Telling child
Hi! I am a single mom (not by choice) to a beautiful 15 month old conceived with donor sperm. I absolutely want to tell her everything I know in age appropriate way. To that end, last September 18 (the day the embryo was transferred through ivf), I read her a kids story about a kid with two moms (which she had at the time) and a baby conceived through ivf with donor sperm and then told her a simplified version of events (which she obviously did not understand). My plan is to make September 18 [Name] day and make it like a second birthday where we celebrate her and also make sure to talk about how she got her with the details increasing as she gets older. Obviously this is going to be an ongoing discussion not limited to once a year, but i do think that this tradition will at least ensure that no more than one year can go by without revisiting the topic. Thoughts on this from the community would be super welcomed! Thank you!