u/the_confused_soul_96

Recently, I’ve been seeing a lot of posts where men accuse women of having relationships before marriage, going through breakups, and then supposedly “ruining a good man’s life” by bringing emotional baggage into marriage.

But I genuinely want to ask: do these same men not date? Do they not have girlfriends? And if they do, do they stay completely physical-free themselves?

And honestly, if men collectively believed that sex should happen only after marriage, then women would remain virgins too, wouldn’t they? It takes two people to make that decision.

What feels even more contradictory is seeing many men desperately searching for relationships, validation, hookups, or attention online — even using platforms like Reddit as dating spaces — while simultaneously preaching about “purity” and “traditional values” when it comes to women.

The double standards are exhausting.

Came through a reel where this influencer is talking about how she got rejected because of her height and that triggered a long insecurity within her. What's striking is, women are being so nasty to her, and men are actually applauding those nasty comments. All that feminism talk for putting down another person!!!

I'm not being able to upload a screenshot, but the girl literally commented, "It's not your height, it's actually the face"...like wtf dude, why so nasty!

Pata hai aaj kya hua!!! My ex texted me after 8 years. We were mostly in a long distance relationship and met only a few times. After 1.5 years of dating we had sex, and one week after that he brokeup. The reason he gave was that he was drunk and he slept with someone and was too guilty (lying piece of shit). Now I am married, he is married. Today he texted I miss you n all...so I took a screenshot and sent it to his wife, then blocked both of them. Andruni khushi si ho rahi hai😂😂😂

Is it possible to order alcohol online in Prayagraj? Any sites if you guys have any idea!

Can anybody, a woman, dm me? Please....

Tl;dr please dm

Saw videos of tmc banners being removed from Asutosh College. Gave a weird satisfaction to see my college will look like a college instead of a party office now.

Hey guys, I smoked the last cig I had. And I seriously do not want to buy anymore. I have been thinking to quit since quite a few months, but I kept on falling in the loop of ' just one more'. I've realized I can't go cold turkey, too weak for that. So I got nicotine gums, but I don't understand how can they help. Any advice, any good words to keep motivated, please. I REALLY REALLY WANT TO BE CLEAN. I'm tired of the teeth stains, the lip darkening, the breathlessness while workouts, the dullness in the face, the bad smell which other can smell on me but I can't and the constant sneaking around for another smoke. I'm telling myself this is not permanent, i can always smoke occasionally, but I don't know if that's the right approach. Please help me

Hello, I am 29F and my husband is 33M, we dated for 3 years and we are married since last 2 years. Before getting married, I had a job, financial autonomy, but I always wanted to try my hand for other jobs as well. My husband had assured me that once we get married, I can leave my job and he'll take care of my finances for a few years till I get my professional life sorted (he earns a lot more than I did). I agreed, we got married. Post marriage, most of the times I faced a reluctancy to ask for money, however once I was running out of my emergency fund, I had to. He was fine with it. He bought a property and that strained the disposable income a bit, I was okay with it. However I noticed I had stopped everything, new clothes, shoes, makeup, handbags etc etc. He, on the other hand buys costly watches, clothes and shoes almost every month, I don't mind it really, he works hard he deserves a treat. However, I cut down on the brands I used, the stuff I bought regularly and a lot more. He gives me a monthly expense, but most of that is spent on managing the household expenses, and he knows that, and I feel so guilty to ask for more. Now, he's planning on buying another property, and that would strain us even more. I asked him how are we to sustain, he said it's all manageable, but the numbers don't lie. I'll have to comprise even more. I can't. I feel suffocated. I understand investments and properties are important, but I feel I'm the only one who's making the cuts. I can't go back to my old job now, because I've been working very hard for something else, and leaving it now in the middle of it means 2 years of my hard work in vain. What to do? How can I communicate? I feel miserable.

tl;dr how to communicate with husband about financial requirements, given the fact that it's his money, not mine.

Hello, everytime I try contouring I cannot achieve that lifted slim face effect. It just ends up looking like dark lines and shadows on round cheeks. I've started to feel contouring works on well defined faces only. Any tips???

Hey guys, any of you panicking like shit? I wasted today thinking what to study, worrying if all questions will be bouncers, that upsc will suddenly stop elimination hints etc etc. Any of you having similar troubles? Or is it just me!🥲