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I’m currently looking for multiple skilled and professional video editors to join our team.

If you’re highly proficient in Adobe After Effects and know how to edit professionally with strong attention to detail, pacing, storytelling, transitions, sound design, and overall visual quality , this could be a great opportunity for you.

Or, if you know someone who might be a good fit for the role, feel free to tag them or let me know.

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HIRING PROFESSIONAL VIDEO EDITORS — PAID OPPORTUNITY

I’m currently looking for multiple skilled and professional video editors to join our team.

If you’re highly proficient in Adobe After Effects and know how to edit professionally with strong attention to detail, pacing, storytelling, transitions, sound design, and overall visual quality , this could be a great opportunity for you.

Or, if you know someone who might be a good fit for the role, feel free to tag them or let me know.

Dm me🔥

We've been together for almost 2 months. Met on a random app and the chemistry was insane from day one. We got close really fast, had plenty of fights, but always worked things out. We're even planning to meet in a few months if things keep going well.first LDR for both of us

The problem is that for the past week she's become really dry. She still replies if I text or call, but she never starts conversations anymore. She used to be clingy, and now it feels like she barely shows it. I've asked her multiple times if something's wrong, and every time she says everything's fine.i miss her, watch doin msg

Now I'm stuck overthinking. Is she losing interest? Is she testing me to see how much I care? Or is this just a phase or mood swing? Has anyone been through something similar?

Ik her mood swings and i always did da right thing but lol this time it feels diff

I already am too attached to her, and I got gut feeling it might end ig, so I'm prepared for both outcomes

Never in my life i believed this Idr is real, everything is fake, how can any person get attachment to someone before even meeting em irl

Now I can understand,

If she says the truth and says yea it's over i ain gonna push, life already fkd up and this got new bonus hahh

Anyways

If someone exp this before, leme know your thoughts

If you wanna know, dms always open and appreciated

I'm 21 working man, and this is my first relationship ever. Never even dated anyone IRL, so all of this is completely new to me.

About 3-4 weeks ago I met this girl on a random app. She was completely different from every other girl I'd talked to, and that's what made me like her. She said she felt the same about me.

Neither of us had ever been in an LDR before. We got attached stupidly fast, had a lot of fights, always worked things out, fought again, got back together... basically a lot of ups and downs. After a couple of weeks we both got serious, said "I love you," and genuinely meant it, wan meet her irl too , gota travel 2-3 days ig , hope in future I do

At first we'd text all day, call for hours, miss each other like crazy, all the honeymoon phase stuff.

Then out of nowhere I started feeling nothing.

No urge to text, no urge to call, almost like I lost feelings. We ended up having a fight and kinda broke up. But the moment she was actually gone, I completely lost it. I felt empty asf, missed her like crazy, wanted her back so badly, texted her again, ,she felt same , ( same day tho)and when we got back together I was genuinely so happy.

Now fast forward a few days...

It's happening AGAIN.

Yesterday she even said, "Idk if I'm losing interest or something, this relationships are boring uhh."

Since last night she's been really dry, and honestly so have I.

Today we barely talked. No calls, almost no texts. Right now I genuinely feel almost nothing. If she ghosted me till tonight, I honestly don't think I'd care that much.

But here's the confusing part

If tomorrow she texted me, "I don't have feelings anymore, let's break up," I'm almost certain I'd lose my shit and miss her like crazy again.

That's literally what happened the first time.

So what tf is this?

Do I actually love her ( i still do and maybe always do ) never loved anyone like this before in my life , this is some weird attachment/psychological thing? Is it normal for people in relationships (especially LDRs) to suddenly lose the spark for a few days and then only realize how much they care when the other person is actually leaving?

Or am I just confusing attachment with love?

I genuinely want to understand what's happening in my head because my feelings go from 100 to 0, then back to 100 the moment I think I'm actually losing the person. It this normal? Sign of healthy ldr? Or nah

Has anyone else gone through this? Especially if it was your first relationship or first LDR?

How to handle this ,

Need advice gng🥀

I'm 21 working man, and this is my first relationship ever. Never even dated anyone IRL, so all of this is completely new to me.

About 3-4 weeks ago I met this girl on a random app. She was completely different from every other girl I'd talked to, and that's what made me like her. She said she felt the same about me.

Neither of us had ever been in an LDR before. We got attached stupidly fast, had a lot of fights, always worked things out, fought again, got back together... basically a lot of ups and downs. After a couple of weeks we both got serious, said "I love you," and genuinely meant it, wan meet her irl too , gota travel 2-3 days ig , hope in future I do

At first we'd text all day, call for hours, miss each other like crazy, all the honeymoon phase stuff.

Then out of nowhere I started feeling nothing.

