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1 room in a fully furnished 3 BHK 🏠 is available.
Details
Setup 2 rooms 15k each are occupied 1 13k room is vacant
Security and brokerage included
Nearest metro GTB Nagar Yellow Line 💛
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Hello girls 🥰
1 room in a fully furnished 3 BHK 🏠 is available.
Details
Setup 2 rooms 15k each are occupied 1 13k room is vacant
Security and brokerage included
Nearest metro GTB Nagar Yellow Line 💛
DM for videos or to schedule a visit
Hello girls 🥰
1 room in a fully furnished 3 BHK 🏠 is available.
Details
Setup 2 rooms 15k each are occupied 1 13k room is vacant
Security and brokerage included
Nearest metro GTB Nagar Yellow Line 💛
DM for videos or to schedule a visit
flatmate needed, North campus, Vijaynagar, Old Gupta Chowk, near Shani Mandir
Hello girls🥰
1 room in a fully furnished 3 BHK 🏠 is available.
Details
Setup Two rooms 15k each are occupied One 13k room is vacant
Security and brokerage included
Nearest metro GTB Nagar Yellow Line 💛
DM for videos or to schedule a visit
Hi everyone
I am looking for an immediate move in into a single furnished room preferably with a balcony in a pre occupied female 3 BHK around Vijay Nagar Single Storey, Kamla Nagar, Shakti Nagar, New Gupta Colony, or wherever nearby, as long as it is a clean and safe locality.
Budget 12k to 13k
About me Female DU masters student. Introverted, respect privacy, and looking for a relaxed home where everyone enjoys their independence.
Please DM me if you have any leads.💖
Hello everyone,
I have low vision and have always been reserved since childhood. In school, I thought it was shyness, and later I thought it was just introversion. Now that I've moved to university, I realize I'm dealing with severe social anxiety and a fear of judgment. It is completely destroying my life right now, I can't participate in class, and my marks, internals, and assessments are being badly hampered because of the fear of being judged. I am going through many things right now, but I need to fix this social anxiety first.
I feel like social anxiety stemming from a disability is different from standard social anxiety. Are there specialized counselors or disability-informed therapists who focus on this? If you’ve been through this, did you look for a specialist, or did a general therapist understand the unique challenges of navigating life with low vision? I'd love to hear your experiences
We are always told that keeping our walls up is a bad thing and that we need to learn to trust people. But a recent experience during my Master’s program taught me a powerful lesson: our protective walls are actually smart, intuitive tools designed to keep our dignity safe.
Because of my visual disability, I spent years isolating myself. When I started grad school, I would just sit quietly in the corner. From the first impression, people definitely notice my disability, and it usually makes them hesitate to connect with me. Even right now, when other classmates come over, they only really talk and vibe with my cousins who accompany me to campus.
That is how I met this specific classmate. They actually turned to my cousin first, assuming my cousin was in our program. But once we started talking, this person shifted their focus entirely to me. While everyone else wanted to talk to my cousins, this person talked only to me. They actively chose to keep the connection going, and we started having these incredibly long phone calls for hours, vibing over music and sharing university gossip.
For me, this was surprising and wonderful. I remember thinking, “Wow, finally, someone is genuinely interested in being my friend. They are so unique and different.” Throughout that entire year, they were genuinely so nice to me. It never once felt like they were acting out of pity or doing me a favor, which is why what happened next was such a shock. Yet, despite that happiness, something deep inside me insisted on keeping my walls up. I kept things casual and never shared my deep personal secrets, even though I felt guilty for being so guarded around someone who seemed so genuinely great.
Then, out of nowhere, this person casually dropped a confession that changed everything. They told me they only started talking to me because they knew I was lonely.
I am left completely confused about where this suddenly came from, and whether they will just act like everything is normal the next time we speak. But even though they might have meant it to sound kind, the underlying reality felt undeniable. They didn't view me as an equal peer; they saw me as a charity project to validate their own kindness.
This sparked a major realization for me about relationships. True connection requires absolute equality, not a dynamic of a "savior" and a "project." My walls weren't a sign of broken anxiety; they were my intuition picking up on that lack of true equality long before my conscious mind could see it. We shouldn't pathologize our self-protection. Sometimes, our intuition knows exactly when a relationship isn't built on the right foundation, and listening to it is the ultimate form of self-respect.
To the community: Have any other disabled folks experienced a "pity friendship" that felt 100% genuine until a sudden comment revealed the truth? How did you handle that realization?
for a long time i thought i was just an introvert but i finally realized i stay home because i am actually scared of being judged and my brain always defaults to the safe option and makes me avoid everything so i do not think i can fix this on my own and i already struggled through a year of grad school and i am worried about my grades for the next two semesters if i keep avoiding and my world is already so small that i have no people around me except my family and that is only because they have to be with me and since i only figured this out about a month ago should i wait and see if i can handle it or just go straight to professional help and for those who finally saw the difference what finally pushed you to see a counselor and i am worried that if i wait any longer i will have no life left
I am in my early 20s and I feel trapped. Please correct me if I am wrong or if I am overthinking about my condition. Since I was a child I was terrified of everyone including teachers seniors and staff. Because of a physical disability I have I never had the confidence to speak so I didn't even talk to my own classmates. Staying silent became a heavy habit that has now turned into a personality trait.
