u/sunnyspells822

Hi all

I can’t believe Neville only dedicated one chapter of his entire repertoire to revision when he said it’s something he’d be remembered and respected for.

I read it again today and the scene in the chapter sounded not as though the person changed the past, but as though revision just mitigated the impact of the past on the future. Not the same thing.

For reference, I’m trying to something which destroyed my life. I had a severe mental health episode which burned bridges with literally hundreds of people as it was recorded. Imagine shouting etc.

Its affected everything in my life. I did everything right before that, good reputation etc.

It’s been awful. Any advice would be appreciated.

I sometimes wonder if I should just ignore it, pretend it didnt happen and manifest a new life and see what happens. Although this is basically gaslighting the people I offended.

Do you believe the biological clock is a societal construct? Do you believe manifestation can override it and what evidence do you have to support?

Just so curious about this. Not sure myself

Lurker here gathering thoughts from the sub. I’m still practising Neville but testing myself and it constantly. Want to hear from you all

Hi everyone,

I stumbled across the point where Neville mentioned that he himself had many failures and was so disheartened. I came to goddard subs because of some extraordinary success stories. Why do you follow him and what do you think of his failures?

In another sub when we mention failures people usually say to persist, what do you think of this?

I know the law is in some senses real due to things I have manifested.

Example:

In my country teaching is considered to be a stressful profession no matter where or who you are teaching. If one enters into this profession can they simply decide it’ll be easy, the students/parents and that will in the majority happen throughout their career?

This entails manifesting for the individual against the collective. I’ve manifested loads of stuff for me as in individual but this would be huge

Reality is an out-pictured version of my mind. Recently I’ve noticed so many things happening. Free items when I want them - from five minutes later to up to one week later. Free food constantly.

Even people seem to mirror names or ideas in my head that I have of people.

Recently I noticed on a shared group chat that a certain animal was being rehomed. I considered this deeply a week later. Then another animal was being rehomed on that chat! It’s completely irrelevant to the group chat topic.

One other thing I’ve noticed is that my gut instinct or deep assumption about another person is usually correct!! I wonder is this myself causing it or was it something I noticed about them?

I have manifested good for others, too. Easily.

One thing that Goddard said that I don’t understand is that you can’t manifest for others if they themselves couldn’t accept that interpretation or manifestation of them. I don’t understand why he came to this conclusion or if he really tested it? That doesnt corroborate with operant power/multiverse theory

Hi everyone

Asking on behalf of a friend. The friend burnt many bridges at once in their career due to a severe mental health episode resulting in outbursts. Because of circumstances don’t matter, they are wondering can they just pretend nothing happened, manifest a new career and assume it won’t follow them? What about the past? Sometimes people reference former colleagues referring them to new roles. This would never happen with her due to burnt bridges and she’s worried about employability
Surely due to the law she can just revise or manifest anew and everything will turn out fine? The law should mean it’s impossible to totally ruin your life without being able to reverse it

Hi everyone

I just wanted to ask how positive people’s views are towards changing their reality. I personally would love to revise my entire past and even age and wondered if anyone had done this.

I’m struggling a bit but have manifested loads of small things ✨ which I’m really happy about still

Does this sound like some kind of personality disorder eg BPD to you?

Hi sub,

I’m posting this about a ‘relationship’ (more of a creepy situation) I had around 10 years ago when I was at school. Yes, I know it’s a long time ago, but this guy was so peculiar he stuck in my mind for a long time.

I wanted to ask the sub for their opinions and tbh just to rant because I need to get it off my chest.

This guy (boy), my age, seemed like the sweetest, most caring although extremely romantically keen person I would ever encounter. The love-bombing was unreal, and wanting to do everything with me, copying my hobbies. So flattering! Especially to an insecure teenage girl. And then it started.

I had a lot of male friends because our school was 85% boys and they were generally speaking great. This was completely unacceptable to him, even though he had female friends who he was extremely flirtatious with. He made me out to be a whore, saying ‘i think she likes the attention’, because I had (genuinely kind) male friends who, looking back, were far superior to him.

