I applied 2 weeks ago, and nothing. The location is opening this month, so they're not open yet and I can't call them to ask what's going on. I'm wondering if this is because of the opening or what? How long does it usually take for them to get back to employees?
Just inquiring cause I feel a little lost lol
I applied for FOH last week, so I'm trying to prepare for if I have an interview. I want to work full time, I've been unemployed for a while because other companies kept ghosting me, so I really, desperately want to work at chick fil a. If I get an interview and fail it I'm gonna be so sad 😂
Is there anything that can improve my chances? I'm kind of a socially awkward person, but I'm friendly, I'm good at interacting with customers, and I'm a quick learner... I just really hope they get back to me and I can get hired :,)
I've looked and looked and almost all the advice, even from ADHDers, is just "Get up and do it!" "Be consistent, consistency is key!" but I really can't figure out the "how". I can't find any resource to tell me HOW to get that consistency, HOW to really get up and do it consistently, because the "Get up and do it" works only sometimes. When I'm already deep in a rut, that sort of thing doesn't work, because if I could just get up and do it with that kind of advice, I would.
I specifically can't feel motivated to try to be consistent anymore because I feel like I haven't been able to find something that works for me, I've really tried to be consistent, I've been motivated before, and it always fizzles out even though I want to be healthier really badly.
I can't afford a gym membership, I don't live in a neighborhood and I can't go for walks (genuinely I will just get isekai'd by a random car if I try, my area is not walkable at all), and I don't have friends to go exercise with. Most of the advice I see is to body double and find accountability partners--I don't have that. All I can do is at home workouts... so I'm at a loss.
Please, if you have advice for me, for the "how" to be consistent instead of just "be consistent", do share :,) I understand that it's hard, and that I have to get up and keep trying, but how do I keep trying??
I'm like a little rat trapped in a sad cage instead of a Rat World cage with 2 friends and things to nibble on
TL;DR I'm stir crazy and going insane please recommend things for me to do that aren't just "Oh go for a walk! and doodle a little bit/do something small and you'll get there, buddy!" because that's not helpful and I see that everywhere already... I feel so stuck
I need things to do desperately but I never feel like I'm doing enough, so even the things I used to do that made me feel better don't do much for me anymore and it's driving me absolute NUTS😭 I dont know if it's depression or what, because I still feel happy doing things sometimes, but I'm so flipping bored all the time. I can't get a job (I'm applying and getting nothing back from people) so I'm trying not to go batshit while I wait for life to resume.
I don't have a lot of friends (not any who are consistently available to hang out, anyway) and I don't have places to walk/piddle around, and I don't have extracurriculars cause I'm 20 and apparently people just don't do crap after age 18... I have a bf but he lives far away (like 6 hours or so) so I can't do much with him either
I really do feel like a caged animal
If this isn't the right place to post this can you PLEASE help me find a different place. Instead of just deleting this or ignoring it. Cause I actually want advice/help...
I'm so sorry if this is the wrong reddit but I really just. it's so hard to eat. If I have disordered eating it's really mild so I feel like so intrusive posting here but there's not like a "mild disorder-not-disorder" subreddit 😭
I've started to feel stressed every time I think about eating. every day I wake up and I get so frustrated cause it feels like there's nothing to eat. even food I like sometimes makes me want to gag especially in the morning. I skip meals a lot because of this and I can tell by the way my pants fit I've lost a little bit of weight, which isn't good at my size/height. I was at a healthy weight before lol
it's too hard to make myself eat. I have issues even buying food because I feel guilty spending money on it (kinda unrelated) and every easy food that gets recommended, like "oh just nibble on some trail mix through the day! eat oatmeal in the morning!" etc is so gross to me OR I like it but it makes me feel queasy. I feel like I never have the right kinds of foods in the house or it's too overwhelming to cook and think of food to make and I'm just so sick of having to eat every day
I can't just keep making myself eat things I don't like because of this because it's not just a "oh not my favorite" it just makes me so grossed out I can't do it
I'm sure this is asked a lot, but like. After he visits I'm just depressed for a week and a half or so... He's finally real and in my arms for just a day or two then sometimes it can be almost 2 months before we see each other again. He's not super far away but just far enough that it has to be a sleepover for either of us, a day trip just isn't really viable... But I feel so guilty for missing him. Genuinely just. I feel so clingy for just wanting him next to me and being able to cuddle and hold hands and see his smile and hear his laugh. I feel pathetic that I get so sad without him because people always warn so much about "don't let your partner be your main source of happiness or the only thing that can fix you", and I know I'm not doing that cause I still have fun sometimes and hang out with friends and such, but gosh. life is so much better with him. I think it's so intense cause I don't get enough time with him... how do I deal with this and all the guilt attached to it 😭