In senior school I finally tried to speak but my classmates mocked me and said Oh she actually talks. I even tried to confront them and asked why they thought I couldn't speak but their reactions pushed me right back into my bubble. When I started my three year Bachelor’s I hoped for a fresh start. I thought that since nobody knew me there as a shy student I could finally build a new personality. Instead I spent those years stuck in the same pattern.
Now that I am in my Master’s I keep on motivating myself to speak every day but the cycle followed me here too. One day I went for a presentation and messed it up so badly that I am now skipping all upcoming presentations and failing my classes because the overthinking is so intense. I’ve realized this isn't just introversion it is something much more serious. I actually love making new friends but I am physically unable to speak in person. On messages or over calls I am totally fine. But face to face the moment someone says hi my mind forgets every motivation I give myself and goes blank. Only when someone asks How are you can I manage to say Good but I can never find the words to ask them back.
I am seeking advice because I don't know how to break a 15 year habit when my mind won't let me. Is this more than just being an introvert? Has anyone else dealt with this physical block where you are fine online but mute in person? If I explain all these things to my professors will they accommodate my internal assessment marks or let me submit written assignments for my skill based courses? Any help or guidance would mean the world to me and I am wondering if good therapy can help me.
I am in my early 20s and I feel trapped. Please correct me if I am wrong or if I am overthinking about my condition. Since I was a child I was terrified of everyone including teachers seniors and staff. Because of a physical disability I have I never had the confidence to speak so I didn't even talk to my own classmates. Staying silent became a heavy habit that has now turned into a personality trait.
In senior school I finally tried to speak but my classmates mocked me and said Oh she actually talks. I even tried to confront them and asked why they thought I couldn't speak but their reactions pushed me right back into my bubble. When I started my three year Bachelor’s I hoped for a fresh start. I thought that since nobody knew me there as a shy student I could finally build a new personality. Instead I spent those years stuck in the same pattern.
Now that I am in my Master’s I keep on motivating myself to speak every day but the cycle followed me here too. One day I went for a presentation and messed it up so badly that I am now skipping all upcoming presentations and failing my classes because the overthinking is so intense. I’ve realized this isn't just introversion it is something much more serious. I actually love making new friends but I am physically unable to speak in person. On messages or over calls I am totally fine. But face to face the moment someone says hi my mind forgets every motivation I give myself and goes blank. Only when someone asks How are you can I manage to say Good but I can never find the words to ask them back.
I am seeking advice because I don't know how to break a 15 year habit when my mind won't let me. Is this more than just being an introvert? Has anyone else dealt with this physical block where you are fine online but mute in person? If I explain all these things to my professors will they accommodate my internal assessment marks or let me submit written assignments for my skill based courses? Any help or guidance would mean the world to me and I am wondering if good therapy can help me.
I am in my early 20s and I feel trapped. Please correct me if I am wrong or if I am overthinking about my condition. Since I was a child I was terrified of everyone including teachers seniors and staff. Because of a physical disability I have I never had the confidence to speak so I didn't even talk to my own classmates. Staying silent became a heavy habit that has now turned into a personality trait.
In senior school I finally tried to speak but my classmates mocked me and said Oh she actually talks. I even tried to confront them and asked why they thought I couldn't speak but their reactions pushed me right back into my bubble. When I started my three year Bachelor’s I hoped for a fresh start. I thought that since nobody knew me there as a shy student I could finally build a new personality. Instead I spent those years stuck in the same pattern.
Now that I am in my Master’s I keep on motivating myself to speak every day but the cycle followed me here too. One day I went for a presentation and messed it up so badly that I am now skipping all upcoming presentations and failing my classes because the overthinking is so intense. I’ve realized this isn't just introversion it is something much more serious. I actually love making new friends but I am physically unable to speak in person. On messages or over calls I am totally fine. But face to face the moment someone says hi my mind forgets every motivation I give myself and goes blank. Only when someone asks How are you can I manage to say Good but I can never find the words to ask them back.
I am seeking advice because I don't know how to break a 15 year habit when my mind won't let me. Is this more than just being an introvert? Has anyone else dealt with this physical block where you are fine online but mute in person? If I explain all these things to my professors will they accommodate my internal assessment marks or let me submit written assignments for my skill based courses? Any help or guidance would mean the world to me and I am wondering if good therapy can help me.