He had to do absolutely everything with me, know where I was all the time, would tell me that he would kill any other girl to spend the rest of his life with me. When he asked me out I initially said no and he burst into tears (nearly adult age at a boys school, kind of strange behaviour) and sought pity from anyone who’d ask. My parent was in hospital at that time and he couldn’t seem to understand he wasn’t the priority, like a toddler basically. The guy came from a nuclear family and had no responsibility at home, really coddled. Loves being coddled.

Then when I’d try to break up with him, bear in mind I was 16 and had other boys I much preferred because they were nicer people, he told me he was suicidal. He put this in writing and I have proof. He told me he’d started drinking alcohol regularly during the weekdays. I felt some level of pity for him but he seemed to have no regard for any of my needs or the needs of anyone else around him. I found him to be reprehensibly weak as I had a genuinely difficult childhood unlike him (I know about his life in detail as he only talked about himself and things he wanted), and tbh it repulsed me. I never said this to him obvs but I wanted out after a while.

I’ve never since dealt with anyone who had such bile to say about others including his close friends. His entire personality is ‘I want, I don’t want, that girl is ugly lol’. Tbh it’s as if his parents didnt raise him properly.

He repeatedly complained to others that I was going to leave him when I gave him no indication of such and was just being happy, he hated people giving me compliments and tbh I think he envied me as I was on track to get in to an Ivy League the following year despite my disadvantaged circumstances, which by the way he laughed at, despised and had no empathy for.

Finally in the summertime we each went on holiday and while I was away, I got drunk one night, just trying to relax and have fun at a party abroad and a guy kissed me. I enjoyed it but I wasn’t proud of it. I pushed him off of me, he asked me to go to a secluded area together and I said no.

I messaged this guy straight away to tell him over Facebook and he was furious, really upset. He told me two other people had tried to kiss him and he’d decline them, it was my fault for being so drunk. I agree with him but don’t think he realised how unhappy I was being ‘with’ him. Anyway. I was ashamed and regretted it. He took his revenge by cheating on me, started dating someone else and didn’t break up with me - he just left it. However, this is when things started kicking off.

————

He smear campaigned me by saying that I had cheated on him with two guys abroad, implying I’d had sex with them, which is a serious allegation to make about someone. That never happened, he is lying. He basically sought to sever any tie with the friendship group I introduced him to by slandering me. His alcohol addiction got worse and he slept with as many people as he could during our final year of school.

Bizarrely, he didn’t want to have a clean break as he’d said over text, instead he started harassing me at school, on public transport, pointing at me and laughing at me, saying deliberately hurtful things, called me ugly and stupid. He did it offline so he wouldn’t get caught. When I got into my Ivy League, he laughed and looked like the ground wanted to swallow him up. His entire personality that year and since then has revolves around me, I’m not kidding, he even told people I was the biggest thing that had ever been in his life and my school colleagues used to call him sunny-spells-bot (like a robot copying me). He would say gossip to others about me including degrading sexual comments so that I could hear as much as possible, putting his hand in front of his face but talking as loudly as possible. He still behaves the same way and does it to multiple people now.

The craziest thing is he’s able to illicit pity so easily!!! I know as it used to work on me. Whenever he cries, he looks like, to quote a mutual acquaintance, ‘a desperate RSPCA puppy’. As though his parents had died in front of him. One thing I remembered is that he told me he was mute as child for a few years so I wondered if he had autism. He has split personalities and is one of the most selfish, narcissistic people I have ever met but he pretends to be kind and community oriented bc he really cares what others think of him. I know the true him.

I didn’t speak about him until a few years ago and when I did, many people had only nasty things to say about him, finding him to be deeply inappropriate and unpleasant. No one respects him. Another school friend messaged me to tell me that this guys beloved older brother had committed a sexual offence against her. It’s completely believable as that guy was a player, sleeping with hundreds of women, his mother thought he was closeted.

I had a very good reputation at school and this guy sought to undermine me as much as possible, for example when I had a theatre production, I was the main part, he drew on posters of my face. He also had no concept that invading your privacy to other people was morally wrong unless something illegal is happening. Eg telling everyone ur in depth business and everything you do, basically doxxing you. After we stopped talking, he spent his entire year staring at me at school!! Like I would look across in assembly and see him staring at me for 30 mins at a time, like some kind of stalker and r*pist. He then projected onto me by telling his next conquest that I’m a completely psycho and he couldn’t get rid of me. I realised he was doing DARVO. After we ‘broke up’ during that summer I mentioned, I never once spoke to him again, going no contact.

