Check for deceased

I have an estate account set up now and found a check made out to the deceased. Do I simply sign the back as my name, Personal Representative? Or Estate of XX?

Also, I use Chase and typically do use the app to take pictures of the checks I receive for my normal accounts. Is this option available for estate accounts too? Thank you!

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u/stellaparadiso — 11 days ago

Selling car

I am now able to sell the car as the personal representative, but I think the car insurance has lapsed (will confirm when I get to the house). To drive it to the dealership to sell it, is there a way to purchase temporary insurance or how does that work? I have full insurance on my car in another state, but Googling said it needs to be for the car. Just want to cover my bases and not risk anything.

I could also see if Carvana would pick it up if I sell to them, but not sure if they service that area (or if they pay well).

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u/stellaparadiso — 21 days ago

Any good Mediterranean food spots?

Curious if there’s any good spots in town for Mediterranean foods like chicken shawarma, 🥙 falafel, pita, pickled turnips, hummus etc? I love Lebanese and Armenian foods but don’t know if there’s any of these types of restaurants or food trucks in Mac - any recommendations?

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u/stellaparadiso — 22 days ago

Too Good To Go

Just curious if anyone uses Too Good To Go app in Mac and nearby areas? Any solid options? I’ve used it in other cities and it was a pretty good value, wasn’t sure if it’s a thing in Mac (will be back in town this weekend to check myself too).

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u/stellaparadiso — 24 days ago

Mortgage while in limbo

I’m in Oregon and finally named the personal rep of my sister’s estate. Law office is not helpful or responsive, so wondering what I’m supposed to do about the mortgage in the meantime - she died in May and presumably from June on it hasn’t been paid (may have been on auto pay, who knows). I called and emailed the mortgage company, asked the law office to send the corrected death certs (funeral home also incompetent), don’t know if they did - I sent the ones I had with the typo.

No funds are currently available from the estate (all in the house which has this mortgage), I was the direct beneficiary for a bank account I could use I guess (but also don’t want to be on the hook for any bills personally) - do I pay anything now or just wait? I don’t want it to go into foreclosure or something. Thanks for any help.

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u/stellaparadiso — 1 month ago

Beneficiary info

I’m the personal rep for my sister’s estate, and a morally corrupt aunt by marriage was somehow named the beneficiary for two significant accounts.

Do I need to know the exact amounts for any reporting to the state (Oregon)? I am not on speaking terms with the “aunt” and told her to direct anything to the estate law office (they have not been helpful or responsive with me so far). Since the accounts were payable on death and bypass probate I wasn’t sure how much info I need. Thank you for any help!

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u/stellaparadiso — 1 month ago

Mortgage while in the process of getting appointed personal representative

My sister passed away in May and I’m still in the process of getting appointed personal representative in Oregon - a series of delays like incorrect death certificates, estate lawyer died, the law office doesn’t seem in a huge rush to do much and I have to call and follow up on emails/left in the dark. I notified the mortgage company and sent the death certificate and gave the info for the law office as the person on the phone instructed, documents showing I was in the process of becoming the personal rep.

But it’s September now and I’m paranoid they will foreclose or something on the house in the meantime. I don’t want to pay for the mortgage out of my own pocket (I could but don’t want to be on the hook for someone else’s mortgage). I believe May was paid for, not sure of subsequent months (may have been on auto pay for June?). A certified letter was attempted to be delivered at the house but I’m out of state. Any idea what it is? I will also update the mortgage company and be back later this month, I just mailed the signed bond and I believe that’s then submitted to the state for official approval. Next steps? Do I get access to funds quickly to pay it off? Thanks for any help.

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u/stellaparadiso — 1 month ago

Local hoodies

Looking to get some cute Oregon Coast hoodies, specifically in the Lincoln City area - which shops have the best ones in terms of graphics and quality? Thank you!

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u/stellaparadiso — 2 months ago

Oregon estate

My sister recently passed away and her will was not finalized. I am the sole heir and have an Oregon estate attorney in place, in the process of getting me named the personal representative. I am the beneficiary on a bank account and work retirement accounts, but to my surprise an elderly aunt by marriage is named the beneficiary to her Edward Jones accounts - mostly stocks from my parents, a Roth IRA. I called her and she was incredibly cold on the phone, and I called her out on it not being what my parents (also passed) intended.

This “aunt” was the personal representative for my mom’s estate 2 years ago and “helped” set up the Edward Jones accounts for us during the asset distribution (50-50 between my sister and I). My sister had named her to be the executor of her estate but she declined and said it was too much (but seems happy to collect this money). I am out of state and trying to hold it all together.

I am not sure if I have any legal recourse, since it may be more of a morally wrong but legal thing if she’s been named the beneficiary. I believe she would have been aware when my sister named her as one since they asked for a social security number normally.

She is meeting with them this week to discuss. I just feel like I have failed my parents and their intentions. Thank you for letting me write it out.

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u/stellaparadiso — 3 months ago

Drift Creek Falls trail

I am hoping to visit Drift Creek Falls soon and wanted to make sure I can get (and pay for) a parking pass on site - there’s an online option but I won’t have access to a printer or know the details of my rental car to do that. Sorry for the silly question, haven’t been up there in awhile!

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u/stellaparadiso — 3 months ago

Alternatives to Tia

I’ve seen some not so good reports about Tia healthcare for women, so wanted to see if there’s any alternatives for quality care for routine health checks - prefer women doctors and transparent pricing, easy to get an appointment etc.

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u/stellaparadiso — 3 months ago

Favorite walk/run routes around Burbank

Curious if anyone has any precise recommendations for a nice, mostly flat, low car traffic/intersection route to take around Burbank for a leisurely walk or run, around an hour. Ie start at this cross street at Chandler Bike Path and loop around, etc. Also, any specific routes you enjoy at Griffith Park (from/near the Forest Lawn entrance)? Thank you!

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u/stellaparadiso — 3 months ago

O’Cutie compared to Sugar Fleur

Curious if the O’Cutie body mist is similar to Sugar Fleur scent - I have SF already but the mist sounds really nice - caramel apple scent maybe? Anyone have both?

u/stellaparadiso — 4 months ago

Courtney Love in McMinnville

Curious - back in the 1980s (maybe early 90s too?) Courtney Love apparently lived and worked in McMinnville at a strip club/bar (maybe a place called Johnnys?). Anyone know anything about her in Mac or met her back then? She’s talked about it a few times in the media and was just wondering 🤔

u/stellaparadiso — 4 months ago

Curb alerts

Hi again, I posted recently about cleaning out a family member’s home in Mac, thanks for the referrals! I was wondering if there’s any other community food pantries like the one on McDonald Lane to donate some food, as well as if “Curb Alerts” are a thing here - ie post free items you’ll place at your curb for locals to pick up? I didn’t find an active local Buy Nothjng group but may be missing it on Facebook. And if anyone here needs free food feel free to DM and I can leave it out for you!

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u/stellaparadiso — 5 months ago

Seeking referrals

Hi, I am helping clean out a family member’s home in Mac and would love referrals on a few things (grew up in the area but out of state now):

-Place to donate food/food pantry
-Someone to remove carpets
-Junk removal/haul to the dump
-Rehoming some cats - someone is helping with this and says the shelters are full
-Subaru to sell
-Self storage (any locally owned that don’t raise rates a ton?)

Feel free to DM if you may be able to help and your rates.

Thank you!

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u/stellaparadiso — 5 months ago