support and motivate me man. (imma get this for sure)
last year my streak was 30 days , (i remember losing a bet with my friends that I'll do a month which is 31 days but i failed at 30 and ever since it's been a year and I still can't get to that level)
I'm starting fresh with you all support! wish me luck people.
I wanna talk about how confident you are and how fapping affects our confidence.
I usually feel rock bottom whenever I fap , what about you guys? are you doing nofap to gain your confidence back?
in my past experience, when I crossed 20-25 days in, i was shinning man , filled with confidence and hope and i even started liking myself, taking pictures of me it was getting better but then I relapsed but ig our confidence is really linked to not fapping.
tell me if you have had any similar experiences or just something quite opposite?
I'm looking for a woman to help me quit it. I'm tired and just fed up with porn addiction, i need someone who can hold me accountable and navigate me whenever I mess up. I'll tell them if I have the urges.
and especially creeps pls just stay away, I just wanna get better and not have you guys in my inbox trying to make me relapse again.
I'm friendly, patient and kind, i hope you're the same as well.
edit - I'll let y'all know if i find someone. (so far no one)
I'm 21M, indian, sick of porn (not such an addict but somewhat always drawn to it like once a week)
i really wanna change my habits and be responsible for my future, i wanna start reading, studying and delete all my socials and just don't wanna waste my time on junk.
i prefer a female just cos I can be authentic and respectful, I'm friendly and kind but not confident yet( not at all optimistic, if one bad step I'm all negative), that's why I'm looking for someone who can genuinely help me get better and hold me accountable when needed.
i just want to change for good and learn discipline and be a responsible person.
this mod says i need to text more for this post to get posted but that's all I can text rn akcjsksn
okay so, I always wake up with my phone right next to me, open social media and then doomscroll and then when I'm done I get ready for the day, i start with eating at 12pm but i always watch something while i eat and after eating that yt vid drags on hen i play some or the other games and then just play sudoku on my pc with some Spotify, and then play games and watch something then eat and this is just my whole wasted days!
when I say I wanna be disciplined I wanna start off with no mobile, (my screen time is 6-7 hours , I want them to be 1-2 hrs) , I want to start my day with studying and then eat food without watching anything or something just for 10-15 mins and do not prolong it, I want to get back to workout and take care of body. i want to start reading books and do meditation but all of this feels heavy and I can never do them, even a small miss i just waste my whole day and might just peek at something +18 and relapse. and i hope this is enough but this is me.
i just need someone who can genuinely care about helping me get away from this addiction and vice versa..
and i don't want any creeps in here texting me stuff they shouldn't be.. I just want to get away from this addiction..
my only problem is peeking and that just turns into relapse and guilt negative emotions..
i prefer a women but anyone serious is just fine and pls be kind and friendly, thank you.
Edit - still did not find anyone accountable.
I'm 21m and I'm just down, i was fed up with fapping 4 days ago and wasn't really looking at anything but then suddenly everything has to happen on a random ass time right?
i usually can stay away from porn, I get urges and I can just notice them and just think about something else it's easy but everything just collapses as soon as i watch something +18 , like it's fine those posts or anything apart from actual visibility of +18 content.
if i just even peek then the next series is for sure relapse for me , every time it just starts with a peek and ends with drowning in negative emotions.
what can I do man? i need someone helping me at this point, pls I tried accountability but weird guys just pop in and try to talk about stuff which is +18 only can we just get better? I prefer a female because I genuinely wanna get over this, and i wonder if there's anyone really serious about helping me genuinely, instead of staying offline all the time.
I just need someone to vent at this point.. thanks for reading till here.
let's see i might get an easy one but I'm straight up doing it, doesn't how many imma do it.
could be any song, I'll listen to em and rate one by one!
i love listening to songs a lot, and I listen to all of the genres!
i just got in an internship and I'm kinda clueless on how everything works and I'm so scared and anxious, i asked about it to one of my close friends and he got mad and started to scold me and worry me more.
how should I approach this? I'm trying my best to keep up but I'm just so anxious as it's my first internship and I kinda lack skills as well.
how do I start living with myself without being scared? Every time I get scared I find myself listening to smoothing songs in a dark room trying to escape and forget everything but I want to move ahead in my life and tackle those things out there and learn everything step by step.
I recently decided to start studying again after a really long time, but something weird happened. I was only studying for about 30 minutes and suddenly I got extremely sleepy. Like, I literally couldn’t keep my eyes open and ended up sleeping.
After waking up, I felt discouraged and like I just couldn’t study anymore. It’s confusing because I actually wanted to study, but my brain and body just shut down.
Has this happened to anyone else after taking a long break from studying? Is it mental exhaustion, lack of focus, boredom, bad sleep schedule, or something else? How do you train yourself to study again without feeling sleepy so fast?
I’d really appreciate advice from people who went through this.
So i (22M) met this girl(22F) 3 months ago on Instagram and we kind of vibe together, we started to text on a daily basis and soon started to spend more and more time to the point where we both are kinda attached and now idk if I can do it with her cause she's so far (different country) and our ethnicity don't match as well and I don't earn yet , I'm not settled to go on my own to pursue her , so I told her "let's just back off and stay friends" she's so hurt by it and locking herself off now.
(we both really like each other but it's still just the beginning and idk I have trust issues in the past and long distance can be painful if you guys are serious about eachother)
i told her I'll focus on myself and my career until I get a decent job and save funds for my travels but before all of that i genuinely didn't want her to have false hopes cause anything can happen in life.
so am i an asshole of straight up telling her I can't do it?