleep (Please be alteast 2008)

I work at a daycare and the amount of times a kid has for example tried taking another kid’s/the daycare’s toy, and the parent just looks at me like ”Please tell them no because i don’t want them to get mad at me if i say it.” And im just there like…i know you want to give the world to your kid and want the best for them, but i am not gonna do your parenting for you because you’re too scared to set boundaries and rules for your kid. Also if the kid is misbehaving and the parent gives up in setting the boundary, and the child learns thst tantrums get them what they want. Saying no to your kid won’t make them hate you. I say no to kids multiple times a day, and they still want to hug and do things together with me even if they just threw a tantrum earlier. Making rules for your kids won’t break them, but not making any might.

Your kid can’t always win, can’t always be first, and can’t get everything they want even from other kids, so stop teaching them they can.

Clothes, furniture, car, is it okay to for example scratch your ex’s car with keys because they cheated? Or burn their clothes you borrowed.

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Which one crosses the border for you as in ”now this is cheating.”

Clarifying incase it’s unclear :3
If you choose for example ”kisses” that means ”The other milder ones aren’t cheating for me, this is where that changes

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I don’t care that you dog is the sweetest baby, i don’t want it’s nose that is sniffs feces with to be in my crotch, not to mention what if i was allergic and the dog hair got on me? Just don’t let your dog at strangers unless they ask if they can say hi to your dog. Please. Same for any pet really, though i don’t believe cats are big enough to sniff your crotch. Just don’t let your pet at random people

Like a person will only say negative things about their partner but doesn’t want to communicate those things to their partner, and will only complain more about how shitty they are.

Like why don’t you

1. COMMUNICATE
2. Leave them if theyre that shitty.

Obviously i’m not talking about abusive relationships or ones that the person is planning to leave, but ones where the person hates their partner but doesn’t want to be single, and only complains to be pityed.

I could be watching a show on the living room tv and making food for myself, and as soon as i see that car pull up in the driveway, my mood is instantly ruined and i just go back in my room.

Like i don’t need you to tell me to clean my room and ask why this, why that, why didn’t you do this and that?
Like yeah it’s their house but im also living in it and i have the right to watch my show in the living room if i want.
Also i deep clean everyweek and the only time my room is actually a mess is when i’m working on an art project, so obviously stuff is not gonna be in their place neatly organized

None of the tutorials work and i already turned off shortcut notifications, yet i still get them everytime i open an app thats customised. Please help as i am about to crash out🙏

In my country we have these devices called ”Rappuralli” which have three brush-heads on left, right, and under. Then you brush off the dirt off the shoe before going in and leaving them in the room you leave clothes and shoes (i think it’s called a vestibule??).

Now, not everyone uses it, and then they walk into the vestibule with the dirty shoes and all the grass and leaves stick to the carpet, and it needs to be vacuumed afterward. Like use the fuckin rappuralli bro, or vacuum the floor. Especially annoying then it’s spring and dead grass is everywhere after the snow melts.