My time and peace are precious commodities

I have been single for 4 years, living alone for 4 years and I have realized that my time and peace are precious commodities.

An old friend from college came to visit and it’s a long story but he expected to be driven around town, expected a grand tour of my city etc he was unemployed for a long time and finally got a new job and didn’t want to spend money on a hotel and a rental car

I wanted to spend this 4th of July weekend decorating my living room but he’s there sleeping in my living room and I said to myself okay I don’t mind playing hostess because he’s an old friend but I do feel that he intruded on what would’ve been a relaxing long weekend for me.

I thought he was leaving Sunday morning but turns out he’s leaving Sunday evening and he wants to go out and eat when I really wanted to just stay in bed and doom scroll because it’s back to work tomorrow Monday.

I promised myself apart from my parents, this is the last time I will allow anyone to stay at my place.

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u/vegas_lov3 — 1 day ago

My 2nd fertility doctor declines to proceed with IVF

Last night, his nurse sent me (44f) a message to stop all medications because my labs and ultrasound are not where it’s supposed to be. He recommends to stop and take a break. And I will. I’m going to Hawaii in 2 weeks just to rest and relax my mind. It’s all I’ve been thinking about since last year.

I am looking at getting a 3rd opinion in California from another fertility doctor.

It’s so unfair.

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u/vegas_lov3 — 2 months ago

I (44f) became a hockey fan when I saw Four Nations last year so when the Vegas Golden Knights signed them, I thought it’s not gonna last.

But they’re winning in the playoffs and what’s worse is everyone seems to have forgotten what they did!

It pains me to see other women especially young women glorify these men.

Does karma even exist?!

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u/vegas_lov3 — 2 months ago