u/secondacc_to_delete

I've been a fence sitter for a long time. I'm 24. I go on dates and i tell them I'm not sure which is something I'm okay to tell when it's beginning but I feel if it's turning into something solid I have to have a solid answer about children too

I have grown up in a great household. I have maternal instincts too so as far as I can remember i always wanted a child. But for a year or two I have been reading about pregnancy scares, the condition of the world , financial aspects to raise a child, and sacrifices in personal life (travelling hobbies etc) and thought of not wanting even one.

Now I am sure i do not want to rush into marriage at all so idk at 30+ what I will feel regarding children. So has it happened to anyone and how did you handle it?

I want to start running (I workout at the gym) i can't even do skipping or much cardio cos of bigger breasts. I am someone who has smaller underbust and large cup (30FF) making it difficult to find the right size. Even the regular bras I wear have been found after so long but they aren't sports bra.

I do have sports bra from enamor I wear at the gym but doesn't provide much support if I start skipping as the bounce hurts. I need something that just stops them from moving at all support. I tried in to jockey and decathlon store - but couldn't find the right size for me which is comfortable. Unless there's a proper support, i cannot run as it pains. If anyone has any recommendations please let me know.

* if possible...good for a heavier bust. I wanted a snug fit to check my form but also not too weird on the busy part (which usually is cos I'm lean but comparatively have a larger bust). Also sweat resistant.

All these in cotton preferably

Tights : The ones I've bought online I had to return them cos one of them showed cameltoe and the other wasn't fitting on the waist properly after washing. Anything that would fix these issues?

Sweatpants : i bought a branded one and faced lint issues in one use! So I need something y'all can vouch for. I like it open at ankles or wide leg pants.

Cute Tops : I have a lean body and big breasts so any M size top doesn't fit the chest or rides up and L is too big. I need something that shows my gains but also doesn't show them big breasts (if possible)

All these in cotton preferably

Tights : The ones I've bought online I had to return them cos one of them showed cameltoe and the other wasn't fitting on the waist properly after washing. Anything that would fix these issues?

Sweatpants : i bought a branded one and faced lint issues in one use! So I need something y'all can vouch for. I like it open at ankles or wide leg pants.

Cute Tops : I have a lean body and big breasts so any M size top doesn't fit the chest or rides up and L is too big. I need something that shows my gains but also doesn't show them big breasts (if possible)

My cousin sister is infected with lice. Now with mediker shampoo we were able to reduce big life but small nits /lice eggs are still there and they're too much!

I searched on this subreddit - most of them have suggested Perlice cream. I wanted to ask is it effective and safe to use on a 9yo?

I'm looking for stories where two people met in a way that felt statistically impossible.

For example, a friend of mine was talking to a guy for months online. They knew each other's names but had never exchanged photos, never video called, and had no idea what the other looked like.One day, completely by chance, they both went to the same event. They ended up meeting and talking in person without realizing who the other was. Only after introducing themselves did they discover they were the same two people who had been chatting online for months.

Was it just coincidence or really meant to be? It felt like something out of a movie.

Do you know any stories like that? Not necessarily romantic, just situations where two people's lives somehow kept converging in bizarre, unlikely ways until they finally met.

* Reposting on the allotted day *

I'm looking for stories where two people met in a way that felt statistically impossible.

For example, a friend of mine was talking to a guy for months online. They knew each other's names but had never exchanged photos, never video called, and had no idea what the other looked like.One day, completely by chance, they both went to the same event. They ended up meeting and talking in person without realizing who the other was. Only after introducing themselves did they discover they were the same two people who had been chatting online for months.

Was it just coincidence or really meant to be? It felt like something out of a movie.

Do you know any stories like that? Not necessarily romantic, just situations where two people's lives somehow kept converging in bizarre, unlikely ways until they finally met.

My aunt( age 43) lost her job recently. It was with a courier company. She was in administration. I don't want to connect her through reddit, but I want to ask which site might help. Naukri isn't helping. Most other sites are fake. Relatives don't have any job opportunities. Can anyone in 40s help with where to look if possible. She wasn't earning much either so there's no income interest just wants to get out and earn something. Part time would work too. She has a well earning husband and a son to take care of

I've observed with most, no sorry all the men *I* have met who have done top education (iit/iim/CAs) have this different sense of entitlement even during basic interactions. I'm not even talking in a dating context, a guy texted me on Instagram, leading with his qualifications. He was a mutual of my school mutual (who i don't talk to much). He was a CA apparently. Asked me basic questions and then started asking if I'm dating. I said no. Asked me if I want to go out with him? I said I know nothing about you, in total we've like 15 texts till now. He said I'm a CA isn't that enough?. And i was like ????

I asked him what gives him the right to ask out on a date with his qualification he said of course me being a CA tells you I'm loyal, hardworking, have knowledge about finance etc. and other things we'll discuss later on our date. I asked him what do you know about me. His answer - you're pretty! God i hated him so much. And the funny thing is even i AM a CA. I haven't mentioned anywhere on Instagram so ofc he wouldn't know and he didn't ask.

I told him I am a CA too and now rather than feeling embarrassed he was already making future plans of starting a practice together . I couldn't listen more . I blocked him. God.

So only I meet such entitled men or is this usual for y'all too?

I know this could be a most asked question on here but we need something different than the usual Villa getaways . We did ask chatgpt but there's not much we could find. We have to consider summers and crowds on the weekend too. So has anyone been to some place where you could enjoy doing something rather than just sitting in a villa but it was also not too exhausting in summers and not very crowded.?

This is an insane ask lol but please help!

I've noticed something that's been bothering me lately and wanted to hear what others think.

Sometimes people call someone “princess” not in a kind or affectionate way, but to imply they're weak, entitled, overly sensitive, or incapable. Specifically to us women calling men - oh he's such a princess, to suggest he's not tough enough or is somehow lesser for not fitting a stereotypical idea of masculinity.

That part especially doesn't sit right, because it reinforces both misogyny (by using something feminine as an insult) and narrows expectations of how men are “supposed” to act.

Curious how others see this - harmless teasing, or low-key disrespect?

I mean the full blown fight that takes days to mend. Do you think your relationship energy changes after that? For good or worse?

Arguments happen as you're definitely going to have different opinions about things but those are healthy and needed for the drama. But fights where things are said that shouldn't be ..how long does it take for you to get to normal?

Which approach worked for you - communicating or staying silent and then talking clear headed .