u/sadstrawberry06

I have a hormonal disorder known as pcos or pmos. Well I sometimes have irregular periods from time to time. I still have regular periods naturally occurring and have been off of birth control for over a year now. After talking to my boyfriend about my condition he came to the assumption that I can’t get pregnant at all. Due to him thinking that he doesn’t like to use protection . He worries about me possibly getting pregnant but doesn’t like to use the prevention which is condoms. I only use condoms atm due to hormonal testing by my dr and she told me that I no longer had to take bc. My boyfriend keeps trying to force me to use birth control so we don’t have to use protection.

Then one day he said well I’m gonna get you pregnant your body wants a baby and I’m going to give you one. Then I’ll leave you and the baby and abandon you. He already has 3 children by 2 different women from failed relationships. His go to is if the relationship doesn’t work out he dumps all responsibility of being a father and if they’re still together then he’ll play daddy. He claims it’s because of depression . But am I overreacting about this even tho I have pcos ?
Plz be nice I’ve gone through a lot of trauma

Anybody wanna chat about it lol ?

Ok so long story short I met a guy on this very app when I was 16 going on 17. I met him in 2023 we talked I started to vent about my now ex boyfriend etc. First thing he did was tell me he was 26, then after that we continued talking got his socials instagram specifically and I think snap. His real name was on his Instagram account I didn’t think much of it. Only thing I thought was that he looked older than 26 and he said he graduated in 2015. So for whatever reason I searched him up because I didn’t believe him. His page immediately popped up and it said he was 32 which is way different from what he told me. I addressed it he said oh you caught me . He then deleted that photo of him on his birthday.

I didn’t stop talking to him but then Christmas came he sent me nudes of his 🍆 as a gift and 100 for Christmas and hinted at the idea of me doing the same. I never sent him nudes but then 2024 comes were still talking he sends more money to buy thongs and dildos , and wanted to see me use those items. It was weird but my ex and I had broken up and I was really sad . A lot of the time he’d try to cheer me up. He’d flirt with me a lot and ask sexual questions and say he’d date me .

October 2024 rolls around I meet my now boyfriend. Though my boyfriend wasn’t the best in the beginning he automatically thought I should stop talking to him due to my boyfriend having kids. I noticed once I got in a relationship he didn’t let up on sexually motivated questions . He still would flirt and when my boyfriend found out I was venting to him about our relationship he assumed that this guy was attracted to me. He told me that this guy liked me and that’s why he was being so nice and sending money etc.

Everytime id vent about my boyfriend to who I thought was my friend it would backfire. He would use what I said against me to try to get me to break up with my boyfriend and just try to tell me he was no good etc instead of just listening and giving non negative feedback. I had a habit of over sharing which I regret because this person knows a lot of stuff about me and my relationship. Now at 19 almost 20 I’m wondering if I should cut this person out completely. My partner doesn’t want me communicating with this person and this person is usually like one of those I told you so people.

Part of me thought maybe he’s genuine but I can’t help but think that what I told him about me being groomed he tried to also do the same. Since I didn’t give in he started to buy me things but idk what do you guys think?

I had already told him I was groomed before for years etc and it somehow felt like he tried to do the same indirectly

Ok so long story short I met a guy on this very app when I was 16 going on 17. I met him in 2023 we talked I started to vent about my now ex boyfriend etc. First thing he did was tell me he was 26, then after that we continued talking got his socials instagram specifically and I think snap. His real name was on his Instagram account I didn’t think much of it. Only thing I thought was that he looked older than 26 and he said he graduated in 2015. So for whatever reason I searched him up because I didn’t believe him. His page immediately popped up and it said he was 32 which is way different from what he told me. I addressed it he said oh you caught me . He then deleted that photo of him on his birthday.

