u/wealthyprincessx

So, I need advice seriously, I 21F started talking to this guy 31M, he doesn't live where I live so we met off a dating site, fast forward we had our first call a little while back, sometime last week, we spoke about how he wanted to fly me in just for a few days, for our first date, I was gonna have my own place and everything, he was suggesting protocols and language to make me comfortable enough to not freak me out because flying out conversations can easily get like that. Towards the end of the call, he goes and tells me to think about it and let him know and I agreed.

The next morning we spoke like normal, he told me about his day and I told him about mine, I didn't want to bring up the phone call because I didn't want to sound eager or thristy, following that day, the next day I did not bring it up again as to if I have agreed or not, he was joking with me talking bout how his day is getting busy and that I should enjoy my evening plans (I told him I had evening plans) so the conversation ended. That was last week Wednesday and I haven't heard from him till now? Its dead silent and I am so confused because he is really a chatter box. Communicates effectively, I know I've been ghosted but I am confused as to why?

So, I need advice seriously, I 24F started talking to this guy 31M, he doesn't live where I live so we met off a dating site, fast forward we had our first call a little while back, sometime last week, we spoke about how he wanted to fly me in just for a few days, for our first date, I was gonna have my own place and everything, he was suggesting protocols and language to make me comfortable enough not to freak me out because flying out conversations can easily get like that. Towards the end of the call, he goes and tells me to think about it and let him know and I agreed.

The next morning we spoke like normal, he told me about his day and I told him about mine, I didn't want to bring up the phone call because I didn't want to sound eager or thristy, following that day, the next day I did not bring it up again as to if I have agreed or not, he was joking with me talking bout how his day is getting busy and that I should enjoy my evening plans (I told him I had evening plans) so the conversation ended. That was last week Wednesday and I haven't heard from him till now? Its dead silent and I am so confused because he is really a chatter box. Communicates effectively, I know I've been ghosted but I am confused as to why?

UPDATE: I texted him saying that I was open to meeting him in person and seeing if he’s keen still and he said verbatim “unquestionably and absolutely still interested and wants to find out how he can work with my schedule to make sure I'm comfortable.”

Okay so Cynthia ATE with that house I’m not gonna lie, that felt VERY OG of her, set her apart by far and I love love loved it.
Kelli and Shamea just annoying asf I’m sorry, Porsha right, let’s give Cynthia some grace, yall didn’t tell her from the start that the house is dirty and even if it was, there’s plenty of time to come and shower somewhere else and get ready, just tryna be difficult. Porsha is right it IS a bit much hey, there’s no need to even pick sides Pinky, you’re new !!! and this is about a room. They acting like these ladies hosting game is a 10, it usually isn’t. I love the support Porsha is giving Cynthia.

Cynthia is right, the girls didn’t not have the same energy that Pinky is presenting at the table, they were nice and it’s confusing how Frick and Frack even come into play because you two are the ones positioning yourselves as bestfriends, Phaedra and Porsha never call themselves that lmao.

Kelli’s problem with Porsha is purely fabricated I’m sorry, it’s giving lap dog BUT Porsha where’s the proof of Kelli fucking a married man lol , she’s trying to cover her tracks sorry. And the deflecting to bring up Phaedra and Pinky’s problem
?? AND this is classic Phaedra she always gets Porsha to start her confrontations for her, and the ONE who said it (the meat thing) IS Kelli ? And Shamea knows this.

PINKY ?? “BITCH” Because when did this become about what Angela got on? I’m sorry Pinky strike me as insecure and just lame, because was ‘bitch’ necessary ? Pinky so embarrassing lmao, why she just sat down after saying she gone leave? Easily triggered and for what ? Angela ate her up, calmly too.😭😭

K is such a bore sometimes like please and I like her but omg. These girls are trying to divide themselves (K, Shamea, Pink and Kelli).

(These are live watch thoughts, as in I was thinking them while watching and writing them down lmao).

No 1. Pinky and her weird aversion of asking her husband, who she’s been married to for years for money is a little jarring considering they keep saying his worth a $10mil or so, on top of that credible news sources are REPORTING that you are filing for bankruptcy but somehow your husband still doesn’t know ? Her husband couldn’t wait 45 mins for him to leave the event… Y’all something fishy and it ain’t just Pinky in the back of her restaurant. Oh okay so she told him and he was willing to help so what’s with the trying to be strong tuff girl? Wdym Victim?

No. 2 I love Angela but this friendship that she’s formed with Porsha and Phaedra gotta be motivated and strongly too, not just because of Phaedra but because of how Porsha acted, which was absolutely insane and I don’t see how she’s able to move past that and laugh in her face lmao. But she’s a better woman than me for sure because even Phaedra was foul. Also Angela and her husband are so misunderstood lmao I love them in their own way.

No 3. K.Michelle constantly trying to find problem with the OG’s for screen time lmao because baby Porsha loves you as far as we’ve seen and I love K but it’s a bit much with the two face thing.

No.4 Kelli real funny this ep “Porsha with a side of African” and so is Phaedra “Okay girl pay it to the rent man” LMFAO I hate this btch Phaedra but she be having them once in a while liners lmao.

No.5 Shamea baby this husband isn’t interested anymore hey, I think we need to hang it up flat screen because why is he not even trying ? And yall was saying Charles is bad ? AND Shamea is allowed to want Cynthia to be a Godmother to her kids because really what’s the problem ? You have boys and Cynthia got a girl whose well into her twenties and thriving, the results are showing and Phaedra was literally bringing fake rape rumours accusing her ‘friend’ NAUR and why would Shamea sit there and say she would want you to be the Godmother when her and Kandi tight as thieves.

No 6. PORSHA “not babe” Porsha and Dennis need to stop playing with us and get together it’s clear ain’t no co-parenting going on.

First day at a new internship tomorrow and I need to vent but also genuinely need tips because I have no idea what I’m doing. I don’t normally get nervous about stuff but this has got me genuinely freaking out. It’s a smaller company which honestly makes it worse because there’s nowhere to hide. I’ll actually be interacting with people closely instead of just blending into some corporate machine. My boss gave me a rough outline of what I’ll be doing during the interview but beyond that I’m essentially starting from zero and already feeling unprepared.

I’m still in school so I’m also trying to figure out how I’m even going to manage my schedule around this without completely falling apart, I feel like an imposter. I also genuinely do not know what to pack for lunch tomorrow. AND do I even carry coffee? I hate coffee. Do I just suffer through it?

I know I’ll probably be fine once I’m actually there because I’m not usually the awkward type but something about this has me feeling like a completely different person. Anyone who’s been through their first day at work or an internship, how did you get through it? Does it get normal fast?