22M, been grinding for years, still feel lost. Looking for a repeatable daily routine.

I'm 22. Been going hard for years—school, work, trying to get ahead. I did everything I was told to do, but I'm still not where I want to be.

I have the energy. I have the will. I just don't have a clear, repeatable routine I can follow without thinking.

I'm looking for:

  • A simple daily system I can execute every day run gym stduy work
  • No planning, no overthinking—just action
  • Something sustainable I can do for years

I don't care about motivation. I care about consistency.

If you've been lost and found a system that worked, I'd appreciate hearing it.

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u/redditorviews268 — 11 days ago
▲ 27 r/askvan

, need to learn basic life skills. Where to start?

eed to learn:

  • Cooking simple meals
  • Budgeting / tracking money
  • How taxes work
  • Minor home repairs
  • Managing stress
  • Building a routine
  • Social skills

Can anyone teach me

Thanks.

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u/redditorviews268 — 12 days ago

need to learn basic life skills. Where to start?

22, been on my own for a while. Nobody taught me the basics. Need to learn:

  • Cooking simple meals
  • Budgeting / tracking money
  • How taxes work
  • Minor home repairs
  • Managing stress
  • Building a routine
  • Social skills

Not looking for sympathy. Just practical advice.

Can soem one twach me

Thanks.

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u/redditorviews268 — 12 days ago
▲ 57 r/Life

People show up when you're winning. Leech off you. Then disappear when you lose even if it just temporary. Why

I've noticed a pattern that's been bothering me.

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When I'm winning—when things are going well, when I have something to offer, when I'm in a good place—people show up. They want to be around me. They want to be my friend. They want to be part of what I'm doing.

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But the moment things go south? The moment I'm struggling, lost, or just not useful to them? They disappear. Or worse, they stick around just long enough to take what they can before they leave.

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Show up when winning. Leech when winning. Gone when losing.

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It's like I'm only valuable to them when I have something they can use—whether it's my energy, my success, my resources, or just the status of being around someone who's doing well. But when I'm temporarily down? When I need support? Crickets.

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I'm not saying everyone is like this. But I've seen it enough times to know it's a real pattern.

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Has anyone else experienced this? How do you tell the difference between real friends and people who are just using you?

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u/redditorviews268 — 15 days ago

People show up when you're winning. Leech off you. Then disappear when you lose even if it just temporary. Why

I've noticed a pattern that's been bothering me.

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When I'm winning—when things are going well, when I have something to offer, when I'm in a good place—people show up. They want to be around me. They want to be my friend. They want to be part of what I'm doing.

​

But the moment things go south? The moment I'm struggling, lost, or just not useful to them? They disappear. Or worse, they stick around just long enough to take what they can before they leave.

​

Show up when winning. Leech when winning. Gone when losing.

​

It's like I'm only valuable to them when I have something they can use—whether it's my energy, my success, my resources, or just the status of being around someone who's doing well. But when I'm temporarily down? When I need support? Crickets.

​

I'm not saying everyone is like this. But I've seen it enough times to know it's a real pattern.

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Has anyone else experienced this? How do you tell the difference between real friends and people who are just using you?

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u/redditorviews268 — 15 days ago
▲ 0 r/AskMen

People show up when you're winning. Leech off you. Then disappear when you lose even if it just temporary. Why?

I've noticed a pattern that's been bothering me.

​

When I'm winning—when things are going well, when I have something to offer, when I'm in a good place—people show up. They want to be around me. They want to be my friend. They want to be part of what I'm doing.

​

But the moment things go south? The moment I'm struggling, lost, or just not useful to them? They disappear. Or worse, they stick around just long enough to take what they can before they leave.

​

Show up when winning. Leech when winning. Gone when losing.

​

It's like I'm only valuable to them when I have something they can use—whether it's my energy, my success, my resources, or just the status of being around someone who's doing well. But when I'm temporarily down? When I need support? Crickets.

​

I'm not saying everyone is like this. But I've seen it enough times to know it's a real pattern.

​

Has anyone else experienced this? How do you tell the difference between real friends and people who are just using you?

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u/redditorviews268 — 15 days ago
▲ 1 r/ubco

Looking for feedback on these profs – Mostafa Mohamed, Giovanni Grandi, David Macdonald, Evan Habkirk, etc.

Hey everyone,

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I'm putting together my schedule for the upcoming Winter Term 1 & 2 (2026-27) and wanted to see if anyone has had experience with the following professors. I've searched around but figured I'd ask here for some honest opinions.

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Here's my list so far:

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Term 1 (Sept – Dec 2026)

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· Mostafa Mohamed – (Course not listed, but appears in the search results). RateMyProf shows an overall 1.5 rating with comments like "students are treated poorly" and "opportunities are non-existent". Seems like a red flag—anyone have more context?

