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I 20F just discovered that my boyfriend 22M of 3 years was looking up asian adult content on his Reddit account, I’m Latina… And came to find more of his search history including “Sophie rain leaked” “freebras” “titties” was found in his Reddit. And it doesn’t stop there, on his recently deleted there was a screenshot of a Snapchat account with the girl who he cheated on me with. While the girl on snap was not added, I still question why he would have screenshotted it two days ago while I was away on a trip before coming back home to him. We have had a rocky relationship, rebuilding trust again but I have been having bad anxiety with feeling like he is hiding something. He had cheated before in the past so my suspicions come with reason, I chose to grow and move past the cheating but seeing stuff like this worries me. I am less worried about the pornography and more about screenshotting his previous interested that he cheated on me with but I can’t really see if I’m over or under reacting to all of this. I want to explain I understand I chose the risk of staying with a cheater, but I date with intent to marry. I have spent much time with this person and believe that people this young make mistakes. I chose to work on this difficult situation and choose to trust him again but I worry that I might be making a mistake considering I don’t think he is the most transparent partner with me considering past things I have seen and the new things I have just seen.

Am I overthinking that this is cheating? Or micro cheating at the very least?

I just discovered that my boyfriend of 3 years was looking up asian adult content on his Reddit account, I’m Latina… And came to find more of his search history including “Sophie rain leaked” “freebras” “titties” was found in his Reddit. And it doesn’t stop there, on his recently deleted there was a screenshot of a Snapchat account with the girl who he cheated on me with. While the girl on snap was not added, I still question why he would have screenshotted it two days ago while I was away on a trip before coming back home to him. We have had a rocky relationship, rebuilding trust again but I have been having bad anxiety with feeling like he is hiding something. He had cheated before in the past so my suspicions come with reason, I chose to grow and move past the cheating but seeing stuff like this worries me. I am less worried about the pornography and more about screenshotting his previous interested that he cheated on me with but I can’t really see if I’m over or under reacting to all of this. Does it seem fair to consider this to be micro cheating? Or at the very least very odd?

TL;DR : in my relationship of 3 years I found pornography/onlyfan leaks on my partners search history and screenshots of a Snapchat profile of a girl he cheated on me with in the past with.

I just discovered that my boyfriend of 3 years was looking up asian adult content on his Reddit account, I’m Latina… And came to find more of his search history including “Sophie rain leaked” “freebras” “titties” was found in his Reddit. And it doesn’t stop there, on his recently deleted there was a screenshot of a Snapchat account with the girl who he cheated on me with. While the girl on snap was not added, I still question why he would have screenshotted it two days ago while I was away on a trip before coming back home to him. We have had a rocky relationship, rebuilding trust again but I have been having bad anxiety with feeling like he is hiding something. He had cheated before in the past so my suspicions come with reason, I chose to grow and move past the cheating but seeing stuff like this worries me. I am less worried about the pornography and more about screenshotting his previous interested that he cheated on me with but I can’t really see if I’m over or under reacting to all of this. Does it seem fair to consider this to be micro cheating? Or at the very least very odd?

I’m almost 3 months post op and I have seen such an increase in oil production on my nose. I constantly notice throughout the day my nose get more and more oily that people even call it out. Does anyone have any tips that has helped them with the oil? Or maybe know when it starts to decrease?