I didn’t stop talking to him but then Christmas came he sent me nudes of his 🍆 as a gift and 100 for Christmas and hinted at the idea of me doing the same. I never sent him nudes but then 2024 comes were still talking he sends more money to buy thongs and dildos , and wanted to see me use those items. It was weird but my ex and I had broken up and I was really sad . A lot of the time he’d try to cheer me up. He’d flirt with me a lot and ask sexual questions and say he’d date me .

October 2024 rolls around I meet my now boyfriend. Though my boyfriend wasn’t the best in the beginning he automatically thought I should stop talking to him due to my boyfriend having kids. I noticed once I got in a relationship he didn’t let up on sexually motivated questions . He still would flirt and when my boyfriend found out I was venting to him about our relationship he assumed that this guy was attracted to me. He told me that this guy liked me and that’s why he was being so nice and sending money etc.

Everytime id vent about my boyfriend to who I thought was my friend it would backfire. He would use what I said against me to try to get me to break up with my boyfriend and just try to tell me he was no good etc instead of just listening and giving non negative feedback. I had a habit of over sharing which I regret because this person knows a lot of stuff about me and my relationship. Now at 19 almost 20 I’m wondering if I should cut this person out completely. My partner doesn’t want me communicating with this person and this person is usually like one of those I told you so people.

Part of me thought maybe he’s genuine but I can’t help but think that what I told him about me being groomed he tried to also do the same. Since I didn’t give in he started to buy me things but idk what do you guys think? Also this is after I told him I was being groomed and I had been groomed for years prior and he knew that .

Ok so long story short I met a guy on this very app when I was 16 going on 17. I met him in 2023 we talked I started to vent about my now ex boyfriend etc. First thing he did was tell me he was 26, then after that we continued talking got his socials instagram specifically and I think snap. His real name was on his Instagram account I didn’t think much of it. Only thing I thought was that he looked older than 26 and he said he graduated in 2015. So for whatever reason I searched him up because I didn’t believe him. His page immediately popped up and it said he was 32 which is way different from what he told me. I addressed it he said oh you caught me . He then deleted that photo of him on his birthday.

I didn’t stop talking to him but then Christmas came he sent me nudes of his 🍆 as a gift and 100 for Christmas and hinted at the idea of me doing the same. I never sent him nudes but then 2024 comes were still talking he sends more money to buy thongs and dildos , and wanted to see me use those items. It was weird but my ex and I had broken up and I was really sad . A lot of the time he’d try to cheer me up. He’d flirt with me a lot and ask sexual questions and say he’d date me .

October 2024 rolls around I meet my now boyfriend. Though my boyfriend wasn’t the best in the beginning he automatically thought I should stop talking to him due to my boyfriend having kids. I noticed once I got in a relationship he didn’t let up on sexually motivated questions . He still would flirt and when my boyfriend found out I was venting to him about our relationship he assumed that this guy was attracted to me. He told me that this guy liked me and that’s why he was being so nice and sending money etc.

Everytime id vent about my boyfriend to who I thought was my friend it would backfire. He would use what I said against me to try to get me to break up with my boyfriend and just try to tell me he was no good etc instead of just listening and giving non negative feedback. I had a habit of over sharing which I regret because this person knows a lot of stuff about me and my relationship. Now at 19 almost 20 I’m wondering if I should cut this person out completely. My partner doesn’t want me communicating with this person and this person is usually like one of those I told you so people.

Part of me thought maybe he’s genuine but I can’t help but think that what I told him about me being groomed he tried to also do the same. Since I didn’t give in he started to buy me things but idk what do you guys think? Also this is after I told him I was being groomed and I had been groomed for years prior and he knew that .

🥺Well he’s on his phone the entire time we hangout. Doesn’t wanna cuddle or hangout really when we are together. He physically and emotionally etc pushes me away doesn’t want me to touch him. No matter how hard I try🥺. It really hurts my feelings but sometimes he’s nice but other times he acts like this he doesn’t always act this way. But he yells alot idk what do you think ? Hes nice one minute and then cold 🥺