u/seanburke8888

Lunch: dominoes meats pizza + banana peppers

I genuinely cannot figure this woman out. She is the ONLY person at work who is passive aggressive with the other junior females.

I’ll say hi walking past her and she says nothing. Or I’ll be standing right there, and she’ll ask one of the guys to tell me something instead of speaking to me herself.
I’ve tried making conversation and I’ve asked her about herself and her life, how things are going, just normal small talk. Surface levely coworker stuff.

She has never once asked me a single thing about myself. Not even one question or said ‘good morning’ first. It’s like talking to a brick wall that occasionally rolls its eyes and grows legs to walk away.

The confusing part is I genuinely don’t know what I did.
Talked about it to my other female coworker and she has no idea but it’s a running joke now. We haven’t argued with her and I’ve never been disrespectful to her. If anything, I’ve gone out of my way to be polite because I thought maybe she was just shy? Our only thought was that we asked for help from one of her close male friends but this girl is MARRIED. That can’t be it.

At this point I’ve stopped trying to figure it out because I’m convinced some people just decide they don’t like you at some point and then create an entire personality around it.

There should be laws against this.