u/synthpalm

What would you do if your partner transitioned?

I was just wondering from a christian perspective how you would navigate a marriage if your partner transitioned to the same sex as you.

Biblicalky the only grounds for divorce is adultery, but also biblically same sex relationships are a no. So what would you do?

Ive always wondered this! Thought it would be interesting to discuss

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u/synthpalm — 3 days ago

How to stop crying all the time?

Im worried because i am already draining my husband and we arent even a month in.

I suffer with anxiety and every time he does something unhealthy it triggers my anxiety as i am terrified of losing him. Im scared he might die young and i cant bear to live without him.

All day, every day i am riddled with anxiety, but i have to keep quiet about things so much. If i even get a chest ache i worry its a heart attack. But i keep quiet constantly.

But it gets too much by the end of the day i am exhausted and overwhelmed, and if he does something unhealthy then i break.

I pray every day that God will keep him safe. Ive prayed that when its time i will die before him.

Ive never been in love with a real person this way before, never wanted to give my life to someone this way, and i could never love anyone the same, so its a lot.

But if i keep crying he might start to resent me and i will drive him away. What do i do!

Ive tried to get therapy and the doctor keeps fobbing me off :(

I ask God to help me but ive suffered with anxiety since age 4.

Ive had so much prayer and therapy over the years im at the end of my tether

I hate myself for this!

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u/synthpalm — 7 days ago

Stomach pain?

Im starting to get confused because im wondering if i may have another issue and not vaginismus, as ive read that this is a symptom of other problems but each time we try to have sex i get lower abdominal aches kind of like period pain or if you eat too much. Wondered if anyone else experiences this and if its part of vaginismus?

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u/synthpalm — 8 days ago

Burning pain in intimate area

I went to doctor today because the last 2 days i experirnced somethibg i never have before. My husband always touches me intimately, like rubs and flicks until i orgasm basically. Its always been great for us to do as i cant do penetration yet. But the last 2 nights he tried, my whole area started to feel like it was on fire burning.

Doctor today just said its probably because i am new to sex, but im confused because we have been doing this since february and its never happened before.

She didnt really reassure me but kind of scared me as she asked what i was worried about and im worried that it gets damaged and i will lose feeling down there forever and she just told me if that happened i would get over it.

So has anyone else ever experienced this and what did you do?

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u/synthpalm — 9 days ago

The love i have for my husband is overwhelming!

I dont know if its an autistic thing of extreme emotions, but im so in love with my husband that i literally dont know how to deal with it!! The attraction i have for him sends me over the edge, and he doesnt have to do anything. He could be driving, washing a plate, lying in bed, literally anything, and i feel floored every time i look at him. When i look at pictures of him or watch his videos or listen to his music i kind of feel like i am going to pop! Its like some kind of adrenaline rush, i cant describe it but its intense!

And i love him so much, even when we have disagreements or a little argument, it doesnt change the fact that i love him far more than myself and that i would do almost anything for him to be happy. I would cross oceans for this man and i hate travelling!!!

Maybe i am a bit pathetic but i just want to be around him all the time. His beautiful face is like the sweetest honey to me.

I am grateful that God brought us together. I thought i would be single all my life, and never thought i could love a man this much. Especially after acting like a bad christian and God is still kind to me.

Just wanted to gush!

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u/synthpalm — 16 days ago

A lot of music videos are just straight up pornographic, and they shouldnt be shown on tv in early hours when kids could be watching. This type of content is not appropriate for kids.

It also annoys me that shows such as britains got talent have some acts shown that are innapropriate for kids. People in skimpy outfits grinding away and stuff like that.

Ive heard the arguments about skimpy outfits 'its just a human body and its not sexual'. Well if thats the case why arent you happy about your child wearing it?

The media needs to do better at protecting kids and not exposing them to sexual things before they are old enough.

And yes, parents are responsible for what their kids watch, but sometimes parents assume that because its on before 9pm, its safe for little eyes. And even some adverts are innapropriate!

Protect children!

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u/synthpalm — 16 days ago