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Ben Affleck shares how he overcame his alcohol addiction. Says it is not "overpriced rehabs".

"I hate to say it but the cure for addiction and the only cure I've seen is not these overpriced rehabs or these fraudulent fixes that are sold to people"

"The cure for addiction is suffering"

"You suffer enough and then something inside you goes 'I'm done"

like is this true , one fine random day ala lechesiii annii aapeyali anpinchestadaa..

mari aaroj enduk kontha mandikeee ostad

kontha mandi why are they stuck on infinite loops

typo - independence day*

ok this country is not perfect ,

atleast we are not under someone , war ayi mee family pillalu em chanipovatledu , like small muslim countries or even north korea ankondi

i mean ofc uk ee country maaradu , aparichithudu lo chupinchidi holds true till date..

but atleast valu annni yrs fight chesi , pranaalu / sacrifices ni ayna gurtuchinachtam eh kaada raa babuu,

adi odlesi freedom led country maaradu lifestyle led quality of life led , adhantha diff story kada how yall linking both ..

ee madhyaa kotthaga vintuna ,

vala defense lo we are mature enough to stay in contact and not feel anything type lo cheptunnarrr.. like happy b'day happy dusshera/diwali tht doesn't count .. more than that type of contact

no contact is only the correct way to be ani nen ankuntunde eroj daaka .. what's ur views

or meeku movie lo emaina nachinda , mee opinions kuda rayandi .. 😋

software jobs context lo

how do some avg human with avg brain survive

candidates emo IIT level expect chestaru... Icchedi emo 10k 😋

asal dintlo career cheskovali antene baayam aytund, oka 5 yrs mundu puttina aypodh... Prime number program kottii job kottestunde 🙂‍↕️

edo meme chusa ..

Companies replacing junior roles with Al, only to complain about the lack of senior talent in 4-5 years, is going to be the most predictable crisis in hiring history

software jobs context lo

how do some avg human with avg brain survive

candidates emo IIT level expect chestaru... Icchedi emo 10k 😋

asal dintlo career cheskovali antene baayam aytund, oka 5 yrs mundu puttina aypodh... Prime number program kottii job kottestunde 🙂‍↕️

edo meme chusa ..

Companies replacing junior roles with Al, only to complain about the lack of senior talent in 4-5 years, is going to be the most predictable crisis in hiring history

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telugu subs lo gender wars common kaada... Kottukondii prled

but enduk kottukunnaarr telskondi..

Y'all act like this shit or system antha meeme istaamga cheskunnam.. edo mimalnii tokkeyallii anesi 🥰 ,

Soo ila random ga yt lo vid pop ayinde.. where did it all start ani.. soo history interest unte sadvandi..leda skip this post

Soo vid lo content kinda raasan 🏃

edo share cheyal anpinchind..

One of the most common assumptions people make is that patriarchy has always existed—that men have naturally held power throughout history because that's simply how human societies evolved.

But what if that's not true?

A perspective shared by many historians and anthropologists is that patriarchy wasn't an inevitable part of human civilization. Instead, it emerged gradually through changes in how societies were organized.

Before Agriculture

For most of human history, people lived as hunter-gatherers. Men and women often had different responsibilities, but these roles were generally interdependent. Survival depended on cooperation rather than domination. While these societies were not necessarily perfectly equal, archaeological and anthropological evidence suggests that many were less hierarchical than later civilizations.

The Agricultural Revolution Changed Everything

Around 10,000–12,000 years ago, humans began settling in one place and farming.

This brought enormous changes:

• Land became valuable.

• People accumulated wealth.

• Private property emerged.

• Families began passing property to future generations.

Once inheritance became important, societies became increasingly concerned with establishing biological lineage. Ensuring that property passed to one's own descendants meant controlling women's sexuality and reproductive lives more strictly than before.

Over time, these concerns became embedded in laws, customs, and social expectations.

How Patriarchy Became "Normal"

Over centuries, patriarchal structures spread through:

- Governments

- Religious traditions

- Economic systems

- Family structures

- Cultural expectations

Because generation after generation grew up within these systems, many people came to believe they reflected "human nature" rather than historical developments.

What began as a response to economic and political changes eventually became deeply woven into everyday life.

Does This Mean Patriarchy Is Universal?

Not necessarily.

Historians continue to debate exactly when patriarchy emerged, how it developed in different parts of the world, and whether all early societies followed the same path.

However, many scholars agree that the rise of agriculture, private property, inheritance, and centralized states played a major role in increasing gender inequality.

Why This Matters Today.

Understanding the origins of patriarchy isn't about assigning blame to people living today.

It's about recognizing that many social systems are created by human choices and historical circumstances—not by biology alone.

If institutions can be built over thousands of years, they can also evolve.

History reminds us that societies are not fixed. They change. Laws change. Norms change. Ideas change.

And perhaps the most important lesson is this:

What feels "natural" today may simply be something history has taught us to accept.

meer normal person and vaal ala

edit: like ante romantic aspect lo chudatam. life long can u be with a person like tht

drop ya stories 🏃

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leda na okkadki bike eh saatayistunda

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Age: 21, M

Height: 5’8

Religion: Hindu

Dietary Habits: Non Veg (meeru edi tinna I respect that, as long as you're sharing a bite 🤭)

A little something about me (well, not exactly "little"):

Straight ga cheptha…

Timepassluu, situationshiplu, “let’s see where it goes” type kaadu nenu. Yeah will take it slow.. but long-term, real connection kavali. Efforts petti build cheskundam.

Naaku matladadam ante pichii!

Yapping lo PhD almost complete… topic emaina parledhu, random nonsense nunchi deep life discussions varaku full coverage. Silent ga unde vallatho kuda matladinchi open cheyyagalanu. Just nenu maatrame matladatam ani kaadu, I'm also ready to listen! Mee yap kuda vintaanuu and mimalni constant ga motivate/push chestanu. Cos basically nen chala positive manishi (over ga kaadu… realistic positivity), thanks to the books I've read which changed my life ✨

Inka nen chala pedda series/movie buff 🎬. Ante ee TFI baanisa batch kaadu, manadi antha world cinema batch ankondi. So yeah, Insta ID adige mundu “nee Letterboxd enti?” ani adige type nenu 😌

Dates ante…

Eee flashy/fancy places kanna.. tea + long talks + sunsets prefer chesta. Cos it's not always about the place but also about the person ani nammutaa.

What I am looking for:

-> Clear ga unde vaalu (no confusion please 🫡)

-> Honest ga unde vaalu

-> Genuine ga effort pettevaalu, cause ofc, it takes two people to build something kaada?

-> Koncham ambitious undaali. Short term or long term goals undiii, ala vaatikosam edokati chestuuu

-> Manam iddaram kalsi eedhagaali ana mindset

Bonus points if cars/bikes interest unte... and also meek kuda old music nacchute

Final ga…

Ghost cheyyadam kanna “bye” cheppagalige ammayi kavali 🤸

If you think mana vibe match avutundi, then DM cheyyandi 😆

Worst case scenario: Oka manchi conversation dorukutundi

Best case scenario: Mana story start avutundi 👀

Y'ALL DESERVE THT 🥰🎀

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sontha intlol kuda paisal lekapothey/sampadinchak pothey value istaler ga.. 😃🏃

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em society oo , em unrealistic expectations ohh , brainwash asal motham parents.. mainly amma lu..

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appatlo pspk inka jagan apud start ayna lollii.. why bhai paapam adni reviews cheskonivvara..

sare okay koncham ekkuva chestad but he has his points on most of the times ...

I mean 2nd time tisesaar vid 😭 .. paapam

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