Now for the creepy part.

This guy made his entire life about me. He copied my next boyfriends job, found a girlfriend who looks like me (although my friends reassured me I’m far more attractive lol just to be petty), copied my normally extroverted nature and humour, told people he wanted to follow me to university, became obsessed with my ancestral countries and basically did anything to mirror me including hobbies. He did anything he could to copy what we would have had because he has no personality or identity out of copying other people. It’s completely changed me as I don’t want that relationship with anyone. I’m a private and reserved person since then. I had to block him on LinkedIn as as soon as I made a profile, he viewed my profile on semi private and did so again last year. He caused me so much pain, I sometimes wish he was dead, not because I wish harm on him, I forgive him but I hate that I have to share a world with such an unpleasant person. I never cross paths with him. Mutual acquaintances, even when I try to show charitable thoughts toward him, think he is a nightmare. He moved far away to live where his gf wanted and likely copied everything she likes. Maybe some read that as love but I think it’s weird.

His current girlfriend apparently has severe mental health problems and he is very unhappy, also still an asshole.

I’m most upset about the personality stealing, he even stole how kind my personality is as I used to care so deeply about others. This guy is so phony, if people knew how he talked about them, he’d have no friends at all.

Thanks for listening to my rant.

— Btw worth noting he tried to solicit a guy once, oh and his other close friend from school who he doesnt like very much but is obsessed with because I loved her (no longer!) has confirmed BPD or PD. He even copied whom and what I like and dislike.

— Final thought is that this guy works as a corporate lawyer and tries to come off as a totally-has-it-all together white picket fence guy. This used to fool me but now I have life experience I realise how often these people have double lives and are lying about who they truly are. When I spoke to a therapist, she told me that.

Hi sub,

I’m posting this about a ‘relationship’ (more of a creepy situation) I had around 10 years ago when I was at school. Yes, I know it’s a long time ago, but this guy was so peculiar he stuck in my mind for a long time.

I wanted to ask the sub for their opinions and tbh just to rant because I need to get it off my chest.

This guy (boy), my age, seemed like the sweetest, most caring although extremely romantically keen person I would ever encounter. The love-bombing was unreal, and wanting to do everything with me, copying my hobbies. So flattering! Especially to an insecure teenage girl. And then it started.

I had a lot of male friends because our school was 85% boys and they were generally speaking great. This was completely unacceptable to him, even though he had female friends who he was extremely flirtatious with. He made me out to be a whore, saying ‘i think she likes the attention’, because I had (genuinely kind) male friends who, looking back, were far superior to him.

He had to do absolutely everything with me, know where I was all the time, would tell me that he would kill any other girl to spend the rest of his life with me. When he asked me out I initially said no and he burst into tears (nearly adult age at a boys school, kind of strange behaviour) and sought pity from anyone who’d ask. My parent was in hospital at that time and he couldn’t seem to understand he wasn’t the priority, like a toddler basically. The guy came from a nuclear family and had no responsibility at home, really coddled. Loves being coddled.

Then when I’d try to break up with him, bear in mind I was 16 and had other boys I much preferred because they were nicer people, he told me he was suicidal. He put this in writing and I have proof. He told me he’d started drinking alcohol regularly during the weekdays. I felt some level of pity for him but he seemed to have no regard for any of my needs or the needs of anyone else around him. I found him to be reprehensibly weak as I had a genuinely difficult childhood unlike him (I know about his life in detail as he only talked about himself and things he wanted), and tbh it repulsed me. I never said this to him obvs but I wanted out after a while.

I’ve never since dealt with anyone who had such bile to say about others including his close friends. His entire personality is ‘I want, I don’t want, that girl is ugly lol’. Tbh it’s as if his parents didnt raise him properly.

He repeatedly complained to others that I was going to leave him when I gave him no indication of such and was just being happy, he hated people giving me compliments and tbh I think he envied me as I was on track to get in to an Ivy League the following year despite my disadvantaged circumstances, which by the way he laughed at, despised and had no empathy for.