No urge to text, no urge to call, almost like I lost feelings. We ended up having a fight and kinda broke up. But the moment she was actually gone, I completely lost it. I felt empty asf, missed her like crazy, wanted her back so badly, texted her again, ,she felt same , ( same day tho)and when we got back together I was genuinely so happy.

Now fast forward a few days...

It's happening AGAIN.

Yesterday she even said, "Idk if I'm losing interest or something, this relationships are boring uhh."

Since last night she's been really dry, and honestly so have I.

Today we barely talked. No calls, almost no texts. Right now I genuinely feel almost nothing. If she ghosted me till tonight, I honestly don't think I'd care that much.

But here's the confusing part

If tomorrow she texted me, "I don't have feelings anymore, let's break up," I'm almost certain I'd lose my shit and miss her like crazy again.

That's literally what happened the first time.

So what tf is this?

Do I actually love her ( i still do and maybe always do ) never loved anyone like this before in my life , this is some weird attachment/psychological thing? Is it normal for people in relationships (especially LDRs) to suddenly lose the spark for a few days and then only realize how much they care when the other person is actually leaving?

Or am I just confusing attachment with love?

I genuinely want to understand what's happening in my head because my feelings go from 100 to 0, then back to 100 the moment I think I'm actually losing the person. It this normal? Sign of healthy ldr? Or nah

Has anyone else gone through this? Especially if it was your first relationship or first LDR?

How to handle this ,

Need advice gng

Lowkey wanna watch it🥀💔. I'm planning to go on this Sunday, If anyone's interested, shoot me a DM

3 weeks ago I randomly met a girl on an anonymous voice chat app.

The app is weird. It's voice only, completely anonymous. If you get disconnected, the only way to find the same person again is for both people to keep skipping strangers and get lucky enough to reconnect. It can happen, but it's rare

The first time we talked, something just clicked. Her accent, her voice, the way she spoke, everything felt warm, pehli bar me hi khatam hogya tha me, talked to soo many yet no one comes close to her actually. We got disconnected like 7 or 8 times because the app kept glitching, but every single time we'd spend 5-10 minutes skipping random people just to find each other again.

We ended up talking for hours that night

I asked for her Snapchat pretty early on and she said no,cuz she doesn't give anything to strangers, so I never really pushed it again. Later it felt like she was actually going to give it to me anyway, but we got disconnected again before it happened.

After that I couldn't find her.

I know it sounds stupid because we had only talked for a few hours, but I genuinely missed her, idk if she was my type , everything about her i loved it, vo rajasthani thi. For almost a week I got on the app at the same time every night hoping she'd show up. Nothing.

I was about to give up. I even prayed and told God that if she's meant to be in my life, ajj tak kisi ladki ke liye kia nhi , not even irl ones, somehow we'll meet again.

A few days later, at exactly 11:11 PM, I found her again. No kidding 😭 they say 11:11 is luck or something ( she was the one who told me )

I wish I was making that up

She remembered me too. Not my name, but she remembered me. We only talked for about two minutes, so excited in both side before trying to exchange Snapchat, and then the app disconnected us again.

I spent another half hour desperately trying to find her. No luck.

Then for another week I kept coming back every night looking for her. Nothing.

Eventually I gave up. One night around 12:30 AM I literally said "fuk this" and decided I was deleting the app. I was literally seconds away from closing it forever , this sounds so unreal but me sach me delete krne wala tha app band krke

And then I found her.😭😭 Movie ahh scene

Again.

This time we immediately exchanged Snapchat.

The moment we added each other, she called me on snap

Turns out she had been trying to find me too. The reason we never met was because she searched in the evenings while I searched late at night , we both missed each other so much even tho we know shi nothing about each other

After that, things moved fast.

We talked all night .Slept on call. Talked about everything. Future plans, dumb stuff, even future kids' names 😔💔. It felt effortless , i genuinely thought praying paid off , and it's a sign of god cuz it still feels unreal to find her after so long

The crazy part is I genuinely believed she was one of the sweetest people I'd ever met.like a girl i would go for war shi

Then she went back to her village for a weekend.was busy 2 days , pehle hi bataya tha bath nhi hogi , i said aight np

, Monday ko agai wapas , but

When she came back, something felt off.

The energy was gone.totally

Before, we'd both make effort. Now it felt like I was always the one asking to call. She'd say yes if I asked, but she'd never ask herself. Conversations got shorter. Everything felt dry.

The weird thing is nothing had actually changed. Same schedule, same life, same everything. But she felt like a completely different person.idk kya hua , kisni ne bola ye band kr ? Idk shi

A few days ago it was my birthday.

Before going to her village, she had remembered it and seemed excited about it

When the day actually came, she didn't even wish me.

