My bf of more than an year came out as trans to me
We are from India and the Indian society is deeply patriarchal to a sense that you can see it float up in daily activities, lifestyle , conversation and it’s very very toxic to men who are actually not shitty. We have always been open about how patriarchy affects both me and him(now they) in our relationship. He told me he has always felt more than the man he’s been expected to me before and recently they came out to me as trans. I don’t have any gendered expectations from them only the normal expectations you’ll have from your partner. They told me they want to start wearing nail paints and eyeshadow too. I really love him or them idek what to say but I don’t feel comfortable with this and it’s not related to his identity but rather mine. I’m a straight woman. It is not about homophobia at all but a matter of personal preference. I don’t know what to feel or what to do pls someone help