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Has anyone been able to reach the mod bc there is some really cross homophobic stuff happening here

EDIT: sorry I meant gross

So on top of the straight men harassing us there is also some really disgusting and hateful homophobia happening. If anyone has reached the mod please let me know because this group used to be so nice and now it’s just full of hate,

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u/Tattoos_and_Tea — 1 day ago

Joshua Tree or Palm Springs this time of year?

I need to find a place to stay Aug 22-Sept 13. I was thinking of booking an Airbnb in Palm Springs or Joshua Tree. Is this a good idea, or way too hot? I would mostly work and get some things done during the days, but would like to maybe work from a cafe once in a while. I also am recovering from breathing issue, so I’m wondering if the heat makes that worse? I can’t imagine I’d really be out much though right?

I have never been to JT but it does seem kind of isolating - are the houses really spread far out? I’ve been to Palm Springs and it seemed like there’d be cafes and such.

Can anyone weigh in? Having a hard time finding a reasonable airbnb here in LA so thought it could be a good option for a few weeks. Thank you.

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u/Opal9090 — 1 day ago

Walking Club/West LA Friends

Hi girlies! I’m 31f looking to make new friends and also get steps in. I commute so much during the week (with one to two wfh days) so I thought why not do an afternoon walking club after 4 or 5pm when it starts getting a bit cooler and the sun is setting.

I live near Marina Del Rey so any Del Rey, Venice, Culver adjacent girls would be awesome. If you know of any existing walking groups in the area please let me know. Just looking for some positive, down to earth, and sweet girls who want to destress and get a little movement in! :)

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u/lalaluvsm — 1 day ago
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Putting you on my Housecleaner

Esmeralda is amazing! I’ve been using her since I moved to Los Angeles in February and she is such a hard worker. She even brings me flowers when she comes to clean! You don’t need to have any supplies she brings everything and she works for hours attaching her business info - hire her!!!

Esmerelda Housecleaner - 323-536-0707

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u/careerpivoter — 22 hours ago

Best functional medicine doctor or naturopath in LA?

Westside, Eastside, Southside, idc. Just looking to have more energy as an anemic girly who is just moving like a super sloth rn. I just wanna get to the root cause. I don't care about price either, just care about my health. So even if you have recs, and haven't necessarily seen the person and are super into wellness, let me know <3! Or if you have seen this person, please let me know how they changed your life. I think the best one I've found is in Montreal, Canada, but that's ways away and I'm on her waitlist.

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u/Artistic_Spirit5181 — 1 day ago

Hot and cheap

Where we buying cheap shampoo, conditioner, body wash, everything we need to be a hygienic clean hot girly in LA.
I’m trying to save as much money as I can.
I used to buy some stuff from Sephora but I AM TIRED of spending $30 on shampoo and another $30 on conditioner.
Give me some herbal essence type brands that smell good and are CHEAP. I am tired of being BROKE.

Xoxo

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u/Repulsive-Ad2521 — 2 days ago

Need Housing for 3 weeks - need advice

Hello ladies. I booked an Airbnb for a month (I am relocating back to LA) and it had such strong chemicals that it impacted my breathing and I had to leave last night. This has never happened to me before. The host is fighting to keep the money for the whole rest of the month ($2,500) and I am in a hotel for three nights costing me $600. I need to secure housing until around Sept. 13 and I'm not sure where to look. Airbnb for three weeks is pricing at $3000 and I feel like I'm honestly a little traumatized by the experience I just had at the Airbnb.

I need somewhere that does not use strong chemicals/scents because my breathing is still recovering from this event. Otherwise, seeking a clean, quiet, private space where I can rest and live for a few weeks. I considered getting a spot in Joshua Tree but apparently the heat is dangerous this time of year and you need to stay inside. Would prefer LA.

Would anyone have any suggestions? I'm feeling so overwhelmed in this hotel that I'm having a hard time knowing how to move forward while time is ticking down.

Thanks so much!

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u/Opal9090 — 2 days ago

Please do the right thing and give up the reins to a mod team that is actually active, u/likecleopatra.

It’s apparent more and more as this sub grows that we need an overhaul in moderation.

The amount of posts from men treating this like it’s a free escort sub, misogynistic comments galore from incels is simply disgusting. Even comments from self appointed “nice guys” should not be welcomed in a women’s only space as it’s violating that space.

We deserve to be able to keep this space and have it made a true safe space.

U/likecleopatra, please, give up the reins. It’s obvious you do not have the capacity to run this sub the way it should be run. The way you pretended to come back and act like you were ready to moderate the sub properly and bring on a team of mods just to vanish again is not fair to this community of women.

This is a call for any one that wants to moderate to please, please, please go to r/redditrequest and request to take over the sub. The more requests that are made, the more Reddit admin should notice that this sub needs help.

edit some baddies made r/labaddiesgotdrip as a moderated replacement

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u/imisstheemdash — 3 days ago

Therapist recommendations

I known I’ve need therapy for years. I think I’m just at the point where I want to go in. Looking for someone who won’t break the bank because I don’t have insurance right now. Send affordable therapist plsssss. Or a place you go to if you don’t want to leak your therapist. TYIA.

