How does trying to be in an open relationship go?
Wife came out to me and only me about 3 years back. Wanted to make it open so that she could explore her sexuality. We've got 2 young kids and I thought that was a ticket to divorce so I've been resisting it. Now we're both miserable - though the kids are still amazing and they don't know anything... Anyway - bedroom has been dead since last September and it seems my wife would still like to open it up. I think I'm emotionally disengaged enough from her at this point to not be hurt by it... but - how has opening it up gone for others?
I would really love to keep being around my kids - younger one is about to turn 6 - and that was the age of my younger brother when our father left us... Later on my younger brother got into drugs and overdosed - and I'm convinced my father leaving the family was the original sin that led to that outcome. Feels so wrong to take actions that might lead to so a divorce - but this is so hard to endure.