Finally in the summertime we each went on holiday and while I was away, I got drunk one night, just trying to relax and have fun at a party abroad and a guy kissed me. I enjoyed it but I wasn’t proud of it. I pushed him off of me, he asked me to go to a secluded area together and I said no.

I messaged this guy straight away to tell him over Facebook and he was furious, really upset. He told me two other people had tried to kiss him and he’d decline them, it was my fault for being so drunk. I agree with him but don’t think he realised how unhappy I was being ‘with’ him. Anyway. I was ashamed and regretted it. He took his revenge by cheating on me, started dating someone else and didn’t break up with me - he just left it. However, this is when things started kicking off.

————

He smear campaigned me by saying that I had cheated on him with two guys abroad, implying I’d had sex with them, which is a serious allegation to make about someone. That never happened, he is lying. He basically sought to sever any tie with the friendship group I introduced him to by slandering me. His alcohol addiction got worse and he slept with as many people as he could during our final year of school.

Bizarrely, he didn’t want to have a clean break as he’d said over text, instead he started harassing me at school, on public transport, pointing at me and laughing at me, saying deliberately hurtful things, called me ugly and stupid. He did it offline so he wouldn’t get caught. When I got into my Ivy League, he laughed and looked like the ground wanted to swallow him up. His entire personality that year and since then has revolves around me, I’m not kidding, he even told people I was the biggest thing that had ever been in his life and my school colleagues used to call him sunny-spells-bot (like a robot copying me). He would say gossip to others about me including degrading sexual comments so that I could hear as much as possible, putting his hand in front of his face but talking as loudly as possible. He still behaves the same way and does it to multiple people now.

The craziest thing is he’s able to illicit pity so easily!!! I know as it used to work on me. Whenever he cries, he looks like, to quote a mutual acquaintance, ‘a desperate RSPCA puppy’. As though his parents had died in front of him. One thing I remembered is that he told me he was mute as child for a few years so I wondered if he had autism. He has split personalities and is one of the most selfish, narcissistic people I have ever met but he pretends to be kind and community oriented bc he really cares what others think of him. I know the true him.

I didn’t speak about him until a few years ago and when I did, many people had only nasty things to say about him, finding him to be deeply inappropriate and unpleasant. No one respects him. Another school friend messaged me to tell me that this guys beloved older brother had committed a sexual offence against her. It’s completely believable as that guy was a player, sleeping with hundreds of women, his mother thought he was closeted.

I had a very good reputation at school and this guy sought to undermine me as much as possible, for example when I had a theatre production, I was the main part, he drew on posters of my face. He also had no concept that invading your privacy to other people was morally wrong unless something illegal is happening. Eg telling everyone ur in depth business and everything you do, basically doxxing you. After we stopped talking, he spent his entire year staring at me at school!! Like I would look across in assembly and see him staring at me for 30 mins at a time, like some kind of stalker and r*pist. He then projected onto me by telling his next conquest that I’m a completely psycho and he couldn’t get rid of me. I realised he was doing DARVO. After we ‘broke up’ during that summer I mentioned, I never once spoke to him again, going no contact.

Now for the creepy part.

This guy made his entire life about me. He copied my next boyfriends job, found a girlfriend who looks like me (although my friends reassured me I’m far more attractive lol just to be petty), copied my normally extroverted nature and humour, told people he wanted to follow me to university, became obsessed with my ancestral countries and basically did anything to mirror me including hobbies. He did anything he could to copy what we would have had because he has no personality or identity out of copying other people. It’s completely changed me as I don’t want that relationship with anyone. I’m a private and reserved person since then. I had to block him on LinkedIn as as soon as I made a profile, he viewed my profile on semi private and did so again last year. He caused me so much pain, I sometimes wish he was dead, not because I wish harm on him, I forgive him but I hate that I have to share a world with such an unpleasant person. I never cross paths with him. Mutual acquaintances, even when I try to show charitable thoughts toward him, think he is a nightmare. He moved far away to live where his gf wanted and likely copied everything she likes. Maybe some read that as love but I think it’s weird.