· Giovanni Grandi – Philosophy (likely PHIL 120 or similar). RateMyProf shows a 2.9 overall quality with 55 ratings, 54% would take again, and a 2.2 difficulty. Some students say he's "very approachable, helpful, and wanted all of the class to succeed". Others seem mixed. Anyone taken a class with him?

· David Macdonald – INDG_O 100 (Introduction to Decolonization: Indigenous Studies). Seems to be a well-published academic in Indigenous politics and reconciliation. Any thoughts on his teaching style?

· Evan Habkirk – MATH_O 100 (Differential Calculus). Actually appears to be a Lecturer in Indigenous Studies, not Math. Is this a different Evan Habkirk, or is he teaching Math as well? Anyone had him?

· Chad Davis – PHIL_O 120 (Logic and Critical Thinking). Couldn't find much on RateMyProf specifically, but the Philosophy department overall has a 3.8 rating. Any feedback?

· Holger Andreas – PHIL_O 120 (likely another section). Associate Professor in Philosophy, specializes in logic, philosophy of science, and epistemology. Seems very qualified. Anyone taken a class with him?

· Cynthia Hernández Garcia – SPAN_O 101 (Beginners' Spanish I). Students say she's "so passionate about Spanish" and "an exemplary Spanish teacher". Seems like a solid choice.

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Term 2 (Jan – April 2027)

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· Meilan Ehlert – CHIN_O 100 (Basic Chinese I). Lecturer in Languages and World Literatures. RateMyProf shows a 4.8 quality with 16 ratings, but only 4% would take again. That's an interesting spread—anyone know why?

· Kit Pasula – ECON_O 205 (Intermediate Macroeconomic Analysis) and ECON_O 356 (International Finance). Associate Professor of Economics. Students say he's "an absolute gem," "super clear," and his tests are "not tricky or incredibly challenging". Seems like a good pick.

· Khan Islam – ECON_O 345 (Money and Banking). Couldn't find much on RateMyProf. Anyone have experience?

· Ross Hickey – ECON_O 352 (Public Sector Economics). Associate Professor in Economics and Faculty of Management. Teaches public sector economics and has been quoted in the news on economic issues. Seems knowledgeable.

· Claire Halston – ENGL_O 112 (Studies in Composition). Sessional Lecturer in English. RateMyProf says she's "genuinely one of the best professors at UBCO," "caring," and "has good energy". One downside: feedback on assignments came late.

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Overall Questions:

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  1. Has anyone had Mostafa Mohamed? The low rating is concerning—is it accurate or just a handful of upset students?

  2. Evan Habkirk is listed as teaching MATH_O 100 but appears to be an Indigenous Studies lecturer—anyone know if this is the same person or a mix-up?

  3. Any general advice on workload, grading, or must-avoid/must-take profs?

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Appreciate any input. Thanks!

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u/redditorviews268 — 15 days ago
▲ 8 r/askvan

Want to learn practical survival skills but not sure where to start—anyone willing to teach or point me in the right direction?

Hey everyone,

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I'm looking to learn some practical survival skills—stuff like fire-making, water purification, shelter building, basic first aid, that kind of thing. Not trying to become some hardcore bushcraft expert or anything. I just want to feel more capable and calm when I'm outdoors or in an unexpected situation.

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The thing is, I don't really know where to start. I've watched some YouTube videos, but it's not the same as having someone show you in person. I

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Thanks in advance.

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u/redditorviews268 — 17 days ago

Want to learn practical survival skills but not sure where to start—anyone willing to teach or point me in the right direction?

Hey everyone,

I'm looking to learn some practical survival skills—stuff like fire-making, water purification, shelter building, basic first aid, that kind of thing. Not trying to become some hardcore bushcraft expert or anything. I just want to feel more capable and calm when I'm outdoors or in an unexpected situation.

The thing is, I don't really know where to start. I've watched some YouTube videos, but it's not the same as having someone show you in person. I

Thanks in advance.

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u/redditorviews268 — 17 days ago
▲ 1 r/ubco

Eco question

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I'm planning out my upper-level economics courses and would really appreciate honest feedback from anyone who's taken similar classes.

What I'm looking for:

· Core theory courses – how heavy is the workload? Any professors to seek out (or avoid)?

· Money and banking – is it more theoretical or practical? Manageable for someone who prefers structured, quantitative work?

· Other upper-level electives – which ones are genuinely useful and not just GPA killers? Any hidden gems?

· Outside electives (for breadth requirements) – what are some low-stress, interesting options at the 300/400 level?

What I prefer:

· Clear, predictable grading (tests, problem sets – not vague essays or endless group projects)

· Manageable workload (structured, solo assignments)

· Organized and fair professors

What I'm trying to avoid:

· Heavy participation marks or mandatory group work

· "Bait-and-switch" classes where exams don't match the material

· Disorganized instructors or unclear grading rubrics

Also, any tips on finding evening sections for upper-level courses? My focus is much better later in the day.

Thanks in advance for any advice.

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u/redditorviews268 — 1 month ago