Listen to an old man..
So I run a silly YouTube channel centered around DieCast cars so obviously the subscribers are 97% male..
Yesterday a kid came into chat and after realising he was in a safe place (we keep it very welcoming) he said he really likes a girl but was too shy to ask her out..
Now I remember being 16 and having that same crippling fear of rejection.. I immediately went live on the microphone (it had been text only until now) and gave the poor kid a lecture about how many opportunities I'd missed at his age and that the girl is just as nervous as he is, but thing that got to him was pointing out he was dangerously close to the friend zone, danger danger!
Then an anecdote from a school reunion when I told a girl I'd had a crush on her at school and she said she'd had one on me so I should have acted upon it.. (nooo!)
Anyway, today the kid popped up in the forum attached to the channel and said he'd asked her out, she said yes! And he's happier than a happy thing on happy day..
So if you need relationship advise the address is... ;)