His current girlfriend apparently has severe mental health problems and he is very unhappy, also still an asshole.

I’m most upset about the personality stealing, he even stole how kind my personality is as I used to care so deeply about others. This guy is so phony, if people knew how he talked about them, he’d have no friends at all.

Thanks for listening to my rant.

— Btw worth noting he tried to solicit a guy once, oh and his other close friend from school who he doesnt like very much but is obsessed with because I loved her (no longer!) has confirmed BPD or PD. He even copied whom and what I like and dislike.

— Final thought is that this guy works as a corporate lawyer and tries to come off as a totally-has-it-all together white picket fence guy. This used to fool me but now I have life experience I realise how often these people have double lives and are lying about who they truly are. When I spoke to a therapist, she told me that.

What do our dreams mean, are they manifestations and can they be revised to reject them?

Hi,

I’ve previously learned that the Romanovs were ‘corrupt’ and poor leaders, leading to their execution. Obviously I know about the bolsheviks, beyond this though is anyone able to offer a true honest picture of the Romanovs

My understanding is that they were canonised

Thanks

Hi,

Im trying to learn more about history as a result of my catholic conversion. I’ve previously learned that the Romanovs were ‘corrupt’ and poor leaders, leading to their execution. Obviously I know about the bolsheviks, beyond this though is anyone able to offer a true honest picture of the Romanovs

My understanding is that they were canonised

Yes I know they were orthodox Christians, but I often hear of great catholics discussing russian history

Thanks

Hi all

Is anyone else having trouble deciding what to actually manifest

Small things are fine and no big deal, when it comes to key life decisions I have no idea what to do? Maybe I should just start since I can manifest changes anyway lol

My other question is whether some people have profited from doing 2-4hr long SATS rather than night after night. Theoretically one could plant seeds for multiple manifestations in a weekend. Timetabling manifesting is rather difficult for me and yet it’s the most important thing

Hi,

Lots of people here mention their 3D throwing crap at them as the old 3D dies and new one renders, basically the old reality dying loudly and with a bang. This can be really upsetting for the manifestor

Is this really Neville or just speculation? This ‘old reality dying off’ theory

As above!!

1. More and more here, I notice people remarking that they believe they manifested posts, written by others, related to their topic of interest, showcasing that reality bends to our mind.

The same has happened to me, for example with revision posts and manifesting free things.

I then noticed political change in my country based on changes I specially wanted to see. These aren’t fully enacted but new discussions are happening related to my topic. It looks like a bridge of incidents - but I’m wondering how my mind could be causing change to so many people not just myself?

If that works, it’s such a relief as means we truly have more control than we think. However I noticed for example I want to manifest good things for other people and sending away of mean people lol, and I ask myself if I can really do that. Can I just write a great life story for lots of people and they will have that life?

2. My second point is I wonder how much reality bending opposes common sense. I wanted to use the example of ‘I want to get a passport for this country without moving there’

Or

‘I want to do this specific job which requires lots of in person interaction, but I want to work remotely’

Does adding conditions change the manifestation or make us too double minded for success?

I tend to believe it does totally for example where I see that I did something I thought impossible. I used this law to win a board game recently at the last minute

3. Finally, how many manifestations can we do at once using lullaby? I honestly just want to write a list of ‘I have… I am…’ and get these things asap.

4. Any and all revision success stories are as usual welcome, im really interested in collating anecdotes ans data on this for myself and the sub

DL = closeted

I’ve met many men who were DL (closeted) but married women and wanted to ask the forum their experience with such men. No need to be hateful just to describe honest experiences

I work in the corporate world and have encountered a number of DL guys who are publically in a happy marriage, with kids etc, oftentimes profiting financially from wife, but are -confirmed- DL and wife has no idea (or mb they do idk). Women can defend their men’s worst behaviour

I find these men to be extremely narcissistic, dishonest and mean and can’t help but notice how deeply unpleasant they are to work with. No self awareness, always asking for stuff and expecting so much and always bullshitting about their experience. Just bottom of the rung guys and I’ve worked with great men by contrast

As I mentioned these guys desperately try to project an image of not being DL and are often very slimy, great talkers and salespeople.

Has anyone else shared my experience or is it just a few bad apples?