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Hi all, I just figured out my front license plate is gone. I had it this morning when I ran errands and then all of a sudden a bit ago my fiancé asked me where my front plate was.. front plate, plate cover, and screws are gone so I am thinking it fell off at some point. I am going to retrace my steps tomorrow morning and drive to the few places I ran errands at this morning to see if I can’t find it laying somewheres.

My question is what am I supposed to do if I only lost one plate? I searched google and it said get a police report but I don’t even know what happened to it and that seems like a hassle. Can’t say stolen because I have had no ring camera activity since I came home this morning. Can I just make an appointment with the DMV? (if so what type of appointment?) Thank you in advance.

UPDATE: I have an appointment at 10:45am tomorrow for the new tags and to report the tags lost/stolen at the DMV. I called my local PD Non Emergency line, officer from another town came out (my town and another share a zip, sometimes officers from the other town respond) gave them what they needed. Got a call a little bit ago from their chief letting me know they have everything and will be turning it over to my municipality but basically make a DMV appointment because they cannot add the plates to the NCIS until they’re reported to the DMV and I have new plates and the receipt. Or else if I did drive the car it’ll look like I stole my own car if they run my remaining tag. Thank you for everyone here that actually had helpful information 🙏🏻 been a licensed driver and had my own car for 10 years and never dealt with this before.

I mean it when I say this is the most exhausted, mentally checked out I’ve felt about working my whole life 🫩 I’m thankful my state gives 4 weeks before the due date paid by the state but it’s legit not coming quick enough. I’m so sick of getting up every day, commutes, the job itself, wasting PTO because shit keeps hitting the fan in some way health wise. I wish we could all stop working way earlier on and it wasn’t like pulling teeth to get put out any earlier by a doctor. The exhaustion is getting way worse and idk how much more I can take I still have 2 months left before I can go out.

Hi everyone, just posting to ask if your guys’ partners were involved or came to the baby shower?

My fiancé is very uninterested in being there. This possibly stems from his family having the strong belief that “Baby Showers are for women!” His dad and brother and just about every other male family member said they aren’t coming.

This is a bit off putting to me, mainly because my mom’s baby shower with me back in 1998 was VERY co-ed, both men and women came, and you know, that was the 90’s where you’d think that belief that showers are for women would have been stronger. Not only that but my dad (RIP to him) was very excited to be there. I still have some cousins tell me to this day that man was obsessed with me before I was even born.

Idk it just makes me think at the end of the day my fiancé isn’t that excited even though we’re having a Boy which he really wanted. Kind of a ramble but also a genuine question. I personally haven’t excluded men from the guest list but so far none are interested in coming.

Idk guys this Mother’s Day just feels off for me. I sort of feel like it doesn’t count yet. Sure, I am growing a whole human, and so far worried like crazy the last 20 weeks but like.. I have yet to go through the miracle of birth or sleepless nights or dirty diapers or parenting in general.. idk it’s weird. Definitely not discrediting those who are pregnant but initially I wasn’t going to count it for myself until next year 😅 Getting a ton of Happy Mother’s Day messages feels off, almost like it’s not real

Happy Mother’s Day to the rest of you in here though 💐

Currently have had 1 foot damn near in the grave all week because people can’t just stay the hell home when they are sick. Multiple people at my job have been sick over the last few weeks and have just shown up to work like that regardless. I was immune compromised BEFORE pregnancy. Chronic Migraines + pregnancy make this crap 10000x more unbearable than it already is. I can’t take most cold medicines, I can’t take any of my migraine medicines, I have barely been functioning this week.

I get people don’t wanna burn time or feel like they can’t miss or whatever the reason may be, I been there too, but what makes you think it’s fair for me to burn more time or miss either tho??? Due to this and other complications I had earlier in my pregnancy (unspecified heavy bleeding episodes, all turned out okay) now I only have 4 days left of time to ration for the next 4 months! and already need a half day next week so really 3.5 days.. Please just stay home if you are sick. Everybody needs to take care of themselves.

EDIT: some of you can go ahead and argue with yourself, probably the reason the last big illness a few years ago went the way it did…

Hi guys, I got an auto loan through Capital One in October 2025. Really not the best terms (6 years and 12% interest) so I looked into refinancing, I got approved, sent in all my docs, and the loan has now been funded with Ally (shaved 6 months off my loan and dropped my interest rate by 4% which is why I made the switch) I just have a few questions since I never refinanced an auto loan before. Hoping some folks can help answer and save me a phone call.

1. I have a $120 payment due on 5/1 (I pay 1/4 of my loan weekly), even though Ally will be paying it off within the next few days, will I still need to make that last $120 payment?

2. Ally has told me to change my lienholder on my car insurance ASAP which I did, will Capital One be notified and try to come after my car in the next few days? Just don’t want the tow truck coming is all.

Thank you in advance