u/skyllaremon

ja stvarno vise dodje mi da poludim jer gde bre mogu da nadjem queer prijatelje

ne kapiram stvarno

isla sam na the amazing digital circus premijeru i tako se osecao queerness u toj sali, tako da znam da nas ima, ali ne znam stvarno kako inace da nadjem queer ljude odavde

glup post, znam, ali mi je iskreno smesno kako je tesko naci queer ljude, pogotovo van bg-a

my dad came into my room (at least he knocked this time)

immediately went to pick up my employment contract which i got recently

he said he wanted to "see if you get any compensation for night shifts"

i told him that i do not want him going through it

he said "oh so you say you dont like people going through your contract but you do like me giving you money for fuel"

i say "no its just really not nice of you to just walk into my room and just pick up my contract without even asking me"

he sits there staring at me for 10 seconds

leaves the contract

leaves my room

and says "when you get your paycheck, youre paying for fuel, youre paying for fuel if you wanna drive the car"

half an hour later, my mother calls me over the phone and says "can you come outside for a bit, i wanna ask you something"

and lo and behold, she makes me listen to her shaming me for what i did for over half an hour

she started to make threats about how im being selfish, how ill never be there for them, how i just use them, all while threatening me that they will stop helping me at all in life, "weve given you everything you've ever wanted and you treat us like this" (even though in my opinion, they never have)

apparently me hiding my employment contract is selfish and a sign that ill never be there for them so if ill never be there for them why should they provide for me

"you have nobody but us, so why are you immediately just getting selfish and trying to isolate yourself from us when you don't even have a full time contract yet? you could lose your job very easily, and where does that leave you?"

am i to blame here? is more context needed? i don't know anymore

EDIT: for further context, i already had an identical employment contract up until the 20th (the only difference being the salary change) and he read that one already

my dad came into my room (at least he knocked this time)

immediately went to pick up my employment contract

he said he wanted to "see if you get any compensation for night shifts"

i told him that i do not want him going through it

he said "oh so you say you dont like people going through your contract but you do like me giving you money for fuel"

i say "no its just really not nice of you to just walk into my room and just pick up my contract without even asking me"

he sits there staring at me for 10 seconds

leaves the contract

leaves my room

and says "when you get your paycheck, youre paying for fuel, youre paying for fuel if you wanna drive the car"

half an hour later, my mother calls me over the phone and says "can you come outside for a bit, i wanna ask you something"

and lo and behold, she makes me listen to her shaming me for what i did for over half an hour

she started to make threats about how im being selfish, how ill never be there for them, how i just use them, all while threatening me that they will stop helping me at all in life, "weve given you everything you've ever wanted and you treat us like this" (even though in my opinion, they never have)

apparently me hiding my employment contract is selfish and a sign that ill never be there for them so if ill never be there for them why should they provide for me

"you have nobody but us, so why are you immediately just getting selfish and trying to isolate yourself from us when you don't even have a full time contract yet? you could lose your job very easily, and where does that leave you?"

am i to blame here? is more context needed? i don't know anymore

I am John Chess. This is not a bunny. Norway is related to cheese. No relationship ever is even FUNNY. Who even shops at Target? Why are you pointing at random strangers?

"Let's go gambling! Aw dang it! Aw dang it! Aw dang it! Aw dang it! Microsoft Edge sucks. I am NOT RELATED TO THE INVENTOR OF CHESS. The word FUNNY is pretty FUNNY to say. This post is very shit"

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[IWantOut] 20MtF Serbia -> Canada (other accepting places are ok too)

To clarify, while canada is my primary destination where I would like to go, I am open to most countries in western Europe, or honestly even to an extent the US (though not as much for obvious reasons)

I'm a 20yo trans person from Serbia, looking for a way out because I do not feel as if I am able to live freely here. (I haven't transitioned yet)

In terms of experience, I have only started a job this month with a Customer Support role, and don't really have much professional experience.

I am technologically literate, musically skilled (as little as that means, admittedly), and obviously bilingual, given that I speak Serbian and English

I am willing to save up money for this all, I just need to know what options I even have, if any

I am also willing to potentially try low paid jobs (as long as they're not too physically demanding) for the start

Please don't be overly critical, I know that my situation isn't exactly good for emigration and that my chances of finding anything are slim

Hi

I know this is probably a very stupid question, but I'm a 20 trans person with borderline zero work experience, and I'm currently stuck in Serbia, which, all things considered, is not the best place for trans people to be. I'm trying to move to somewhere else, but right now I have basically zero options on how to do that.

My question is, basically, how can I feasibly move out of here? Is it even possible?

For context, Igot a job working for a customer support role this month, and that is all the experience I have.

I would like to again apologize for the stupid question but I genuinely feel so incredibly helpless, I at this point would do borderline anything