u/via_govi

My 2 year relationship ended a few months ago. It took me some time to process everything, step back and really understand myself and what I want from life.

Since then, I've been putting a lot of effort into myself. My physique, my looks, my career, my future, everything. I'm pretty ambitious and I genuinely want to become the best version of myself.

But somewhere along the way, I realised there's one thing I genuinely miss.
Taking care of someone emotionally.

I'm 25M, a Software Developer based in Pune, India. I'm a pretty emotional person. I like deep conversations, remembering the little things, being there after a bad day, and making someone feel heard and understood. I miss having someone I can care about like that.

At the same time, I want someone who's on the same mental wavelength. Someone I can talk to about anything, laugh with, challenge each other, disagree without turning it into a war, and still feel like we're on the same team.

I've learned to be happy on my own. I just think sharing that happiness with the right person would make it a little more special.

So yeah, maybe I'm ready to fall in love again.
What makes you feel like you've found the right person?

My 2 year relationship ended a few months ago. It took me some time to process everything, step back and really understand myself and what I want from life.

Since then, I've been putting a lot of effort into myself. My physique, my looks, my career, my future, everything. I'm pretty ambitious and I genuinely want to become the best version of myself.

But somewhere along the way, I realised there's one thing I genuinely miss.
Taking care of someone emotionally.

I'm 25M, a Software Developer based in Pune, Mumbai India. I'm a pretty emotional person. I like deep conversations, remembering the little things, being there after a bad day, and making someone feel heard and understood. I miss having someone I can care about like that.

At the same time, I want someone who's on the same mental wavelength. Someone I can talk to about anything, laugh with, challenge each other, disagree without turning it into a war, and still feel like we're on the same team.

I've learned to be happy on my own. I just think sharing that happiness with the right person would make it a little more special.

So yeah, maybe I'm ready to fall in love again.
What makes you feel like you've found the right person?

My 2 year relationship ended a few months ago. It took me some time to process everything, step back and really understand myself and what I want from life.

Since then, I've been putting a lot of effort into myself. My physique, my looks, my career, my future, everything. I'm pretty ambitious and I genuinely want to become the best version of myself.

But somewhere along the way, I realised there's one thing I genuinely miss.
Taking care of someone emotionally.

I'm 25M, a Software Developer based in Pune, India. I'm a pretty emotional person. I like deep conversations, remembering the little things, being there after a bad day, and making someone feel heard and understood. I miss having someone I can care about like that.

At the same time, I want someone who's on the same mental wavelength. Someone I can talk to about anything, laugh with, challenge each other, disagree without turning it into a war, and still feel like we're on the same team.

I've learned to be happy on my own. I just think sharing that happiness with the right person would make it a little more special.

So yeah, maybe I'm ready to fall in love again.
What makes you feel like you've found the right person?

My 2 year relationship ended a few months ago. It took me some time to process everything, step back and really understand myself and what I want from life.

Since then, I've been putting a lot of effort into myself. My physique, my looks, my career, my future, everything. I'm pretty ambitious and I genuinely want to become the best version of myself.

But somewhere along the way, I realised there's one thing I genuinely miss.
Taking care of someone emotionally.

I'm 25M, a Software Developer based in Pune, India. I'm a pretty emotional person. I like deep conversations, remembering the little things, being there after a bad day, and making someone feel heard and understood. I miss having someone I can care about like that.

At the same time, I want someone who's on the same mental wavelength. Someone I can talk to about anything, laugh with, challenge each other, disagree without turning it into a war, and still feel like we're on the same team.

I've learned to be happy on my own. I just think sharing that happiness with the right person would make it a little more special.

So yeah, maybe I'm ready to fall in love again.
What makes you feel like you've found the right person?

Hello guys,

Age: 25Y, stable monthly income, already have built an emergency fund, and health insurance.

Risk Appetite : Moderate (Nippon Survey)
Goal: Real Estate corpus building
Time Horizon: 10-15 years
Current SIP - 34k/month
Currently accommodated - Rs 3L (has been a year of SIP)

Current Allocation with 10% annual step-up
PPFAS - 15k/month
Navi Nifty 50 - 8k/month
Bandhan Small Cap - 5k/month
ICICI Pru Gold ETF FoF - 4k/month
ICICI Pru Silver ETF FoF - 2k/month

Want to increase this to around 50k/month, need recommendations for aggressive returns

Hey everyone! 🌟

We’re putting together a small, easygoing group for a Kolad trip on 1st–2nd May. Plan is Pune → Kolad by bus/car, staying at Zostel (~₹1k/night).

Right now we’re 5 people (3 guys, 2 girls) — fun, sorted crowd, and we’d love to add a few more like-minded folks. Think river rafting, good conversations, and a relaxed vibe overall.

Everything’s planned to be comfortable and safe — no chaos, just a well-balanced trip with good energy.

If this sounds like your kind of getaway, DM!