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Okay so probably a dumb silly question and I did search through google and believe I should be good to go, but doesn't hurt to get some quick answers to double check.

I don't have a California Real ID, only a passport. I'm flying to and back from Vegas this Fall. I should be good to go with just my passport book right?

I'm just not fully sure when Real IDs are in full effect or if its optional for domestic flights or even if certain states have certain rules. Online info is kinda confusing me.

TIA

Visiting Las Vegas for the first time on September 24-27 for a birthday weekend trip.

I'd like some ideas on cool and fun things to do and see on the strip. What are some restaurants to have a nice birthday dinner at (please note that the birthday girl is allergic to seafood).

anyone know where the yellow and blue striped set is from that she wore for 1 million live this weekend?

Do I reach out to him at some point or start letting him go now?

I (27F) started casually seeing this guy (27M). We started chatting in late May and have been chatting basically every day, but not all day. I've learned that talking everyday doesn't mean anything but I'm just sharing that there is a relationship/connection of sorts based off what we talk about and such. His actions tell me he is very kind and caring for others and he's hilarious (my kind of humor) which is a plus for me.

On Tuesday, he got quiet. He made this note on IG saying 'I fucking hate social media' and didnt respond to me until the next day in the afternoon letting me know that he "got into some shit" and is "avoiding talking to people right now" as well as "staying off of IG". I'm guessing this is related to his IG note. My assumption is he may have seen something he didn't like or someone shared something of his because his only highlight on IG is gone (his gym progress which he's proud of). I told him thank you for letting me know, I'm appreciative of that. I will respect and understand his request and that I hope things get better soon.

It could be that or a million other reasons that could have nothing to do with me. Even my friends agree his messages sound like something else is going on and nothing to do with me so I should continue not taking it personally. However, (and I know he can do whatever he pleases and what not) I see he's reposting reels on IG and even saw a story of mine (but not the rest of them).

It's a bummer and I can't help but let the anxious little voices in my head tell me "it's over, just like the rest of them. he's ghosting you". The only thing that gives me a peace of mind is that he let me know he was going through it which no other ghoster guy has, but who knows right?

We made verbal plans for him to come over this Sunday since he has it off (he's a super busy guy with two jobs), and I want to know if it's still happening or not. I'd like to reach out but I don't think it's worth the risk of breaking his request to be left alone.

I know I said it was casual, but I guess I was hoping he'd be a good summer fling since we have a lot in common and get along really well. I am putting my eggs in other baskets, but there are little to none and eventually those eggs get dropped. I know the best thing is to just to wait it out and do my own thing in the meantime which I have been (work, reading, errands), but again my anxiety is telling me this is the end which stinks and I'd rather just know now than later.

anyone know where vanilla got that black and white polka dot one piece bathing suit from her recent water park video? it's so cute! never needed something more in my life for summer

thinking about going on a trip with my friend to the east coast this october. our initial plan is to go to nyc for 3-4 days. ideally fly in on friday and fly out monday.

since it's our first time in the east coast i thought it would be best to hit one more city and decided boston would be a fun choice.

my main question(s) is:

- what is the best way to get there? i assume train. any specific stations?

- what are the most worth it things to do in both cities? more time may be spent in nyc, boston would be a one day or two day trip.

any other tips/suggestions on how to go about a trip like this would be appreciated.

I’ve (27F) noticed this week my bowel movements haven’t been as normal as usual (usual being I go at least twice a day and they’re healthy normal ones). it’s either very little or soft, sometimes both. I’m usually good with getting some fiber in each day with things like fiber rich veggies, drinking plenty of water, eating chia seed yogurt. I will say I haven’t been as good as I normally am which could be why I’m feeling bloated and constipated these last two days.

I’ll also add that I have been gassy. Very gassy. Mostly after meals, and even more specifically dinner.

I’ve been drinking more water, even drank a glass of chia seed water last night and this morning to help and nothing so far but tiny bits coming out. I even woke up this morning feeling cramps (I am on the ends of my menstrual cycle) and pressure but the kind where a bowel movement or gas would surely relieve it.

It’s only day one of little to no bowel movements so I’m not fully scared yet. I took a muscle relaxer to hopefully help release things and some more chia seed water. I did order some Metamucil to help make sure my fiber intake is met daily.

If this doesn’t work, what do you guys recommend? Miralax?

recently had sex with a man who has been more dominate than previous partners.

with a combo from him and my toy i was close to finishing. he had the biggest smile on his face when he saw i was close and while it happened. even told me to keep going (don't take the toy off) and as I did I kept saying "yes daddy!" (first time also doing this whole daddy dynamic) and I was EXTREMELY LOUD. like no joke you could probably hear me from the street!

I was being genuine and with how intense the orgasm was i couldnt help it

I felt embarrassed and self conscious about it. I knew he liked it. Even mentioned that he wished people were around to hear it (freaky).

its not the first time I've yelled like that. I once did it in a mans ear/face while he also made me finish. perhaps not as loud but definitely not a level of loudness one may in enjoy literally in their face. something to work on I guess ?

im just wondering if this level of loud is generally attractive?

edit: the daddy thing is HIS thing, not mine. I agree with some of yall that it’s a bit odd, but heh at least I tried it out. Didn’t change my perspective on it lol