u/rishisolanki87

34M from Rajasthan. Divorced. Professionally handling business, personally handling emotional damage like it’s a full-time internship.

Life lately has been:

Wake up → work → overthink → pretend I’m fine → sleep medication → repeat.

Therapist says “heal yourself first.”

Relatives say “shaadi kar lo sab theek ho jayega.”

Meanwhile I’m just trying not to fall in love with random acts of kindness 😂

Non-smoker, non-drinker, occasionally non-vegetarian, business background, emotionally available on alternate days.

Trust issues? Premium version.

Communication skills? Good after 11 PM.

Red flags? Mostly turned pink after therapy.

Not looking for perfect. Just someone genuine, emotionally mature, and capable of surviving my bad jokes and occasional overthinking.

Friendship first. Slow connection. No games.

Already survived one season finale, not rushing into season 2.

People who found love again after divorce — give me hope or at least entertaining stories 😅

34M from Rajasthan. Divorced. Professionally handling business, personally handling emotional damage like it’s a full-time internship.

Life lately has been:

Wake up → work → overthink → pretend I’m fine → sleep medication → repeat.

Therapist says “heal yourself first.”

Relatives say “shaadi kar lo sab theek ho jayega.”

Meanwhile I’m just trying not to fall in love with random acts of kindness 😂

Non-smoker, non-drinker, occasionally non-vegetarian, business background, emotionally available on alternate days.

Trust issues? Premium version.

Communication skills? Good after 11 PM.

Red flags? Mostly turned pink after therapy.

Not looking for perfect. Just someone genuine, emotionally mature, and capable of surviving my bad jokes and occasional overthinking.

Friendship first. Slow connection. No games.

Already survived one season finale, not rushing into season 2.

People who found love again after divorce — give me hope or at least entertaining stories 😅

34M from Rajasthan. Divorced. Professionally handling business, personally handling emotional damage like it’s a full-time internship.

Life lately has been:

Wake up → work → overthink → pretend I’m fine → sleep medication → repeat.

Therapist says “heal yourself first.”

Relatives say “shaadi kar lo sab theek ho jayega.”

Meanwhile I’m just trying not to fall in love with random acts of kindness 😂

Non-smoker, non-drinker, occasionally non-vegetarian, business background, emotionally available on alternate days.

Trust issues? Premium version.

Communication skills? Good after 11 PM.

Red flags? Mostly turned pink after therapy.

Not looking for perfect. Just someone genuine, emotionally mature, and capable of surviving my bad jokes and occasional overthinking.

Friendship first. Slow connection. No games.

Already survived one season finale, not rushing into season 2.

People who found love again after divorce — give me hope or at least entertaining stories 😅

I’m 34M from Rajasthan, divorced, and honestly the last few years have been emotionally exhausting. Between heartbreak, loneliness, depression, and trust issues, life hasn’t been easy.

For the past few months I’ve been on antidepressants and sleeping medication. They help me function, work, and sleep, but mentally I still feel disconnected sometimes. I handle responsibilities, keep moving, and try my best, but deep down I know I’m still healing.

At the same time, I’ve realized I don’t want to spend my whole life emotionally closed off.

I’m slowly trying to restart my life and open my heart again — even though I’m a little scared.

Last time it was an arranged marriage setup, and things ended badly. This time, I’m trying to find a partner myself, someone I genuinely connect with emotionally, mentally, and personally before making any big decisions.

About me:

Business background

Non-smoker, non-drinker

Occasionally non-vegetarian

Loyal, caring, emotionally mature

From Jodhpur, Rajasthan

Not looking for perfection or rushing into marriage. Just hoping to meet someone honest, kind, understanding, and emotionally stable — maybe friendship first, then seeing where life goes naturally.

Would genuinely love to hear from people who rebuilt their lives after divorce or heartbreak. Did things eventually get better for you?

I’m 34M from Rajasthan, divorced, and after everything life has thrown at me, I’m finally trying to move forward instead of just surviving.

The last few years have been emotionally heavy. Divorce, loneliness, trust issues, depression — all of it took a bigger toll on me than I expected. For the past few months I’ve been on antidepressants and sleeping medication, which help me function, work, and get through daily life, but mentally I still feel disconnected sometimes.

Despite all that, a part of me still wants companionship, peace, and a genuine connection. I’m slowly trying to believe that not every relationship has to end in pain.

I come from a business background, non-smoker, non-drinker, occasionally non-vegetarian, and someone who values loyalty, honesty, and emotional maturity much more now than looks or status.

Not rushing into anything, but I am open to meeting someone kind, understanding, and emotionally stable — maybe friendship first, and if life allows, something meaningful later.

Would honestly like to hear from people who rebuilt their lives after divorce. Did love and happiness eventually come back for you?

I’m 34M from Rajasthan, divorced, and after everything life has thrown at me, I’m finally trying to move forward instead of just surviving.

The last few years have been emotionally heavy. Divorce, loneliness, trust issues, depression — all of it took a bigger toll on me than I expected. For the past few months I’ve been on antidepressants and sleeping medication, which help me function, work, and get through daily life, but mentally I still feel disconnected sometimes.

Despite all that, a part of me still wants companionship, peace, and a genuine connection. I’m slowly trying to believe that not every relationship has to end in pain.

I come from a business background, non-smoker, non-drinker, occasionally non-vegetarian, and someone who values loyalty, honesty, and emotional maturity much more now than looks or status.

Not rushing into anything, but I am open to meeting someone kind, understanding, and emotionally stable — maybe friendship first, and if life allows, something meaningful later.

Would honestly like to hear from people who rebuilt their lives after divorce. Did love and happiness eventually come back for you?