Just found out my pink toe is a male.
I got my pink toe tarantula a couple years ago and was told she was a female. I trusted the people who told me, as they were my coworkers at the pet shop I got her from. I was new to tarantulas back then and never even THOUGHT to question it.
Recently I noticed my girl has been acting weird. She looks disheveled, wanders around aimlessly, and is not eating well. I thought it was something I was doing wrong so I asked people for help…everyone said the same thing- looks to be a mature male. I was in denial but I was looking over her today and saw all the telltale signs of a mature male tarantula after the final molt. I am so upset. I feel like I’m overreacting but I expected 5 more years with her…and she’s actually a he. 💔