u/ttcmama6

hi everyone! a bit about my story. i’m 31F, husband is 29M. we’ve been ttc#1 for over 2 years. we did our egg retrieval in feb of this year. we created 15 embryos. we did not get them tested.

I just did my first FET and it ended in a loss. at 7 weeks baby was measuring 6 days behind with a strong heartbeat of 124 then 5 days later at 7w5d baby was measuring 6w2d and heart rate went down to 92. this is our second loss, first loss was from an IUI and was a chemical pregnancy.

we’ve been told that since we have no genetic conditions and we are young — PGTA isn’t necessary. but since I have reoccurring loss. we’re considering it!

would love to know thoughts from both sides!

hi everyone! a bit about my story. i’m 31F, husband is 29M. we’ve been ttc#1 for over 2 years. we did our egg retrieval in feb of this year. we created 15 embryos. we did not get them tested.

I just did my first FET and it ended in a loss. at 7 weeks baby was measuring 6 days behind with a strong heartbeat of 124 then 5 days later at 7w5d baby was measuring 6w2d and heart rate went down to 92. i’m confirming the loss this upcoming week. this is my second loss, first was from an IUI and was a chemical pregnancy.

we’ve been told that since we have no genetic conditions and we are young. PGTA isn’t necessary. but since I have reoccurring loss. we’re considering it..

would love to know thoughts

TW loss & blood talk

I was given a 50/50 chance at miscarrying, I had low rising betas, a small gush of blood thursday right before my first scan, my prior history of loss and the baby measuring 6 days behind. i’m feeling really down lately.

and to top it off— I feel like all of the *small symptoms* I had, are gone now.

I go in for a second US today — it’s in a hospital so I have no idea if i’ll find out info today or tomorrow just based on how fast they send over the info to my OB.

but has anyone else had mild symptoms just go away? this is just really fucking hard

ETA: my first US they saw a fetal pole of 124 bpm but measuring 6w1d

TW talk about previous loss and bleeding

looking for positive stories/optomism or realism.

just went in for my first US at 7 weeks yesterday and I was measuring 6w1d. the fetal pole was >!124bpm!< but I started bleeding the morning of the scan and since I had no signs of a SCH on the US (mind you I feel like she barely fucking looked her bedside manner was so poor), and with my previous CP, my slow rising beta and small amount of bleeding yesterday morning (which since then is no longer) — she’s worried about this pregnancy. she gave me a 50/50 chance that this is viable.

betas >!9DPT: 65 11DPT: 182 13DPT: 463 20DPT: 2628 29DPT: 12,290!<

i’m really sad and just want to talk to people who understand.

the only positive thing is that baby has a strong heart beat 😕

looking for positive stories/optomism or realism.

just went in for my first US at 7 weeks and I was measuring 6w1d. the fetal pole was >! 124bpm !<but I started bleeding this morning and since I had no signs of a SCH, and with my previous CP — she’s worried about this pregnancy.

she said there would be a 50/50 chance that this pregnancy will miscarry. since I have a previous loss, I started bleeding today, I have slow rising betas, and i’m measuring 6 days behind.

below are my betas
9DPT: 65 11DPT: 182 13DPT: 463 20DPT: 2628 29DPT: 12,290

i’m really sad and just want to talk to people who understand

looking for positive stories/optomism or realism.

just went in for my first US at 7 weeks and I was measuring 6w1d. the fetal pole was 124bpm but I started bleeding this morning and since I had no signs of a SCH, and with my previous CP — she’s worried about this pregnancy.

she said there would be a 50/50% chance that this pregnancy will miscarry.

i’m really worried and sad and stressed. I wish I wasn’t dealing with a potential loss again

ETA: my betas were slow rising which was another red flag to my RE

9DPT: 65 11DPT: 182 13DPT: 463 20DPT: 2628 29DPT: 12,290