I know that sounds small, but it hit me harder than I'd like to admit. Usko bataya nhi mene lekin ,

Ye sab chala for like 1 week

So I stopped messaging for two days just to see if she'd reach out first

She didn't. (Before village wala version, 200 calls kr leta agar same rehti to)

Today I finally got annoyed and asked what happened. She laughed it off and said she was just busy. Aur boli ki , ima call around 4:30 pm

I took a nap. Woke up 5 thought missed her call or something

she had unfriended me on Snapchat 😃 i mean bro , waaa

Just gone.

No goodbye. No explanation. Nothing. Me sirf use udar hi connected hu , vo insta use nhi krti or any other application ( gav ladki🥀 ) only snap and wp

Kabhi number nhi liye mene lekin

The worst part isn't even losing her.

It's that I spent weeks looking for this one random voice in a sea of strangers. Somehow we found each other over and over again against ridiculous odds of the universe , felt so unreal that maybe it's a sign of destination, and after all that, this is how it ends.

I always knew there was a chance this would happen.

I just didn't think it'd hurt this much when it actually did🥀

Pata hai aaj kya hua

I don’t even know if I’m living life or just forcing myself through days at this point.

21M. Crazy ass financial down bad past. Been earning since like 2-3 years now, seen way too much shi mentally for my age. And my whole life there’s been this one empty space inside me no matter what tf I do. Nothing fills it.

I thought maybe finding the love of my life would fix it someday. But now idek if that’s true either.

I don’t even stay inside all day depressed or some shi. I travel a lot, hang out with friends all the time, do crazy ass stuff, probably the wildest one in the group sometimes. Worked on myself too. Got lean. Started making money. Fixed my looks. , still long way to goo ,Tried becoming the version everyone says you gotta become first before getting love.

Yet I still feel lonely as fuck

"sometimes I feel so alone i could cry, but I don't , i never do because what would be the point"

And it’s weird because from outside my life probably doesn’t even look bad. But inside? Feels empty as hell.

Sometimes I be driving fast and randomly think if the brakes failed or some natural shi happened to me, I honestly don’t know if I’d even care that much.finally rest maybe , I'm done with this shi. And idk why tf my mind thinks like that.

I tried talking to girls online too these past months because I don’t got much IRL experience and don’t really go out locally like that. felt amazing honestly. Felt wanted for once. But then reality hits and you realize none of this shi is even real. People leave, feelings switch up, everything online feels temporary asf.

And now I’m scared because what if even after making more money, getting successful, getting the girl, doing everything “right”... this feeling still stays?

Then what tf is actually missing in me?

Maybe I’m built this way or maybe something in me broke a long time ago. Idek why I’m even posting this here man

Pata hai aaj kya hua

Been talking to a girl for about a month now. We met randomly online, and from day one the chemistry was there. We got close day 1 se hi ,vc, talking like a couple, calls, emotional talks, even sexting everything whole month

She’s actually the first person in my entire life I’ve talked to this much. I’ve had some experience before, but hell nah😭, nothing like this

I’ve never really had anything genuine before, so at first it felt amazing. The attention, the connection, all of it,got the dopamine hit I was craving. But now things are getting complicated

She lives in a different city. She had a past “relationship” (also online, never met IRL) that lasted a year. They broke up, but now she’s getting flashbacks of him. She told me she still misses the version of him she loved, not who he is now.she says "agar vo aya fir bhi nhi jaungi but I am still missing him " ( btw never deleted photos and recording , she says she can't rn , having mental breakdown)

She says she loves me, is scared of losing me, but also says she can’t commit to anyone right now, not even me. She’s confused, feels lonely, even mentioned having sui&idal thoughts. I’m basically the only person she talks to about all this. No irl fnd or family

So now I feel stuck.

On one side, I don’t want to leave her when she’s in this mental state. I’d feel guilty if something happened to her.

On the other side, I feel like I’m just an emotional backup. Like she’s using me to move on from her ex, and once she’s better, she might leave. And if her ex comes back, I honestly think she might go. Fir Mera kya bro 🥀

I’m not fully in love either, mere ko day 1 se pata tha uska past sune ke bad , shi ain a wife material or genuine gf, itna kharab he uska past ,but I like what she does , uska gussa , pyar , calls , texts , the attention she gives me everything ,it started as something casual and fun both side , and I can see this going bad for me if I stay.

She’s also not the same as she was in the first 2 to 3 weeks. She was kinda clingy, lekin abb dry ass hogai he , maybe cuz she having a mental break down this days Idk

And honestly, in my whole f***ing life I never had anything like this. And when I finally did, this is what I got 😭 why god why

I’m confused.

Do I stay and help her through this?

Do I leave now before I get more attached?

Or do I keep distance but still be there if she needs help?

Meko khud ko pata nhi bhai kya karu