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u/Imaginary_Parsnip163 — 2 days ago

Custom garment sewing

I take custom garment commissions, made to order and built to your actual fit. I sketch the design with you first before anything’s cut. Studied Fashion Product Development at Academy of Art University, and I have previous work I can show plus a client intake form I send before any images, just to make sure this is a serious fit for both of us. Based in Orange Park FL, ship or local pickup. Comment or DM if you’re looking to bring pieces to life.

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u/Slow-Cap-2117 — 2 days ago

Has anyone now or in the past been a “karaoke hostess” in Ktown?

I answered an ad about a job position being a karaoke hostess in Ktown and I’m just wondering if anyone has done this before or is currently working this position and their opinions on it. I just want to make sure it’s not a human trafficking thing.

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u/Infamous-Stable5772 — 3 days ago

Where are the plus size girlies shopping in-person?

Hiya hotties, looking for recommendations on where the plus size LA girlies go clothes shopping these days.

My bestie is between a size 1x-2x and we love going out together to fleas/thrift stores, malls etc but I feel like everywhere I like to go in LA for my standard sizing only has her size online. She’s feeling sick of Torrid and too young for the plus size sections of something like a Macys.

Any hidden gems or fun spots to hit up? I’m not picky on location — though valley, westside or melrose area are preferred!

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u/kat_tick — 3 days ago

Moving company recs!

Hi there! I'll be moving soon and would love some recommendations! The last moving company I used damaged a few items, nothing crazy but it still has me hesitant to use them again.

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u/_balsamicglazed — 3 days ago

Beginner Latin Dance Class

Hi LA hot girlies! I’m looking for a beginner Latin Dance class - merengue, bachata, salsa, really any type of Latin dance. But key word is “beginner” lol. Preferably on West side but will travel. Gracias amigas 💕

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u/Plenty-Path4026 — 3 days ago

Laser Hair Removal Questions

Hi everyone! Moved to LA recently and this is my first time posting here. I’ve been reading through older posts about laser hair removal and wanted to ask some specific questions. For reference, I think I’m a Fitzpatrick 3 or 4 and I have PCOS.

  1. I originally wanted to do full body but areas like my back, shoulders, chest, abdomen have peach fuzz at best. Is it better to just avoid them altogether?

  2. I saw quite a few ppl recommend New Look and LA Skin & Beauty. Any recommendations on nurses and locations you really liked?

  3. I’m assuming I can only do Nd:YAG? Should I track the settings (pulse, fluence, etc) myself or just trust them to handle it? I’m afraid of burns but don’t want to be annoying either.

  4. Given PCOS, is planning for 7 sessions good or should I expect more?

  5. What is the tipping etiquette? If I don’t do full body, I’ll do full bikini, underarms, legs, and arms instead.

  6. How does pricing for electrolysis work— is it by area or time? How many sessions does it take? I’d appreciate any recommendations on places and nurses.

Thanks in advance for your help!! 😊

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u/champagneisnotagrape — 3 days ago

Hotties.

Hey girls! Looking for girls to join my team. Only girls that are actual hotties. you can make great money and have great connections!

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u/Free_Map5828 — 3 days ago

Need temp personal assistant asap

$30 hourly cash, semi flexible on hours (4 hours daily Monday - Thursday) onsite in my Atwater Village apartment. 6 - 12 weeks (tbd), starts as soon as possible. must be ok with a very affectionate cat. I’m a woman and being that this is in my home and some of my stuff comes from woman specific things… I’m in need of a woman.

Interested? Send me a message. Questions? Ask here or via message.

The gist, I’m a software engineer in aerospace Hitting that perimenopause state. I have a lot of health stuff going on and am just very burnt out. I’m doing my absolute best to not quit my job because it’s a great job and I enjoy it. I’m just burnt out on everything and life is just too much for me to manage right now. so I need someone to do that part so that I can focus on being good enough at my job while managing my health and getting that back in order.

Day to day would be managing my life. I suspect the first 2 weeks or so you would stay pretty busy, after the initial weeks, there would probably be a lot of downtime in which if you have school work or a job search or whatever, I’m fine with you doing that stuff as long as my stuff is getting managed.

EDIT: I’ve tried this before and have only ever gotten 1 or 2 response! this is kinda amazing. I’m in meetings till around 1. Will respond/reply/message then!

EDIT EDIT:
I sent out a very long message to all that messaged. Thank you so much. I'll try to respond as quickly as I can as I don't want to keep people waiting. Had a lot of work meetings today, but am mostly free now, so should be much faster to respond.

That said, I sent out over 40 messages. You can still reach out, but I'm prioritizing anyone that has already reached out at this point since it gets too hard to manage for someone looking for help to manage.

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u/pandaparkaparty — 4 days ago
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Help me pick which color for my work shoes plz

Getting ready for work and had to pick a new pair of shoes quickly. Which laces you think??

u/Awkward_Point4749 — 5 days ago

These men on here literally hate us and are getting off on making us feel uncomfortable and jacking off to our vulnerable stories.

I know this user is probably an incel misogynist but I don’t feel comfortable if men are potentially masturbating about vulnerable things, I or of us, may say. Men are literally sick, demented, twisted people. They are probably jacking off to the thought of a woman being uncomfortable. I would be happy to volunteer to co-moderate a group that’s safe. Where men aren’t taking out their microdicks to jack off to what we’re saying or laugh at us.

u/Tattoos_and_Tea — 5 days ago