u/ventilate89

▲ 2 r/basslessons+1 crossposts

Playing with drums and other common time signatures (Compound time, 2/4, 3/4)

I played a riff with 4/4 but swapped to 3/4 before riffing again, I also need help with navigating through the beat like kick and snare but also for the hats, I also want to try playing 3/4 and 2/4, I can't "feel" and improv any basslines without floppiness with drums even on 4/4, I can somehow play 12/8 and 6/8.

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u/ventilate89 — 9 hours ago

Arousing text

I remembered detailing porn I watched to someone and I didn't see it but I'm scared, what if I see it? I'm scared that I'll relapse

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u/ventilate89 — 18 hours ago

Demons

Day 14, I kept getting tempted and I almost acted on it, it feels weird, I get tempted more and I manage to resist but I'm afraid of falling

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u/ventilate89 — 2 days ago

I'm scared

Day 13, I play an instrument being an electric bass guitar, I play sitting down and the vibrations reaching my penis unintentionally made me scared because of vibrators existing, I play music and I will never intentionally use it to pleasure sexually. And then I keep getting triggered and almost giving in,.

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u/ventilate89 — 3 days ago

Questions for Christians with no sort of Catechism

I'm talking about Protestants who don't have a Catechism which they believe is fallible.

  1. How do you know if something is sin when not made in the Bible? Others will justify their sin because of such like "dude it's just for physical sensation not lust". Ex: Master baiting

  2. What does your pastor's sermon usually look like?

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u/ventilate89 — 3 days ago

Tuning examples and Note names

For standard tunings of instruments in a different pitch that include accidentals, why do some (example take a guitar) use flats for one tuning (Eb Standard) and another can be flexible in what it's called (C#/Db Standard)

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u/ventilate89 — 4 days ago

I feel no shame being abnormal

I feel no shame in Quitting porn and self defiling. It only removed my urge to do it, it literally kills my libido and that's it, urge - eroticism - fap - no more urge to imagine or see. And with all these secular studies, I'm not ashamed for being tempted and not acting, I'm not ashamed for fighting lust in all circumstances. It will never be ok to me, if I will fall I will be rebuilt.

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u/ventilate89 — 4 days ago

Kinks

Aight I saw a video (comedy) of a woman taking off he shirt (there's something under) and was almost tempted but I came to a more nuanced approach, how do I stop such from triggerin me like kisses, touching, sex anecdotes/stories since I saw a climax subliminal thing, I did not relapse but I want ideas to help me defend from these temptations since I'm imagining things as I like writing stories.

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u/ventilate89 — 5 days ago
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Insecurity

Man I don't have an audio interface and im insecure about recording and people not hearing my stuff on mobile devices

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u/ventilate89 — 5 days ago

Slowly getting stronger

Porn I killed, lust will linger and abuse me.

I had a dream and it was sexual but it wasn't wet and when I woke up I started reacting to it, didn't fail but I realized my daze was beginning again

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u/ventilate89 — 5 days ago

I almost failed but rebounded

Tomorrow, I will attempt to go to mass for our Lord.

I, have almost fell by watching a Youtube video of a girl admitting to gooning, and then I saw a comment from a psychology student saying masturbation is hormonally and mentally healthy. Then I snapped, even now my penis feels a sensation, it's my 10th day, I've never went this far, I decided to dance as an attempt fore exercise while playing "It's not me it's you" by Skillet, it was my way of reminding me that 1 dopamine rush was not worth my dignity. I need help now that I got a phone to use and my temptations will be increased.

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u/ventilate89 — 6 days ago
▲ 3 r/ContaminationOCD+1 crossposts

Contamination and how to sit with it

I fear bodily fluids or people touching their private parts or buttocks or them making contact with things with them. I need to "sit with certainty" since my siblings keep doing these before taking a bath and it's disturbing me, I also keep cleaning electronics and other stuff they touch, please help me I don't wanna clean all the time but also keep my sense of disgus.

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u/ventilate89 — 6 days ago

For other folks out there, is porn not the problem or the aftermath of porn?

For example, you trained yourself with sexual imagination to masturbate, developed kinks, lust more often or masturbation addiction?
I developed all 3 of these, and I'm wondering about everyone else.

Edit: have you also been pursuing chastity? I'm currently 9 days and I'm wondering about you guys

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u/ventilate89 — 7 days ago

Im failing

I wanted to view a non nsfw video that triggered my last relapse. I woke up an hour ago. i feel more drained, i snapped from my daze but am worrying about relapse, im worried what happened before will happen again, 8 days clean.

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u/ventilate89 — 8 days ago
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It's My Life

It's My Life By Bon Jovi, is this a good song for beginners? It's a special song to me an d I'm planning to learn this as my first fingers song while learning another song for pick.

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u/ventilate89 — 8 days ago