Graduated and now feel like I have no idea what i’m doing…

I feel completely stuck career wise and I’m hoping maybe someone who’s been in my shoes can give me some advice. I’m 21F and just graduated with my bachelor’s in finance. I currently work as a staff accountant and the job is okay but I think it’s more that I’m not loving where I work than accounting itself. I’ve been with the company for a while and worked my way up from the front desk into accounting, so I’m grateful for the eThe problem is I’m moving to another state soon, so I’ll have to find a new job anyway. I’ve applied to a few positions, but every time I look at finance jobs I get so overwhelmed. I spent four years getting this degree, yet somehow I feel like I don’t know anything 😅 I know that’s probably not actually true but the world of finance just feels so broad. There are so many different career paths that I don’t even know what I should be aiming for. I think I’d love to become a financial analyst, but if someone hired me tomorrow and expected me to know what I was doing… I’d be completely lost😭 I know every job has training, but I constantly feel like everyone else knows so much more than I do. One thing I regret is not doing any internships. I was working full time while going to school full time, so I just couldn’t make it work financially. Now I worry that I’m behind everyone else because they have internship experience and I don’t. I’d really appreciate any advice

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u/sea_speake234 — 5 days ago

Vestibulectomy Surgeon Recommendations Please!!!

hi everyone! i’m looking for recommendations for a doctor around maryland/dc/virginia who specializes in vestibulodynia and if needed performs vestibulectomies. i’d love to hear who you had a good experience with!
bonus if they take carefirst, but i’m open to ANY recommendations. thanks!!!

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u/sea_speake234 — 13 days ago

Vestibulectomy Surgeon Recommendations Please!!!

hi everyone! i’m looking for recommendations for a doctor around maryland/dc/virginia who specializes in vestibulodynia and if needed performs vestibulectomies. i’d love to hear who you had a good experience with!
bonus if they take carefirst, but i’m open to ANY recommendations. thanks!!!

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u/sea_speake234 — 13 days ago

abnormal pap smear and hpv positive

i’m a WRECK. i’m 21 and just had my very first pap smear. i got the call that it came back abnormal and i’m HPV positive. i have a virtual appointment on tuesday to go over everything, and then i’m scheduled for a colposcopy on the 21st. i’ve been crying on and off since i found out because my brain immediately jumps to cervical cancer. i’ve never been through anything like this before and i don’t really know what to expect. i’ve been reading way too much online, which i know isn’t helping. if you’ve been through an abnormal pap, HPV, or a colposcopy, i would really love to hear your experience. did everything end up being okay? what was the procedure like? any words of wisdom or advice would honestly mean so much right now because i’m feeling really overwhelmed and scared.
thank you

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u/sea_speake234 — 14 days ago
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Malassezia reatricta

Could this be the bacteria causing my issues????

- musty smell iner folds
- burning around opening and uti like symptoms sometimes

I tested positive on juno bio a few months ago and somehow i missed it and just went back to see my results and saw that, i was treating my issues as iners!

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u/sea_speake234 — 1 month ago

iners and estrogen?

has anyone with iners used to estrogen to help balance microbiome? if so, what should i know? i want to try it, im desperate at this point!

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u/sea_speake234 — 3 months ago

Spotting but no period

hi everyone, i need opinions because i’m driving myself insane trying to figure out what’s going on 😭
my periods are usually pretty regular. looking back at my cycles, they started around:
dec 5
jan 5
feb 3
mar 5
apr 5
so i’m usually around a 30-32 day cycle (i think) and normally start around the first week of the month.
according to my apps, ovulation was predicted anywhere from april 18-22 depending on the app/month. My husband and I are very sexually active, not planning but not preventing, we’re in a great place if it happens but not necessarily planning for it? my period was expected around may 5th and now i’m late and now lightly spotting. the weird thing is i usually ALWAYS get period symptoms, especially sore/swollen boobs, and this month i had basically nothing. i’m always super aware of my period and so is my partner so we decided i take a pregnancy test which i did the 6th and the 7th and both were negative, but i also drink a TON of water (like 3-4 liters a day) so i’m wondering if that could affect it? but i also took one first thing in the morning… but lastnight we had intercourse and this morning when i went to take another test i thought i started my period but so i put a pad on but its super super light and literally only when i wipe or kind of push, not enough for anything. it’s not a full flow at all which my period is EXTREMELY HEAVY even the first day.
i was having white/milky watery discharge and i’ve been overanalyzing every symptom possible at this point 😭 i know obviously no one can tell me if im pregnant but i’m semi worried about cysts and other stuff… ( i have a lot of health anxiety and very in tune with my body and when somethings wrong) im from a very religious family and can’t really talk about this stuff with anyone!! any advice/ info is really appreciated! sorry this is so long.

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u/sea_speake234 — 3 months ago