Dad went through my letter
Hi there, first post.
My dad went through my room to find a letter addressed to him which I was helping with. Under this letter there was another open one which had my GF’s credit card in. He pretended like nothing happened but he showed my little sister who then told me without him knowing.
He hasn’t brought it up but I can feel his energy is off.
He also doesn’t work and just stays at home napping and doing groceries here and there.
Today he asked my sister to do some research on the persons name.
I feel stupid for leaving it out. My family are religious so no GFs allowed. I’m in my late 20s and living at home to save up for a house. I also pay £400 rent plus wifi each month.
He could’ve just asked that he was looking for his letter. He also complains I spend too much money on vacations and going out (I don’t).
I’m thinking of just moving out to rent but I won’t save as much. Any advice?