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How do you forgive yourself for the emotional mistakes you did in past in love, situationships or friendships and still be confident about yourself and carry yourself with grace?

How can i be a strong woman with her emotions in control?

PS: Dont suggest therapy as i am already in one

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u/sseth39 — 6 hours ago

Car rental suggestions for a solo femake traveller, also review on Getaround app

I will be traveling from Barcelona to costa brava for a week and thought will rent a car in barcelone but the reviews on google looks like fake and most of the rental companies which look within budget are sounding scammy through the trustpilot or google reviews (loke okmobility, centauro for airport). Can you please suggest some reliable car rentals who dont scam or are bit kinder and not push you for any other insurance. Europcar, entreprise are bit out of budget for me.

Also came across this app - Getaround! Please tell me if its good for tourists too!

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u/sseth39 — 9 hours ago

Feeling like life is forcing me to start over, but I have no idea what direction to take

Over the last year or so, it feels like life has been pushing me toward a complete reset.

I've lost most of my core friendships, my job situation has fallen apart, and I have this persistent feeling that I'm not supposed to stay in the city I've been living in for the last 9 years. I moved here from another country and continent, thousands of miles from where I grew up, and now it feels like something is telling me it's time for a major change.

The problem is that I have no idea what that change is supposed to be.

I feel stuck, almost like I'm going through a midlife crisis. I desperately want to find a sense of direction, but everything feels uncertain. Logically, I know I need to find another job, but I've also realized that corporate life doesn't seem right for me anymore. The thought of going back into the same environment makes me anxious.

What's confusing is that whenever a new opportunity comes along, I get scared. Part of me worries I'll end up in the same situation again, doing work that drains me. Another part of me is afraid I won't even get the opportunity in the first place.

It's like I'm standing between an old life that no longer fits and a new one I can't yet see.

Has anyone else gone through a period where everything seemed to fall apart at once, and you felt completely directionless? How did you figure out what came next?

I'd really appreciate hearing from people who've been through something similar.

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u/sseth39 — 21 days ago

Feeling like life is forcing me to start over, but I have no idea what direction to take

Over the last year or so, it feels like life has been pushing me toward a complete reset.

I've lost most of my core friendships, my job situation has fallen apart, and I have this persistent feeling that I'm not supposed to stay in the city I've been living in for the last 9 years. I moved here from another country and continent, thousands of miles from where I grew up, and now it feels like something is telling me it's time for a major change.

The problem is that I have no idea what that change is supposed to be.

I feel stuck, almost like I'm going through a midlife crisis. I desperately want to find a sense of direction, but everything feels uncertain. Logically, I know I need to find another job, but I've also realized that corporate life doesn't seem right for me anymore. The thought of going back into the same environment makes me anxious.

What's confusing is that whenever a new opportunity comes along, I get scared. Part of me worries I'll end up in the same situation again, doing work that drains me. Another part of me is afraid I won't even get the opportunity in the first place.

It's like I'm standing between an old life that no longer fits and a new one I can't yet see.

Has anyone else gone through a period where everything seemed to fall apart at once, and you felt completely directionless? How did you figure out what came next?

I'd really appreciate hearing from people who've been through something similar.

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u/sseth39 — 23 days ago

Libras taking accountability

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I know libras distant themselves before any confrontation and this libran situationship i had, he kind of ghosted me and suddenly apologised to me one day. I messaged him after a month that his ghosting wasnt justifiable and wished him good luck and surprisingly this person took accountability and apologised and wished me luck. This is the first time a Libran actually took accountability because generally i have seen Librans running away from confrontations. Is it normal or is this also a Libran trait i missed?

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u/sseth39 — 27 days ago

Libras taking accountability

I know libras distant themselves before any confrontation and this Libran situationship i had, he kind of ghosted me and suddenly apologised to me one day. I messaged him after a month that his ghosting wasnt justifiable and wished him good luck and surprisingly this person took accountability and apologised and wished me luck. This is the first time a Libran actually took accountability because generally i have seen Librans running away from confrontations. Is it normal or is this also a Libran trait i missed?

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u/sseth39 — 27 days ago