u/vamvamvasi

Sorry i know the title makes me sound like a robot, i couldn’t think of a different way to phrase it 😭

Im basically trying to figure out how much time a relationship actually takes up. Like when you first start dating a girl, how often are you usually texting/calling/seeing each other?

Obviously every relationship is different, im just trying to work out if i realistically have enough time for one right now or if id end up not giving someone enough attention.

And i guess more generally, at what point do you stop waiting for your life to be “perfect” before you start dating and just… start dating

Please stop replying to posts about the stress of uni/group work with shit like "its like this in the workplace too" or "welcome to the real world".

we already know that life is hell & we're going to die in a climate disaster in the next 20 years. now get ur old + empl*yed ass out of here thx 😂👍

I used to hate in-person tests & only wanted to do hand-in assessments. But i’m ngl, i’ve realised that i actually prefer to do in-person tests bc you can just get it over and done with. With hand-in assessments the suffering gets prolonged

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Edit: didn’t expect to run out of gifts so fast! I’ll get more in the morning when i go for my daily pokestop walk :)

The switch to semesters is great because trimesters suck ass, but I'm also stressing because it means I can't fully plan my course progression. I'm doing an unconventional course progression, so having this info early as possible would be great, but there's not a lot of info online.

Has anyone heard anything about when/how info about the 2028 offerings will be released? If they're released in late 2027 im actually going to become ceiling decoration I NEED TO PLAN

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maybe i’m a chophoe who’s doing it wrong but i stg every time i try to use MyPlan it’s glitchy as fuck and makes it abysmally unclear whether or not a course i’ve picked for a particular term ACTUALLY is the ideal course progression.

what makes it a bit more complicated is that I’m planning on doing 2 courses a term until semmies come back, where i’ll do 3 courses a sem. Im also in the process of getting prior learning approved, which will hopefully slice 12 UOC for free electives & 12 UOC for general education off my graduation requirements.

Plus they’ve released basically no info about course offerings for 2028 🥲😔 so planning ahead is basically impossible fml

anyways long ahh post aside ✌️💔 any commiseration/advice/sympathy would be appreciated bros

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This includes time spent watching it + time spent studying the content in that lecture/taking notes.

Just asking to gauge where ppl are at & whats actually realistic vs unattainable lol. I'm doing biology and geoscience rn and I'm ngl i spend like 4 hours each lecture & I feel super slow 😔

Currently in my 1st year & 2nd term of a new Bachelors degree that I started this year. Since graduating high school in 2022, I knew that my university years werent going to be easy in the slightest. I spent the next 3 years (‘23, ‘24, ‘25) doing 2 different degrees in fields that I hated, performed poorly in, but because of my lack of faith in my skill I didn’t feel I could do anything else.

Now that I’ve started my new degree, I feel so confident that this is the field I want to work in for the rest of my life. Learning new things in labs & lectures are so rewarding because I don’t just want to graduate, get a piece of paper, and go — I really want to absorb as much as I can while I’m here.

The problem is that my severe anxiety and ADHD (which I only just got medicated for a few months ago) is like a giant, steep cliff blocking my path. The same lecture that my peers might watch in 1 hour, takes notes on and remember/understand 75% of the content in, would take me comparatively 2.5 hours to watch and takes notes on just so I can remember the same amount. I can feel the difference in effort my peers put in vs my effort for the exact same result so keenly, and it’s hard to not feel shame in myself.

Because of my slower learning needs, I’ve decided to extend my 3 year degree into 4 years. It’ll still technically be a full-time course load, but just an underloaded one. Even though I know this is the right decision for my learning & my mental health, I don’t know how to feel ok about myself. I can’t help but think “If I started this degree right out of high school, I would have been graduated last year”. I also want to do an Honours year, so I’ll end up graduating in 2030 at the age of 26. One of my classmates is 18 and in her first year of this degree as well, and she keeps making comments about how old I am (I’m 22) and it’s just compounded my feelings of shame, and sometimes more worrisome thoughts.

Sorry for the massively long-winded post, I just needed to get this off my chest even if only 1 person reads it. If anyone has advice, or has been in a similar situation before, or even just words of encouragement I would really appreciate hearing from you

Currently in my 1st year & 2nd term of a new Bachelors degree that I started this year. Since graduating high school in 2022, I knew that my university years werent going to be easy in the slightest. I spent the next 3 years (‘23, ‘24, ‘25) doing 2 different degrees in fields that I hated, performed poorly in, but because of my lack of faith in my skill I didn’t feel I could do anything else.

Now that I’ve started my new degree, I feel so confident that this is the field I want to work in for the rest of my life. Learning new things in labs & lectures are so rewarding because I don’t just want to get the graduate, piece of paper, and go — I really want to absorb as much as I can while I’m here.

The problem is that my severe anxiety and ADHD (which I only just got medicated for a few months ago) is like a giant, steep cliff blocking my path. The same lecture that my peers might watch in 1 hour, takes notes on and remember/understand 75% of the content in, would take me comparatively 2.5 hours to watch and takes notes on just so I can remember the same amount. I can feel the difference in effort my peers put in vs my effort for the exact same result so keenly, and it’s hard to not feel shame in myself.

Because of my slower learning needs, I’ve decided to extend my 3 year degree into 4 years. It’ll still technically be a full-time course load, but just an underloaded one. Even though I know this is the right decision for my learning & my mental health, I don’t know how to feel ok about myself. I can’t help but think “If I started this degree right out of high school, I would have been graduated last year”. I also want to do an Honours year, so I’ll end up graduating in 2030 at the age of 26. One of my classmates is 18 and in her first year of this degree as well, and she keeps making comments about how old I am (I’m 22) and it’s just compounded my feelings of shame, and sometimes more worrisome thoughts.

Sorry for the massively long-winded post, I just needed to get this off my chest even if only 1 person reads it. If anyone has advice, or has been in a similar situation before, or even just words of encouragement I would really appreciate hearing from you

Employmentmaxxing and experiencepilled bros pls help me. I’m in my first year of my bachelors (science field) and i’m currently on YA + doing some science-related volunteering.

I’m js lowkey worried bc idek how to find a relevant part time/casual job that would actually look good to future employers. Like who tf actually hires undergrads 😭 Do i just go on indeed and apply like crazy?